Lee1:
All experience is potentially one of learning.
According to a neuroscientist I know there is some evidence that the hippocampus does not distinguish between real and unreal. It is possible therefore that when employing memory in our day to day lives we may err.
What we see, hear and otherwise experience has deep effects on our thoughts and behaviour and it is important to exercise prudence in what we mentally digest.
Harry Potter might appear to be harmless fun to a mature mind but that is not the market it was aimed at.
Our kids are our future. How do we best raise saints?
So how many of the Harry Potter hating parents allow Dora or Thomas the Tank Engine or have a whole to-do about Santa/Easter Bunny/Tooth Fairy?
To be honest, I have a much harder time with the mental gymnastics required to have a preschool/early gradeschool child believe in Santa (ie NOT st. Nick but
Santa) but then tell a later gradeschool child they can’t read Harry Potter because they can’t tell truth from fiction. Now, whose’s fault is that?
When I was very small 3-4 I remember having a vivid dream that my doll had to go to the hospital. I was convinced it was real. Eventually, I was corrected.
But I also grew up with Thomas, Sesame St., Winnie the Poo, Double Dare, Are You Afraid Of The Dark and eventually Narnia, LOTR, Harry Potter. I realized Santa was fake at the age of 4 in Kindergarten when the naughty rich kids got way more than all of the poor kids who were amazing people. Children suffer when their parents lie…it’s up to a parent to clarify and keep the child grounded in what is reality and what is pretend.