I’ll be very honest that I don’t understand hell. Eternal damnation FOREVER to person a loving and merciful God created? I cannot wrap my mind around it at all, no matter what his/her sins are.
What’s the history of the teaching…and how does one even fathom something like hell from a loving God?
I just ran across this question, so apologies for my late reply. Simply put, G_D does not condemn people to hell; they condemn themselves.
In some of the answers you’ll find references to “light”. Now, if you’ve ever had to deal with cockroaches, you’ll know they hate light: you come into the kitchen, turn on the light, and they’ll all scamper into the darkness. They hate the light and love the darkness.
Now, those who follow G_D are those who love the light (which is truth), and will choose to be and live in the light. There are those persons who obviously do not love light, and then there are those who do not love light, but act in a way so that the general public will judge them to be “good people”. The thing is, the longer you live in a way that rejects truth, the more you come to love darkness, even as the people around you still think of you as a “good person.” (I’m thinking in particular of someone at a college campus last week, who went ballistic at a pro-life display and started punching, kicking, and trying to destroy the displays.) G_D alone knows what is in someone’s heart and so only G_D alone can judge someone.
Scripture describes the Transfiguration: when Jesus revealed to three disciples His glorified body, like what we will receive upon being granted to heaven. It is a light so bright it begs description, but does not hurt the eyes. We have had testimony from a number of saints and mystics who were granted visions of the particular judgements of people after their deaths. There were those who had so lived in hatred of light (though still thinking they were “good people”) that when presented with the Light of Truth in His full glory, had no other reaction than to run away like the cockroaches, and jump into the abyss so as to escape the Light. IOW, they chose their own damnation by choosing to hate Light during their lives.
There was even the testimony of
a priest from India who was badly injured in a motorcycle accident, and appeared before Jesus to be judged. Although his parishioners had thought he was a “good priest”, he stood there being judged by Jesus and unable to refute the accusations of not teaching Truth, of laziness in performing his prayers and the Sacrifice of the Mass, and other sins. He admitted and acknowledged his sins and could do nothing but prepare himself to accept the judgement of Jesus, which was clearly to confirm the priest’s rejection of light, and to accept that he himself had condemned himself to Hell. Then he heard a Lady’s voice, pleading with her Son for mercy and that She could make this priest into an example for all. The priest was returned to his body and after recovery has become firm and resolute in his preaching, prayers, and ministry.
Those who may not have loved Truth but not rejected it, and have been reconciled with G_D before death also were condemned for their sins and experienced great sorrow at being reminded of them; but because of their repentance they were granted Purgatory that they might wean themselves from their love of sins and eventually be admitted to Heaven.
So, to repeat, G_D does not condemn sinners to eternal torment in hell; rather, they condemn themselves because they lived in such a way that, like cockroaches, they cannot tolerate living in eternal light.