I never asked a priest about this. It has always been clear to me that adoration belongs to God. To adore a creature would be a violation of the first commandment.
I think the confusion about this comes from the deficient understanding of worship. For those of Apostolic faiths, the supreme act of worship is the Divine Liturgy. If you ever attend this, you will find that Mary is there with us, but has no central role. The Rosary is a Marian devotion, and is not an act of worship.
We believe this happens in it’s purity in Eucharist.
I don’t know where you are pulling your definitions, but I don’t think that the theological application of the word “adoration” should be used for Mary. We honor her, and we ask her intercession. Many of us do have fervent and devoted love for her, but it is what we would have for any beloved and holy family member.
Personally, I can’t speak for that, because, as I said, respect and admiration do not equal adoration in my understanding.
Because one does not replace the other. Just as the wise men fell down in worship to Jesus when Mary was present, so we consider her still present. He may no longer be sitting on her lap, but she is not separated from Him. We have no qualms about worshipping him when she is present. Is there something you would want to say to Him that she should not hear?
Mary does not occupy so much of my worship and prayer time. If you are referring to the Rosary, it is a devotion centered on looking at the gospel events through the eyes of Mary. It is not a form of worship, but more of a prayerful meditation and coming into the presence of God. I think this is hard to understand for people who dont’ understand Eucharist to be perfect worship.
I know this is a difficult point for many Protestants. I think you should go ahead and attend classes. If you to that, you may come to understand that Catholicism is Christ centered, not Mary centered. Have you attended Divine Liturgy? Do you find it “mary centered”? It may be that you are observing the pious devotions f Catholics, and are getting a skewed perception of the faith.