Guys with specific physical demands for mate

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You know, for all the insecurity guys I know have about their genitals and musculature, you’d think they’d be a little more sympathetic…

Any guy who treats me like that gets a swift kick in the pants. No questions asked. Honestly, I love how guys blame lustful thoughts on A) women’s immodesty or B) their own biology. Yeah, I get it, those are issues, but c’mon! Rise above it, dudes! You’re better than what society tells you to be.
 
I would give him my number, lol. 😉 I’m very endowed in that area. I even have people ask me which doctor I went to. 😃 And I say, “God”. 😛 And then wonder why people have the need to ask and/or feel them. :rolleyes:
 
flyingfish said:
I’m also a woman, but I would not judge a man who absolutely had to have a big breasted partner. If that’s who he is, and if large breasts are necessary for him to be attracted to a woman then there is no point telling him to grow up. He might change his preferences, but he might not.

As a woman I prefer tall and muscular men. Does that make me immature, or honest about what I’m attracted to? I don’t think I could ever be attracted to a man who was shorter than I am and overweight, I just don’t see it happening.
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While this may appear some what superficial, many of us have physical requirements of a potential spouse. Some like short, tall, muscular, chubby, dark hair, light hair, etc. We all have our preferences on body type. The only reason we are harping on this is because it is chest size as oppose to something like height.

While I can careless about a woman’s chest size, I really only want to date thin/fit girls because I am very fit/thin/muscular and feel I wouldn’t be that compatible with a girl who doesn’t actively try to keep herself in good physical shape.
 
Everyone has their preferences the key is not to let that blind you to the real person.

Sure I’d love a Keneau Reeves or Orlando Bloom type of guy but realisticly those guys go for people in their own league which I’m not. :rolleyes: Still the heart is the most important thing to look for in someone. 👍😃
 
You don’t really have control over what you’re attracted to, so why bother fighting it? It’s not superficial, it’s genetics. You’re not going to have a great romantic relationship with someone who you think is a swell person, likes all the same things you do but isn’t attractive in your eyes. You just won’t.

Now, I think focusing on just one body part is a little weird, if indeed there is a very specific focus like the OP indicates. But quite frankly, very small breasts are an outward signal that a woman is either sexually immature or not fully equipped for fertility. Sure, that woman could later go on to have eight kids, but the first thing a man thinks subconsciously when he sees very small breasts is “not fertile, move on,” and the response by the brain is to be less attracted to that woman. And when a woman sees a very thin/scrawny guy, her subconscious says “can’t protect me or children, move on” and she’s likely not very attracted to him. So what?

If you just can’t find a person attractive because of some trait(s), that’s not your fault and to try and disparage someone as superficial is just wrong. On the other hand, if you think a girl is great in every way and attractive, but you’d prefer one or two things to be changed and you won’t date her or marry her or something because she’s not “perfect” well… then you’ve got a problem because there’s no such thing as a perfect woman. Except my wife.
 
phil8888 said:
What would you say to a male friend who says he has a really good gf but he wants a girl with bigger breasts or something?
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i’d say to him,. to each his own. its his pref. if that is what he prefers, then that is what he prefers. so long as he doesn’t hurt his current gf, then his opinion is just that an opinion.
 
Let’s not forget that looks are something which is 100% guaranteed to change in the future. If a guy is shallow enough to reject me out of hand, based on my looks, then good riddance. What good would it do me to end up with him and then have him leave me in a few years when my current looks change?

If he’s bothered by something like my breast size, then how is he going to react if I get, say, breast cancer, and I have to get them removed? Huh?? :confused:
 
If he is that focused on looks, how is he going to react when gravity sets in? Large breasts are only attractive for so long you know.
 
KostyaJMJ said:
If he is that focused on looks, how is he going to react when gravity sets in? Large breasts are only attractive for so long you know.
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I think you and Trader are both on to something. In some way, I think of a man being too focused on looks is like a woman being too focused on money. Sort of the same thing applies.

If a man is so shallow as to split or change his opinion about a girlfriend due to looks, he is shallow. If a woman is loses interest in a guy because he doesn’t make a certain amount of money, it’s the same type of thing.

