Hard hard baby won't stay in crib

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no, i vote denny’s

to each his own…

it will be dawn here soon

denny’s is where i am going for breakfast…
 
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Thank you, too, for a helpful post. He wakes up as soon as the room gets light which is about 6 am… naps are probably 1-2 hours, but sometimes no nap I suppose when he isn’t tired out. Shortening his nap even more is an option, when we already have had to wake him up no later than a certain time. Good to know a kid can be done with naps by 2.
 
Our second one would " reappear" after having put to bed. It was hilarious to see how his little fingers would appear first holding our door.
And then, when he had had some extra hugs alone,he would finally go to sleep. Til today,our second one is more of an " owl". It passes, patience…
 
To the OP. I recommend stopping the spanking. I don’t believe it’s right to hit someone in order to enforce your will on them. If your baby is climbing out of the crib, it’s probably time to get rid of the crib and give him a little toddler bed or mattress on the floor. Make sure the room is child-safe though! When he gets out of the bed, is he bored and just wants more playtime, or is he acting scared and wanting his mom and dad? If it’s the first, I think I would leave him some quiet toys or books to look at in his bed until he falls asleep. My little guy LOVES to “read” in his bed, or sometimes play with his dinosaurs. As long as he stays in his room, we don’t get upset with him if he doesn’t fall asleep right away. If he’s crying and wants to be out from his room entirely, that’s a little harder. I’ve heard other parents use a method where they stay in the room and say, read a book, so the baby knows they’re there, but doesn’t interact with them. They say that works. Neither of my kids have been scared of being in their room alone though, so I’ve never had to try it.
 
PS- I have a cousin that practices this “mindful parenting” stuff, much of which is complete crap, but one thing that is kind of neat is that since her baby was born, she had his room set up as a “safe place” for him to explore. He never had a crib at all. He slept on a mat on the floor, so as soon as he was able to crawl around, he got to “explore” his space. She’s been hanging age appropriate manipulatives on the walls and changing things so he has lots of stuff to keep him occupied. The room is completely childproofed, and obviously, this wouldn’t work if you had children sharing a room. But it seems kind of neat. He doesn’t have a problem with “quiet time” and she feels safe leaving him in there while she showers and does laundry.
 
Without the " philosophy " of it,we did that with our eldest and his room. Now there are kids plastic doors so that they cannot climb.At that time my husband built a wooden low door so that he would move about safely in the room and also away from the staircase while I was having a shower or something close by but not with him
Very good ideas,Allegra.
 
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interesting

will have to discuss this my daughter w/ her 1.5 year old & 3 mo. year old boys

actually, probably; it is none of my beeswax

trying to learn that…
 
I was just wondering about the wisdom of pancakes for toddlers. I’ve checked online and seen no prohibitions and nothing that says it’s a choking hazard for children. I would think they are a choking hazard for a child because they’re dense and sticky.
 
I was just wondering about the wisdom of pancakes for toddlers. I’ve checked online and seen no prohibitions and nothing that says it’s a choking hazard for children. I would think they are a choking hazard for a child because they’re dense and sticky.
Dense and sticky? What kind of pancakes are you eating?
 
  1. A “pretty hard” spanking for a child who isn’t even two is completely inappropriate.
  2. If he’s climbing out of his crib, the crib is not safe anymore. Get him a bed (or take the side off the crib if it’s a convertible crib), or put a mattress on the floor.
  3. Baby-proof his room completely, so that he can roam around and play in his room. Put all the toys in a place that isn’t accessible to him, and take them out when you want him to play and don’t care if he is sleeping.
We tried the color changing clock when my son was about 2 1/2 and he just didn’t understand and kept playing with it. Your son is probably not going to obey a clock if he’s not listening to you first.

Our son also has “issues” staying in his bed. (He is 3 now.) We have dealt with it by having two “bedtimes”. First, we brush teeth, get in pajamas, and read a story. He brings a few toys in with him, and is allowed to play for about 30-45 minutes. After that, I go in and bring him to the potty one more time, and he puts his toys in the hall in a bin. We read one more story, and after that he is expected to stay in his bed. It took awhile of “reminding him” to get in bed, but now he is good about it and is allowed to keep a book with him until he falls asleep. If your son isn’t even two yet, I’m not sure he will understand as well, but you have to be consistent about whatever you do and he will eventually get it.
 
Baby-proof his room completely, so that he can roam around and play in his room
@Tony11 If you go this route, please make anchoring the dresser(s) to the wall part of the baby-proofing. (This should already be done anyway and any other tall climbable furniture in the house.) If he’s as big and strong of a boy as you say he is, he could easily open dresser drawers to climb on them to get higher and have the dresser fall forward on him. That scenario was always one of my biggest fears when my children were little.

 
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Huh? Pancakes are just bread. Of course, toddlers can eat pancakes!
 
Buy a crib tent immediately! We did this and it saved us SO MUCH TROUBLE!

He’ll break it, but then buy a new one. It’s worth it.
 
Yes! And let me take a moment to do my service announcement about batteries. ALWAYS make sure that anything your child has access to has a sturdy battery compartment that is screwed shut! If it doesn’t, do without it! Lot’s of forum members probably recall that my daughter had a life-threatening injury from a button battery that she swallowed at her baby-sitter’s house. The baby sitter has never admitted as to where my daughter got the battery, but they are extremely common. They are in toys, tools, remote controls, watches, instrument tuners, and all sorts of devices you don’t even think about. Even McDonald’s toys come with them inside! Lots of times all it takes is one drop on a hard surface to pop the compartment open. The button batteries are small enough that a child will put them in their mouth. One it touches the saliva it shocks them, causing the swallow reflex. The smaller ones will go down to their stomach and likely pass, although they can cause severe problems too. But the quarter sized ones dont’ go down as easily. They will often adhere to the side of the esophagus and begin a chemical reaction which can burn through the lining of the esophagus. Within two hours, your child could have a hole in their esophagus. But it can get worse! Depending on which side of the battery is up, it can continue burning until it makes a fistula into the trachea, causing bleeding into the respiratory tract. If it’s facing the other way, as it was with my daughter, it can burn into your childs carative artery. If this happens, you child will bleed out. There is nothing they can do at that point. What’s even more scare is that once the chemical reaction starts, even removing the battery won’t necessarily stop it. Fortunately, with my daughter, removing the battery did stop the reaction before it went to far. She had a hole burned in her esophagus and was on a feeding tube for six weeks, but she’s okay now. However, to this day, I derail random threads to warn people about button batteries.
 
Someone I know was the father of a toddler who in the middle of a massive tantrum would literally hold his breath until he passed out. The father’s solution? A spank, enough for the toddler to draw in breath to start crying.
 
That is absolutely terrifying. I’m so glad you daughter is ok now. Really, there needs to be more info out there in the public about what would happen if a battery is swallowed. I never knew they could cause that much damage.
 
This baby clearly does not respect your command. The sooner you get him into uniform, impose discipline, conduct regular drills and assessments for promotion within the ranks, the sooner he’ll come to respect your authority. … … …😎

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Someone I know was the father of a toddler who in the middle of a massive tantrum would literally hold his breath until he passed out. The father’s solution? A spank, enough for the toddler to draw in breath to start crying.
Which still falls into my parameters of life and death situation. Breathing is required for life last time I checked.
 
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