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Lea101
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Why do you think she, or anyone here, is not against sex before marriage?
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Has the #MeToo movement become a witch-hunt to a significant degree?
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Lea101
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Pride, to be honest. Nobody really wants to change their behaviors for the sake of the other. And when there’s consequences, suddenly he/she’s the most innocent one in the room.
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TheAmazingGrace
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We want women, children, and men to be safe, period. To view rape as punishment for engaging in sex is…very Sharia-like, if I’m gonna be honest.She really can’t expect every guy to stop in that situation. That’s what I mean. Y’all want men to create a ‘safe’ hookup for girls. There is no safe evil. Sow evil and you’ll reap it. And this will really make you mad, but that is a good thing.
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ChunkMonk
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When did I say it was punishment? I said it was cause and effect. Play Russian Roulette often enough and you’ll eventually eat a bullet.To look at getting raped as punishment for engaging in sex is…very Sharia-like, if I’m gonna be honest.
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Xantippe
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How well did we do solving slavery through the political process? That was kind of a mess, wasn’t it? And WWI was a mess, too, and yet women had very little involvement with the political side of either.I can’t think of a single problem that can be solved through the political process… Why? Because women will vote against it en masse. Of course you probable don’t see most of them as problems or are even capable of seeing how they connect. Hence the futility of discussing this. We live in two completely different worlds and ne’er shall the two meet.
I think you’re also underestimating the importance of race/ethnicity and regional differences. For example, are you confident that Northeastern and West Coast men would stand staunchly shoulder to shoulder with you in your political endeavors?
So, not only are men lions, they’re also fire!That’s where the “playing with fire and whining when you get burned” lesson should have kicked in. Unfortunately she probably had blue-pilled parents.
Not wanting to have sex is “evil”? Weird.She really can’t expect every guy to stop in that situation. That’s what I mean. Y’all want men to create a ‘safe’ hookup for girls. There is no safe evil. Sow evil and you’ll reap it. And this will really make you mad, but that is a good thing.
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ChunkMonk
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Ever heard of the White Feather?And WWI was a mess, too, and yet women had very little involvement with the political side of either.
Not wanting to have sex is “evil”? Weird.
Two misrepresentations in a row. You and I are done. Have a nice day.Xantippe said:Worse, rape is the punishment for not engaging in sex.
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Xantippe
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Worse, rape is the punishment for not engaging in sex.We want women, children, and men to be safe, period. To view rape as punishment for engaging in sex is…very Sharia-like, if I’m gonna be honest.
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Lea101
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Exactly. Not to mention that rape is still quite common in conservative societies/cultures where sex is meant for marriage. I don’t get why people like to attribute it to the hook-up culture/immodesty. It doesn’t help, but it’s not the root cause.To view rape as punishment for engaging in sex is…very Sharia-like
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TheAmazingGrace
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Why is the onus on women to not get raped, in your opinion? If we’re not mature enough to even vote, why place the responsibility for men’s sexual behavior on us? If men are so logical and reasonable, why can’t they be trusted to keep their desires under control just enough to avoid raping someone?When did I say it was punishment? I said it was cause and effect. Play Russian Roulette often enough and you’ll eventually eat a bullet.
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ChunkMonk
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Why is the onus on you to protect yourself? Only a woman could ask that question.
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TheAmazingGrace
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Not sure I understand what you’re saying. Could you rephrase that?Why is the onus on you to protect yourself?
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Xantippe
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What tools are you allowing women to protect themselves?Why is the onus on you to protect yourself? Only a woman could ask that question.
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TheAmazingGrace
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Are you a teenager? You write like some highschoolers I’ve come across in this forum.Only a woman could ask that question.
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ChunkMonk
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Well the claws are really coming out aren’t they?Are you a teenager? You write like some highschoolers I’ve come across in this forum.
Men learn real early that the only people looking out for our safety is us. Women learn early on that men need to protect them. That entitlement is what leads to your silly question.
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Xantippe
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To recap, according to ChunkMonk, a woman being around a man is like:
–being with lions
–playing with fire
–playing Russian roulette.
Wow! That sounds really scary.
Remind me, why should a woman want to date or marry one of these creatures? They sound TERRIFYING.
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You’re welcome!
–being with lions
–playing with fire
–playing Russian roulette.
Wow! That sounds really scary.
Remind me, why should a woman want to date or marry one of these creatures? They sound TERRIFYING.
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It’s funny how “protecting” gets defined down to not committing rape. By that definition, I’ve been protecting men all day.Men learn real early that the only people looking out for our safety is us. Women learn early on that men need to protect them. That entitlement is what leads to your silly question.
You’re welcome!
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TheAmazingGrace
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When my brothers and I were kids, we were were taught to look for protection from our parents and the police. There was nothing gender-specific about it.Well the claws are really coming out aren’t they?
Men learn real early that the only people looking out for our safety is us. Women learn early on that men need to protect them. That entitlement is what leads to your silly question.
Have a nice day.
I’m genuinely curious about your age though. Most grown men in Western society who have actually had relationships with women don’t talk about taking away women’s rights, or making them dependent.
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Xantippe
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Being almost 9 years older than my younger brother, I always thought in terms of protecting him.When my brothers and I were kids, we were were taught to look for protection from our parents and the police. There was nothing gender-specific about it.
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TheAmazingGrace
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My brothers and I are all very close in age, so we always thought in terms of protecting each other.Being almost 9 years older than my younger brother, I always thought in terms of protecting him.
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Xantippe
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I have to say that all this talk of “protection” sounds like some sort of mob racket. You pay them to be protected…from them.
And you’re supposed to be grateful to men for protecting you…from themselves.
Not being sexually assaulted is apparently some sort of extra special favor, rather than being just basic human decency.
And you’re supposed to be grateful to men for protecting you…from themselves.
Not being sexually assaulted is apparently some sort of extra special favor, rather than being just basic human decency.
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DarkLight
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FYI: This is also the attitude that leads to a lot of harm to male rape victims. It’s not like a man can’t be drugged, or overpowered by someone else, or something. But we teach men that if someone else assaults them, then they’ve failed as men and they shouldn’t expect anyone else to help.Men learn real early that the only people looking out for our safety is us. Women learn early on that men need to protect them. That entitlement is what leads to your silly question.
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