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crazzeto
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PleaseGrace & Peace!
Let’s get a little more serious.
They followed natural law, in so far as women and men had roles to play. On no terms, did the ancient Greeks ever attempt to blur the line between man & woman, which is exactly what is going on with today’s culture and all this talk about “same sex marriage”.1–The Greeks followed natural law in this regard if by natural law one understands the idea that the realm of women should be separate from the realm of men and that sex in either realm is oriented to different purposes and subject to separate kinds of cultural regulation and sanction.
They were not recognized because “same sex marriage” has no validity.2–Homosexual marriage was not allowed for two reasons–A) why debase a perfectly good sexual friendship by associating it with the womanly world of domestic marriage? B) Same sex relationships were already recognized in society under a different social structure. Why? Because same sex relationships and marriage relationships served different social functions–they therefore had their own socially recognized structures.
I would only agree that there are people such as your self who are trying to convince everyone else in the world that there is absolutly no difference in any way between a man and a woman. The problem is no matter how many words you try to use, no matter how “evolved” you try and make it sound, no matter how academic your speach and arguments it doesn’t change the basic facts. There are differences between men and women, men carry the seed of future generations and women bare them. This is not a commantary on equality, this is a realization of a basic fundamental fact which can not change. These differences, principally biological bleeds over into psychological differences which are real and stark. Again, no commantary on the equality of men and women, it is just another basic fact. We are in fact different, God made us different for a purpose, so that one man would cleve to one woman and bare childeren with her. Even if you remove God from the equation (and I have no problem doing so for th purposes of this argument), nature dictates the very same. There is a feminine and masculine for a reason.3–We, on the other hand, as a culture, do not have these separate structures, nor do we have the sense of the absolute inviolability of the masculine and feminine realms, particularly since a: the advent of the idea that romance is required in a marriage and; b: the end of WWII and the entrance of women into the workforce in which the masculine and feminine social realms mixed irrevocably. Therefore, it makes more sense for us to speak of gay marriage than for the Greeks due to the difference in our cultural values (specifically due to the difference between how we conceive of the masculine and the feminine) in addition to the lack of any broadly recognized *specific *social structure in which a same sex relationship can be conducted openly. Marriage is the limit of our vocabulary in this regard and by it we are culturally forced (for all intents and purposes) to understand any loving commitment between two people by this term–we have no other option.
The were pro-gay, by our standards.4–The Greeks were not pro-gay. They did not have our understanding of gay or straight or what have you. They understood sexuality to be complex, to have various purposes which could be expressed in various contexts. They understood that there was a relationship between beauty and sexual desire and created structures within which that desire could be celebrated or expressed. They understood that one should not become a slave to one’s passions. They understood that a sexual relationship between two men was fundamentally different than a sexual relationship between a man and a woman and they did not feel it necessary to make either sort of relationship culturally anathema. Both relationships were to be conducted according to specific cultural guidelines relating to the specific spheres in which the relationships took place. There is no understanding of gay, straight, or bi here.
Under the Mercy,
Mark
All is grace and mercy! Deo gratias!