We just found out a month ago. Fortunately, we haven’t had much contact with them (not by design… just by chance (or prayer)). We have 4 young children who want to spend time with their grandparents. That time spent will be supervised time. And if that time spent occurs at our home, much bleach will be used in the bathrooms upon their departure.
Has your husband sat down and talked to them about this? This is family - maybe a talk from your husband, with love and compassion, will open their hearts and minds OR clear up a misunderstanding.
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