I am SO PICKY about white. We painted all the wood work in our house 3 years ago and I took forever to settle on the color white. I chose Benjamin Moore’s Aura paint, in Satin, and we used Bavarian Cream. I found this pic online of a room’s trim in Bavarian Cream. I like it because its a SOFT WHITE. I want the wood trim to look SOFT. It does not matter to me that the white windows of our replacement windows in SLIGHTLY different. Colder. I want a warmer, softer room, not colder and harder.
A room’s trim done in Bavarian Cream is here:
Actually I am extremely picky about ALL COLORS. I love to find someone as picky as me. But that is extremely rare.

We used Benjamin Moore’s Color Story colors in Aura Flat throughout the entire house. I love these colors because they are more complex, using several pigments and no black, so it reflects light well. They are “Full spectrum” colors and all the walls look great in all different light. And the painted walls look like velvet. The great color mixes, the excellent coverage, and the flatness give it that velvet look, and when you look at the wall it seems like you are looking into a distance. You have to find a Ben Moore store that has the Color Story color chips, and if not, many will at least have the little booklet of all the chips to look at for the color story colors (where I used to live, they had both. Then we moved here and my local store had not heard of it, but they ordered the book. The Color Story booklet and chips use uses real painted-on chips.)
Here is an article on Color Story colors:
bloggingpainters.com/offering-your-customers-a-full-spectrum-of-color-choices/
In my opinion, this is the best in American paint! You can do better by spending quite a bit more (however, you use less paint) on
Fine Paints of Europe. This was a discovery for me AFTER we painted the house and it probably was a great grace I did not know if it at the time becase they are expensive. My husband is building a new entry room I had hoped to do in this European oil-based paint, however, now that I am seeing the costs of creating a room, I am going to price it first before I decide to go ahead with that. Because the Ben Moore Color Story colors are GREAT. But I will at least do the new front door in that amazing Hollandlac Brilliant, in order to, Lordwilling, achieve something akin to this:
They have EVERY SINGLE Color imaginable. I want something similar to this ideal in this link, only slightly darker: (the image turned way too big for this thread when I tried it):
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but not quite as dark as this color, which I like too:
and also this color (the image turned way too big for this thread when I tried it):
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(My husband likes what I pick!)