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Another HP thread. Oh goody. Anyone wanna place a wager on how it will stay open? :crazy_face:
I read the first three books to my son when he was in about second or third grade, I think. We would frequently pause and discuss the characters’ choices and motivations. We would talk about courage and loyalty and virtue. We would relate characters’ choices to Church teaching, or something in the scriptures (we also listened to an incredible amount of “Adventures In Odyssey” and memorized a lot of verses).
These discussions absolutely helped my son make connections between fantasy, real life choices, and our life as Catholics.
My son’s dad (my ex) is an agnostic/atheist who has no intention of shielding our son from fantasy. He introduced my son to
Star Wars and
Lord of the Rings movies before I thought the kid (who was extremely sensitive to violence) was ready.
By reading the first HP books and
The Chronicles of Narnia with my son, and then also reading
The Hobbit with him, I was able to navigate the conversation. During the summer before my son entered fourth grade, he read the
Percy Jackson series, and was discussing with me the heroic archetypes that could be seen in his favorite series of books and movies.
He’s 14 and is still a practicing Catholic, asks questions about our faith and discusses Church teaching with me, and even asks to make sure we can get to confession sometimes. He also has toy wand from Universal Studios and a Ravenclaw costume. And we love Marvel movies. And LOTR and books by Rick Riordan are still some of his favorites.
There is room for fantasy and works of fiction in the Christian life. We see ourselves in the characters and can learn from their mistakes and their virtues. As a mom and a teacher, I am not going to plant the seeds of fear and anxiety into the minds of children by declaring everything but the Bible a temptation towards evil and separation from God.
That’s way more than my two cents’ worth, but there it is.