I did not imply any such thing. It is a sign of community; as there are many other signs of community.
The bottom line is that the fuss is by people who don’t like it. That is fine, but I an beyond tired of all the “reasons” they scoop up to try to outlaw it. That is Rome’s issue, not the laity; and a segment of the laity has been kvetching about it for 50 years.
I most sincerely do not have a dog in the fight. I don’t really care about the issue one way or the other; if someone next to me reaches out to hold hands, our of charity I will hold hands; if they do not reach out, out of charity I will not reach out. It is not the problem that people make it out to be; and that is what grinds on me. it is not prohibited, and I get it that some people don’t like it. If Rome wants to prohibit it, that is fine with me too; and if they don’t, then perhaps we can let go of the issue?