Reformed, I have hesitated to enter this thread because the posts have become very intellectual and my belief and devotion is very simple, so bear with me.
You have the impression, I believe, that Catholics do not love God as much as we love the Blessed Mother Mary and that we idolize her.
Every day, a hundred times a day, I say the simple little prayer “Jesus, I Love You.” During my evening prayers I say the Lord’s Prayer and I thank God for my life; it has had its ups and downs but it is a good life and I thank Our Lord for making my path easy.
I thank Him also for all the specific favors and graces he has given to me. Every night I thank Him again for these graces and favors.
But, I also say several Rosaries a day. I pray a Rosary for the people who ask for our help on CAF; and other requests for World Peace, the end of abortion, etc.
I have no problem asking our Blessed Mother to accept these prayers and present them to her Son, Our Lord Jesus. As a Catholic I believe that Mary is the Mother of God, whom better to ask for help.
When I was a child and I wanted a favor from my father, I usually went to my mother and asked her to intercede for me. As I was the only girl in a family of boys, I could have easily gotten the favor from my father, but I liked going to my mother so she could negotiate for me.
The same is true of our feelings for the Blessed Mother - we ask her to negotiate for us. That is not worshiping Mary, nor is it creating an idol.
I believe I am a “normal” Catholic and not unique in any way. I also believe that most Catholics think about Mary as I do and we don’t create an idol, even in our hearts.
This is my explanation for our feelings about Mary; sorry, I can’t document it with Gospel quotes.
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