And so you are agreeing with Julia and Adrift that it is possible for anyone to attain salvation. You are also making the qualification that it is very difficult to do so without the Catholic Church. That does not change the fact that it turns out all of you agree on the point that it is technically possible for anyone to attain salvation whether or not they are visible memebers of the Catholic Church while on earth.
I am pointing this out not so much for your sake, but so that Julia and adrift will hopefully see that you do actually agree with them on this point and so what you are arguing about is a combination of semantics and legitimate theological interpretation, **not **actual Church Doctrine. You might object to me and say that they have clearly stated that they believe the doctrrine that there is no salvation outside the Church is wrong, but I am more than convinced that they are not arrguing against the correct understanding of this doctrine oncce all nuances are taken into account, but are rather arguing against some other position which they believe this statement presents and which actually
is against Church teaching. This is why I asked them what it is about this statement that they disagree with. I think if we take a step back and find out exactly what it is that they **actually **disagree with we will be able to solve this issue.