No, what breaks Mary’s heart is those who have divided themselves, the church and the word of God all against each other to make themselves feel self righteous when in fact they are in severe error and unless they repent of their sins, obey God’s Commandments (which includes being obedient to His appointed leaders) and confess their sins to an apostolic priest and worship God properly in a state of grace and partake of the Eucharist will go to hell.
James
Actually that is man made error indoctrinated in an effort to get people to follow the teachings of an organized denomination within the Church instead of the teachings of the Apostles as recorded in scripture. We must always be vigilant that we are not being decieved into following man made traditions like the Pharisees or the pagans.
Mark 7:5-9
[5] And the Pharisees and the scribes asked him, “Why do your disciples not live according to the tradition of the elders, but eat with hands defiled?”
[8] You leave the commandment of God, and hold fast the tradition of men."
[9] And he said to them, "You have a fine way of rejecting the commandment of God, in order to keep your tradition!
Colosians 2:8
[8] See to it that no one makes a prey of you by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the universe, and not according to Christ.
We follow the traditions of the Apostles which are recorded for us in scripture.
2 Thessalonians 2:15
[15] So then, brethren, stand firm and hold to the traditions which you were taught by us, either by word of mouth or by letter.
Those lucky brethren that got to hear Paul and the other apostles sermons were able to hold those traditions they heard directly from them. For us many generations removed we hold their traditions uncorrupted as we learned them from their writings. Since we are sure that these writing hold the only authentic apostolic direction we conclude that following them is the only honest way to follow the authentic teachings and traditions of the apostles.
So from these inspired Apostolic writings we hear this in regards to the gospel:
John 3:16
[16] For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.
Ephesians 2:8-9
[8] For by grace you have been saved through faith; and this is not your own doing, it is the gift of God –
[9] not because of works, lest any man should boast.
However we can discern if we have been given saving faith by grace in that we will now be a new creature and will want to build up the kingdom of God and do things that promote the glory of God. If we don’t want to do these things we can be assured that our faith is dead which means that we might believe in the existance of God but have not been given the grace to have faith in him, to trust him with our souls. So faith without works is dead. So we must not be lazy in our joy but fruitful as the Lord wishes.
James 2:17
[17] So faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead.
We are to worship in spirit and in truth
John 4:23-24
[23] But the hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for such the Father seeks to worship him.
[24] God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth."
There is no need to fear if you trust in Jesus.
John 14:27
[27] Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.
Hebrews 13:6
[6] Hence we can confidently say, “The Lord is my helper,
I will not be afraid;
what can man do to me?”
Revelation 7:17
[17] For the Lamb in the midst of the throne will be their shepherd,
and he will guide them to springs of living water;
and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes."