It isn’t that difficult a question. “Conditionally encouraged” means encouraged, no matter how you slice it.
No, it’s not. Saying “if you do X, do Y” is not the same thing as saying “do Y,” and it is certainly not the same thing as saying “do X,” which you keep accusing me of (saying that illicit sex is OK).
And it’s nice turn of phrase, because what you are encouraging is not condoms (they are inanimate objects and can’t be encourage) but the behavior in which they are used.
No, it’s not. Nerfherder has described to you the behavior that is going on in the absence of condom use. People do not need condoms to persuade them to give in to their sexual passions. In cultures where women have little dignity, men do not need condoms to persuade them to treat women as mere sexual objects. On the contrary, I have argued that possibly in that context using a condom might help a man think a little more about the good of the woman and be less fixated on his own selfish pleasure.
In the U.S., this is less likely to be the case, because our particular problem at this point is a hedonistic egalitarianism that thinks sex has no negative consequences as long as both parties enjoy it.
Do I really have to explain at this point why the above is not cultural relativism? (Hint: I am not denying that the absolute good in the same in both cases–namely celibacy outside marriage and monogamy within it.)
Can you demonstrate the “possibly better” aspect? How is using a condom “possibly better” than abstinence?
This is another example of what I’ve been complaining about–you change what I said into the exact opposite. I said using a condom might be better than illicit, disease-carrying sex without a condom. I never said that it was better than abstinence. I have said the exact opposite over and over.I say one thing–you hear the opposite. . . . it’s very frustrating.
No – in fact, I often use your own words.
Well, at least you finally admitted that you never use my own words!
See, I just did to you what you do to me. I even used some of your words: “use” and “words” were in your sentence and in mine. Does that make what I said accurate?
Same with what you say about me., I say “better than giving someone a disease through sex” and you say “better than abstinence.” Is it OK just because you used the words “better than”?
Edwin