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How come the “and also with you” and the “we lift them up to the Lord” hand motions seem to be nonexistent in mass these days??? Sometimes I feel like I am the only parishioner actually doing them.
Those aren’t motions that are called for during the Mass. Many people make them, but it’s an innovation on their part rather than something that is part of the Mass.How come the “and also with you” and the “we lift them up to the Lord” hand motions seem to be nonexistent in mass these days??? Sometimes I feel like I am the only parishioner actually doing them.
It had never been in the first place. SuscipeMeDomine has good explanation there.How come the “and also with you” and the “we lift them up to the Lord” hand motions seem to be nonexistent in mass these days??? Sometimes I feel like I am the only parishioner actually doing them.
How come the “and also with you” and the “we lift them up to the Lord” hand motions seem to be nonexistent in mass these days??? Sometimes I feel like I am the only parishioner actually doing them.
our pastor gave an extensive instruction on why this practice is not in the rites for laity (because evidently a previous pastor had introduced the practice in the 70s). other wiser posters will quickly give links and explanations I am sure. his message was do the red, say the black, and no where in the red does it say for laity to make any hand gestures other than when the sign of the cross is made.How come the “and also with you” and the “we lift them up to the Lord” hand motions seem to be nonexistent in mass these days??? Sometimes I feel like I am the only parishioner actually doing them.
There are a number of things that have sort of snuck into the Mass that are not part of the rubrics, as sort of folk practices. One is everyone holding hands, reaching across aisles with the person on the end of the line holding a hand in the air. Then with the kingdom power and glory, all held hands are raised above the heads as if to gesture alleluia or whoopee. I am an old curmudgeon. I prefer being left unmolested and focused on internal prayer. I have been at Mass praying the Our Father and the woman next to me kept whacking me on the arm to hold her hand. I tried to ignore her, but she was insistent and kept whacking me, first gently then harder. There is no instruction to hold hands. She got angry with me. At the sign of peace I turned to her and she simply glared at me and made me laugh. I I admit I would rather skip the sign of peace, but it is part or the Mass. I don’t understand why at the most sacred moment at the height of worship with Jesus present before us we have to have kisses and hugs and do-si-do. I have seen people waving their arms around at other times during the Mass. Some immitate the priests motions. Some wave during the ‘also with yous’, which really is ‘and with your spirit’ if the translation was correct. It must make them feel good. It never crosses their minds that their actions are outside the norms and look very silly.thanks everybody…you all provided great information
You make some very good points, all to which I am in agreement. I think that some of these things have come over from the Protestants and the Charismatic Movement. Now before I am raked over the coals, I have nothing against protestants, my mom in one, or the Charismatics, I just think that is where some of these things have come from.There are a number of things that have sort of snuck into the Mass that are not part of the rubrics, as sort of folk practices. One is everyone holding hands, reaching across aisles with the person on the end of the line holding a hand in the air. Then with the kingdom power and glory, all held hands are raised above the heads as if to gesture alleluia or whoopee. I am an old curmudgeon. I prefer being left unmolested and focused on internal prayer. I have been at Mass praying the Our Father and the woman next to me kept whacking me on the arm to hold her hand. I tried to ignore her, but she was insistent and kept whacking me, first gently then harder. There is no instruction to hold hands. She got angry with me. At the sign of peace I turned to her and she simply glared at me and made me laugh. I I admit I would rather skip the sign of peace, but it is part or the Mass. I don’t understand why at the most sacred moment at the height of worship with Jesus present before us we have to have kisses and hugs and do-si-do. I have seen people waving their arms around at other times during the Mass. Some immitate the priests motions. Some wave during the ‘also with yous’, which really is ‘and with your spirit’ if the translation was correct. It must make them feel good. It never crosses their minds that their actions are outside the norms and look very silly.
interesting…at my Parish, the Priest holds hands with the deacon and altar servers during the Our Father. I did not realize the church officially looks down on that.The physical motions indicated by the rubrics for use during Mass are: the Sign of the Cross at the opening of Mass and at the final blessing, the triple Sign of the Cross at the Gospel (forehead, lips, and heart), the striking of the breast during the Confiteor at “through my own fault,” and a bow during the Creed at the words “by the power of the Holy Spirit” until “and became Man.” Also included are times for standing, sitting, or kneeling, some of which are universal and others are subject to the local ordinary.
Praying with upraised hands (orans posture) is a gesture which is perfectly appropriate within private prayer or communal prayer outside of Mass, but during Mass is reserved to the priest. Holding hands during the Our Father was an innovation with unclear sources (charismatic movement, New Age, Marriage Encounter, a papal Mass in Jamaica, etc.) but it is discouraged by the Church, as is gesticulating during responses such as “and also with you.”
Personally, I have always found it rather melodramatic and silly when people make a Vanna White-style, palms-up gesture during Mass responses. I feel like I should ask to buy a vowel.
Dear Fellow Curmudgeon,Personally, I have always found it rather melodramatic and silly when people make a Vanna White-style, palms-up gesture during Mass responses. I feel like I should ask to buy a vowel.
You mean the hand motions that developed on a whim?How come the “and also with you” and the “we lift them up to the Lord” hand motions seem to be nonexistent in mass these days??? Sometimes I feel like I am the only parishioner actually doing them.
There are a number of things that have sort of snuck into the Mass that are not part of the rubrics, as sort of folk practices. One is everyone holding hands, reaching across aisles with the person on the end of the line holding a hand in the air. Then with the kingdom power and glory, all held hands are raised above the heads as if to gesture alleluia or whoopee. I am an old curmudgeon. I prefer being left unmolested and focused on internal prayer. I have been at Mass praying the Our Father and the woman next to me kept whacking me on the arm to hold her hand. I tried to ignore her, but she was insistent and kept whacking me, first gently then harder. There is no instruction to hold hands. She got angry with me. At the sign of peace I turned to her and she simply glared at me and made me laugh. I I admit I would rather skip the sign of peace, but it is part or the Mass. I don’t understand why at the most sacred moment at the height of worship with Jesus present before us we have to have kisses and hugs and do-si-do. I have seen people waving their arms around at other times during the Mass. Some immitate the priests motions. Some wave during the ‘also with yous’, which really is ‘and with your spirit’ if the translation was correct. It must make them feel good. It never crosses their minds that their actions are outside the norms and look very silly.
I don’t think you are actually supposed to be doing them.How come the “and also with you” and the “we lift them up to the Lord” hand motions seem to be nonexistent in mass these days??? Sometimes I feel like I am the only parishioner actually doing them.