The OF in its current state goes against everything that Vatican II said should occur.
No, it doesn’t.
The OF in its current state goes against the history and tradition of the Church and the evolution of the Mass through the ages. Are these things not important to the various folks who applaud the vernacular, communion in the hand, the destruction of church architecture, art, and music, the ignoring of the realities of sin and hell, the preaching of the unorthodox, the radical ecumenism that pretty much tells people that they can be saved regardless of their beliefs, and the general abuses coming from the clergy?
None of this has to do with the form of the Mass. If you attended Mass in the OF at any Benedictine abbey of the Solesmes Congregation, and in many other congregations as well (a good example, Monte Cassino abbey in Italy), you would clearly recognize it as Catholic and in line with the history and traditions of the Church: the Propers and Ordinary will be from the Graduale Romanum, all chants going as far back as the 10th century and in most places a cappella. There will be incense at appropriate times (Sundays, feasts), pipe organ only. It will all be very reverent. Why? Because Benedictines take their vow of
obedience very, very seriously. I also sing in a Gregorian schola that rotates around various parishes, and the vast majority of Masses we sing at are done simply, reverently and with care and they are always grateful to have a skilled schola to (licitly and validly I would add) acquaint them with the ancient traditional music of the Church. Yes there are some problem spots.
But these problems you point out and that I have also occasionally run into are issues of discipline, not the form of the Mass. If the EF were exclusive, the same lack of obedience will prevail. It’s a product of our times to “do our own thing”. There’s no assurance that the same clergy that disregard the rubrics of the OF Mass would be any more disciplined if they were obliged to say the EF Mass.
Backing up a bit, you opened with the statement below which is perhaps the most disturbing statement you made:
I’m honestly not sure why it really truly matters what the laity think about the Mass. Why should the laity be responsible for the actions of the Church? Our job should be to follow Christ and his Church. The laity have no power in the Church. It is the Bishops, the successors of the Apostles, whose responsibility it is to lead the Church and the faithful and to uphold the teachings and traditions of the Church.
Why does it matter if the world hates the Mass? The world hates Christ and his Church, so it’s only natural that they would hate the Mass and especially the one which is so radically different than the Masses of the heretic Protestant churches. That the world and maybe even so many Catholics should hate such a Mass should not be of concern to the Church.
It most certainly does matter what the world thinks of the Mass. Our main purpose on life is to serve and love God with all our hearts, and that includes the duty to evangelize, and
grow the Church, not to turn people away and not to worship the worship. Cultural imperialism doesn’t win too many souls these days, in case you hadn’t noticed.
The EF may indeed gain souls perhaps for the reasons you cite. But not everyone, everywhere. In particular in mission territories (I would in fact argue that Western Europe and North America are now mission territories, perhaps even more so than Africa, but I digress) where Latin mixed with uneducated, often illiterate laity, would be an obstacle.
Our purpose as Christians is not to create a small nucleus of euro-centric Catholics and everyone else be damned. Our purpose is to go out and spread the Good News and convert people to Christ. The Mass is supposed to serve that purpose, to be an instrument for the obtaining of Grace and an instrument of our salvation, not the other way around.
In any case I would be careful with your statements, the rules here prohibit pitting one form of the Mass against the other and it would be sad to see this discussion descend into another EF vs OF battle. Both forms are valid: Roma locuta est; causa finita est.