Both genders can be equally shallow.
 
Small breasts don’t mean any of that. Plenty of women have small breasts and have no issues breastfeeding children. Likewise, there are women with big breasts who are infertile.

I mean, do we analyze how much a guy fills out the crotch of his pants? Come on, people, none of that means anything.
 
Rascalking said:
I think you and Trader are both on to something. In some way, I think of a man being too focused on looks is like a woman being too focused on money. Sort of the same thing applies.

If a man is so shallow as to split or change his opinion about a girlfriend due to looks, he is shallow. If a woman is loses interest in a guy because he doesn’t make a certain amount of money, it’s the same type of thing.

Both genders can be equally shallow.
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ABSOLUTELY! And I always find it quite ironic that the woman that is attracted to money gets upset because she was rejected by guy that wanted a certain physical aspect and the guy is rejected by the woman that meets all his physical requirements because he didn’t make enough money.
 
PatriceA said:
ABSOLUTELY! And I always find it quite ironic that the woman that is attracted to money gets upset because she was rejected by guy that wanted a certain physical aspect and the guy is rejected by the woman that meets all his physical requirements because he didn’t make enough money.
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Thank you ma’am. (I assume gender because of your screen name. Apologies if I’m wrong)-It’s good to know that someone else can see this.
 
phil8888 said:
What would you say to a male friend who says he has a really good gf but he wants a girl with bigger breasts or something?
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*Why did he ask her out to begin with, if that was a prerequisite? Not like her breasts shrunk since they started dating…:o

He can decide what he likes…there’s no harm in that, but again, did he not care when he asked her out, and now suddenly he cares? Doesn’t sound like a mature guy. *
 
sanctamaria17 said:
Small breasts don’t mean any of that. Plenty of women have small breasts and have no issues breastfeeding children. Likewise, there are women with big breasts who are infertile.

I mean, do we analyze how much a guy fills out the crotch of his pants? Come on, people, none of that means anything.
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I can’t go into a thread anymore without breastfeeding coming up. :rotfl:
 
sanctamaria17 said:
Small breasts don’t mean any of that. Plenty of women have small breasts and have no issues breastfeeding children. Likewise, there are women with big breasts who are infertile.

I mean, do we analyze how much a guy fills out the crotch of his pants? Come on, people, none of that means anything.
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I thought I made it clear that you can’t know about a woman’s fertility medically unless it’s tested. What I was saying is that a man’s response to smaller breasts (and I mean very small here) is usually a subconscious thought that she’s not sexually mature yet or she’s infertile… probably due to malnourishment. Of course, in today’s society you’re not likely to encounter many women who are infertile because they don’t get enough to eat, but tell that to your genetics! I’m simply commenting on what is attractive to men and why; men are attracted to women who appear to be healthy, with strong genetics and are fertile… anything that puts a question mark on one of those three components will likely result in a man seeing that woman as being less than ideal. It has nothing to do with her ACTUAL fertility, just what’s implied.
 
My only real physical requirement is that she be someone I am attracted to physically…it doesn’t matter if nobody else does, what matters is if I find her attractive.

Secondly, I’d prefer a girl who is not taller than I am. Other than that I don’t really have too much of a preference for physical traits…anything works for me.
 
The_Bucket said:
I thought I made it clear that you can’t know about a woman’s fertility medically unless it’s tested. What I was saying is that a man’s response to smaller breasts (and I mean very small here) is usually a subconscious thought that she’s not sexually mature yet or she’s infertile… probably due to malnourishment. Of course, in today’s society you’re not likely to encounter many women who are infertile because they don’t get enough to eat, but tell that to your genetics! I’m simply commenting on what is attractive to men and why; men are attracted to women who appear to be healthy, with strong genetics and are fertile… anything that puts a question mark on one of those three components will likely result in a man seeing that woman as being less than ideal. It has nothing to do with her ACTUAL fertility, just what’s implied.
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*Are you always so neanderthal? :rotfl: Kidding. 😉 I have read this before…it’s basic instincts from our early ancestors. *
 
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