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I know it is hard but this may be a time to listen to God. Just listen. I will pray that you find the fortitude to carry on and for you to be still and know that He is God. I understand your suffering, but offer it up to the Lord.
 
Dear Hope,
you and your husband and baby will remain in your prayers. I pray too that your husband will face what he’s so angry and stressed about and find a healthy, loving way to deal with it.
And God grant you peace.
 
Honey,I will include you and your hubby in my nightly prayers,have patience,I know that it seems hard,but keep praying it works miracles,GOD love amd bless you
 
Thank you for your kind prayers. My husband told me yesterday he doesn’t even want to be with me for the birth of the baby. I’m so sad. I wish for a miracle somehow in the next 8 weeks so that he doesn’t miss out on the miracle of the birth of his child and also so I can have his love and support during labor and delivery. I’m scared. I do believe in miracles and God’s plan. I’m just not sure why I’m so alone right now. Praying hard for a miracle that brings him back to our family soon. Hope
 
I’m praying for you and your baby and hoping that your husband will see the light and be there for the both of you.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women.
And blessed is the Fruit of thy Womb
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners,
Now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
Hope,rest assured you are never alone,HE is with you always especially the trials,talk to HIM,when you feel that way.HE will never abandon you,know that you are blessed.I will keep praying for you and your family,Dianne
 
Perhaps God is protecting you and the baby from someone who isn’t capable of genuinely loving and can only hurt others when things get past the honeymoon phase of anything in life. It’s not you, it’s him. I pray God can touch his heart and make him more able to appreciate and love others, especially you. You husband would need to change to be a good father instread of an unloving example to your child.

Our dear sister, is there anyone you love who can be with you at your child’s birth? We your CAF family will be there in spirit. I ask the Lord to be with you in your pregnancy.
Love, Trishie
 
As I hold you in my prayers this night, may God hold you in the palm of his hand 🙂
 
Thanks for your prayers everyone. About 7 weeks to go. Ultrasound last week showed this precious little baby is a girl! I just pray she is healthy.

I have tried and tried to talk to her father and pray with all my heart he’ll find in his heart that he can be there to support me and his child. He is filled with anger at the world, impatience and seems to love his independance and freedom. It makes me so so sad. I feel tears on the surface all the time. I see how happy we could be all together but only if he lets us in. I feel so happy about this baby and then so sad and scared that he isn’t willing to give us a chance. I planned a little over night stay at the local resort where we got married this past Friday - he came and enjoyed a few good moments but at the end of the day made it clear he hasn’t moved in his decision. I just wish he would spend some time with me. I feel so alone. Thanks for being there in spirit Trishie. I have no one. My family doesn’t live here (nor are they supportive in that way) and my best friend has three boys under 5 so really there’s no way so can swing this. Hopefully I’ll get a kind nurse, but I still cling to the hope that he will change his mind and rejoin our family to really give our family and this little one a chance.

Off to mass this morning to pray some more. Please keep us in your prayers. I am so so sad. Praying for a miracle that God will open his heart and allow him to lend some support to me and celebrate the birth of his baby girl. Thanks my friends. Hope xx
 
Hello my friends,

Thought I would check in now 2 years after my last post and your kind prayers with a small update. I am so incredibly blessed to now have a beautiful 2 year old baby girl who was the angel of your sweet prayers over two years ago. She is healthy and happy and for of the dickens! I love her with all my being, and my other children also. They are my family and I count them as incredible blessings from God every single day.

Sadly, my husband (and the kids’ father) has not returned to us. He continues to choose to live a single lifestyle and it has now been years since his departure. I pray every day that God will show him his way back to me and our family. He visits the children but has little kindness for me. He has trouble with anger management and tend to see me as an outlet for his many frustrations. He will not tell me he wants a divorce, but also will not agree to work on the marriage. Some days he says he’ll see a counselor then he he’ll cancel the appointment at the last minute, and then say he doesn’t want to do counseling after all. I am so sad about this. I desperately want him to be a happy and ready member of our family, instead of living like a bachelor and taking no responsibility in family life. It’s been a very long time of praying and hoping and facing constant disappointment :(.

Please remember him (and us) in your prayers. And pray with me that God will open his heart and help him find his way back to his wife and children. We all need him and have missed him for a long time now - my youngest’s entire life. I so want to be a happy family together. Thank you for your support.
 
I am so sorry to hear of the pain that you are enduring because of this. Please know that the Lord loves you more than you could possibly imagine. I am praying for you.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Remember oh most gracious Virgin Mary that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence I fly unto thee oh Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To thee I come, before thee I stand sinful and sorrowful. Oh Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Dear Lord, our God, be with Hopeful42 during this difficult time. May Your comforting presence be made known to her at all times. Let her know of Your great love for her. Help her to heal from these difficult miscarriages and also heal her body so that she may have the children she desires so much. We ask this through Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Saint Catherine of Siena, holy patron against miscarriages, pray for Hopeful42 that she may not have any future miscarriages. Amen.

Saint Catherine of Sweden, holy patron against miscarriages, pray for Hopeful42 that she may be protected against any future occurrences. Amen.

Saint Anne, you who gave birth to the most blessed Virgin Mary, pray for Hopeful42 that she would have only healthy pregnancies in the future. Pray for her that she would conceive and give birth to a healthy child soon. Amen.

Saint Anthony of Padua, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42 that she would have only healthy pregnancies in the future. Amen.

Saint Dominic of Silos, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42 that she would give birth to a healthy child in the future. Amen.

Saint Elizabeth, you who carried Saint John the Baptist in your womb, pray for Hopeful42 that she may conceive and give birth to a healthy child. Amen.

Saint Gerard Majella, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42. Amen.

Saint Gianna Beretta Molla, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42 that she would conceive, have a healthy pregnancy, and give birth to a healthy child. Amen.

Saint Joseph, most chaste spouse of the Blessed Virgin Mary, pray for Hopeful42 that she would conceive a healthy child and give birth so that her life may be blessed immensely by a son or a daughter. Amen.

Saint Margaret of Antioch, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42. Amen.

Saint Raymond Nonnatus, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42. Amen.

Saint Silvia of Rome, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42. Amen.

Saint Ulric, holy patron of pregnant women and pregnancies, pray for Hopeful42 that she may be blessed with the son or daughter that she so greatly desires. Pray that the pregnancy would be a healthy one and that her son or daughter would also be healthy. Amen.

Most holy Infant of Prague, You have healed many people of many ailments. We come to You now to ask for Your healing touch upon Hopeful42. Help her to heal of whatever is causing these miscarriages. Prepare her womb and body for a healthy pregnancy and help her to give birth to a healthy son or daughter. We ask this in Your most holy name. Amen.
 
***Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen. ***
 
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