a little history, my wife is from a large catholic afmily, I was raised in the Methodist church and ascended into the church at age 30 and after 8 yrs of marriage and mass and our first son being born. During those eight years of marriage, three of the six children in my wifes family took their own lives, the last her little sister just months after our son had been born. We have always had a deep sorrow over these things, but we have also maintained our faith. Five years ago I started praying the Chaplet of Devine Mercy for the benefit of my brother and sisters; if by chance they are in purgatory I wanted to be praying for them and also all of the protestant ancestors of mine. This past summer on the birthday anniversay of the younger sister, we were having an especially joyous time together, celebrating our family and remembering fondly my wife’s sister on her birthday. It was late, we were slow dancing, suddenly an apparition appeared behind me, I sensed it was not a negative force but a guide. Almost simultaneously my sister in law appeared to me to my right, above me, she said “I am okay, but I need you to pray for Mike and Liz, You will feel what they feel and know why it is important to pray.” Again, in an instant I was knocked down to the floor, I was sobbing like I had never before, I sensed such sorrow, not a sad, lost something or someone sorrow, just total grief of absense. My wife was grabbing me and shouting, I could barely hear her, I was consumed by the sorrow. My wife’s sister asked me to pray for Mike and Liz. Since that night I have dedicated all of the masses to them and continue to pray the devine mercy chaplet and for all the souls in purgatory.