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I don’t post here often but do check in and carry pray for those of you who are suffering.

I am so incredibly broken and sad. For various reasons I have lost three unborn children in the last year and it has positively destroyed my heart. I function day to day but tears are always on the surface. I want a baby - healthy and here - so badly. Not just because I truly want and love that little one, but because I think it may be the only salve for the heartbreak of those I’ve lost. I pray so so much that God brings me that special child and heal my soul for the losses I’ve endured.

I don’t know why things like this happen. It hurts so much. Please pray for me that I might be blessed with a baby that makes it. Please pray God forgives my sins and sees I am worth this blessing. I have suffered enough. And I would love this child with my entire being. Thank you for reading this. Hope
 
I am so sorry for the deep pain you are feeling. I will be attending adoration and benediction tonight followed by stations of the cross and your intentions will be mine. Peace be with you, Hope.

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I don’t post here often but do check in and carry pray for those of you who are suffering.

I am so incredibly broken and sad. For various reasons I have lost three unborn children in the last year and it has positively destroyed my heart. I function day to day but tears are always on the surface. I want a baby - healthy and here - so badly. Not just because I truly want and love that little one, but because I think it may be the only salve for the heartbreak of those I’ve lost. I pray so so much that God brings me that special child and heal my soul for the losses I’ve endured.

I don’t know why things like this happen. It hurts so much. Please pray for me that I might be blessed with a baby that makes it. Please pray God forgives my sins and sees I am worth this blessing. I have suffered enough. And I would love this child with my entire being. Thank you for reading this. Hope
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Our Lord can do all things. I will be praying for you. I’m sorry for all your pain.
 
Praying for you hopeful42. Heading to mass shortly … I will pray for you there as well.
 
Hope ~ I am sorry that you suffer so deeply. I pray that Our Lord will heal your pain. I also pray that he will bless you with a safe and healthy pregnancy and a beautiful child. I will remember you tomorrow during Mass.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Dear Lord, I praise you for the three little souls that You have called home to pray unceasingly for hopeful42. Please, Lord, ease her pain and suffering and grant her the desires of her heart. In Jesus name we pray.
 
Hope, I will be praying for you – I’m very sorry for the losses of your precious unborn children. I’ve lost a child through miscarriage and I suffered fertility problems the first few years of my marriage, but God eventually blessed me with five children (one in heaven). I’m not sure how to word this because I don’t want it to come across as trite or insensitive to your desire to have a child, so forgive me if I come across in any way like that.

But when I was trying desperately to have a baby I was on an emotional roller coaster because every month my hope would build up that I was pregnant, and then I would start my cycle and my hopes would be dashed…to make matters worse, I was (an am) a counselor at a crisis pregnancy center and had to face women who got pregnant easily and without wanting to be pregnant and wanted to abort their babies. That was agony, and I questioned God about why He would give babies to women who didn’t want them and yet wouldn’t give me a child when I wanted one. I never got an answer on that, but I did learn that I had to trust Him and be content in His will no matter what that was. I had to learn to be content even if I didn’t receive my heart’s desire, and it wasn’t until I reached that point that He gave me my first child. That’s not to say that just because we reach that point we will then get what we want, but in my case I believe God wanted to teach me to accept His will and appreciate my children as gifts and not take them for granted before He gave them to me. He works differently with each person, but He does ask us all to trust Him, that He desires only our best and loves us with an everlasting love even when it seems He doesn’t.

My husband died last year in an accident at the age of 44, and I have experienced the deepest grief I’ve ever known, as well as loneliness. God has been very faithful to me to comfort and guide and provide in every way imaginable – He is all I *need, *and I open my heart to Him to heal all the pain and I seek to be content in His will, whatever it is. I don’t know if He’ll bring another man into my life, but whether He does or doesn’t I ask to be faithful to Him and content with whatever He gives me because I know He loves me and knows what’s best for me. That’s what I pray for you – open your heart to God’s healing love and trust Him and hand all your desires over to Him and let Him fulfill them as He knows is best.

Peace to you.
 
Lord if it be your will bless hopeful 42 with a healthy pregnancy. LORD bring this gift of life into her life . Lord have mercy on her and embrace her with your love. thank you Lord , in the name of Jesus , amen . Hopeful42 trust in the LORD he knows what is best. , your brother in Christ , John
 
You have my prayers and thoughts. We lost a child in the second trimester once. I know how hard it is to lose one.
 
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Dear Lord, I praise you for the three little souls that You have called home to pray unceasingly for hopeful42. Please, Lord, ease her pain and suffering and grant her the desires of her heart. In Jesus name we pray.
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Beautiful prayer. Amen.
 
J†M†J
I will pray for your intentions in my rosary tonight.

God Bless
In Jesus through Mary
Steve
 
My heart goes out to you and my heartfelt prayers follow you…May The Lord grant you the gift of a healthy child…
 
Veritas,
You have given excellent advice! You are so right with you have said to our dear friend. As for you, you are also experiencing heartache yet still offering sound advice and comfort to another. I will pray for you also, dear soul. You are truly special. God bless you and your children and dear husband! Much love,
 
Father, I pray that you guide this woman to do your will. Allow her to give her body a time of healing. Relax her mind! Remove her heartbreak. Give her the strength to overcome all of this. I ask this in the name of Jesus Christ. AMEN
 
Thank you all for your kind thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband Veritas. My heart and prayers go out to you. I’m struggling here. I take comfort in your posts and read them again and again. I know I need to surrender to God’s plan but my heart is so broken. If ever given the gift of a child I would give it everything I am. There is a pain to this kind of loss that is like no other it seems to me. I continue to pray God heals my heart and shows me the way. I am truly so lost. Thank you so much for sharing and being here.
 
Hope ~ Saturday I went on a retreat and remembered you during mass. Also, the priest prayed over me for healing and I asked for prayers for you. God bless you. I am still praying for you.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Continued prayers for you. My heart aches for you. I know the pain you feel. I lost three babies and was never able to concieve and carry to term. I have received my answer from God and I struggle almost daily to accept it. It’s become easier over time, but the pain remains.

After three losses, most doctors are more than willing to look into reasons why this continues to happen. If you don’t mind my suggesting - seek out whether you need some hormone assistance or other needs.

Still praying, my sister…

Andi V.
 
I will include your intention in my morning rosary.GOD’S will be done
 
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