Homily on sexual morality

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Who is to judge whether the priest is wayward? The laity, or the Bishop who actually has the authority over said priest? Parishioners have no authority to correct the parish priest. Praying for the priest is a proper first response in matters of how the parish “ought to” be run.
 
Who said it was. We were not talking about that.
In this case, what she said is correct. It’s not about many people in that context.
 
In this case, what she said is correct. It’s not about many people in that context.
I think you are missing the point. Let’s take the Hollywood ‘body’ for example. It has become fractured because individuals within the ‘body’ have abused their positions with others in the ‘body’. Lack of respect for others (immorality) within a ‘body’ causes the ‘body’ to fall apart. Immorality ‘outside the body’ has led to the ‘body’s’ reputation suffering. Immorality inside and outside the ‘body’ is causing the Hollywood ‘body’ to fall apart.

It’s the same within a church, community or country. Immorality within and without never ends well.

Just a thought.
 
Parishioners have no authority to correct the parish priest.
Authority? None is needed. He can reject what is respectfully put to him. I’ve not asserted anyone in particular is wayward. My remarks are “general”.
 
I always thought that ‘body’ here was a ‘body of people’ or community or church which is akin to a ‘temple’ and must retain cohesion. I’ve never thought of it as being about a single human body. In the current climate maybe my interpretation might be more appropriate?
No not at all. I don’t know of any Church document that indicates it should be taken symbolically. Paul here is talking about actual sexual immorality among the Corinthians. He’s talking about their actual bodies and activities related to fornication, sodomy, prostitution, etc.
 
No not at all. I don’t know of any Church document that indicates it should be taken symbolically. Paul here is talking about actual sexual immorality among the Corinthians. He’s talking about their actual bodies and activities related to fornication, sodomy, prostitution, etc.
See what I said in 132…
 
Once a visiting African priest came for a one day visit and spoke about people shacking up on 108th street. Even though I wasn’t shacking up, I did live on 108th street. It was as if the homily was meant for me. He used humor and was trying to bring things home to people. I was helped by this priest.

The types of concerns you have must be seen in perspective. Perhaps, your priest might do well to ask another priest to shake things up for this occasion, January 14th. In general, let your priest run his ship and don’t worry about the many changes. He is the leader and you are the followers. It isn’t a question of him having to figure out your pastoral needs. He may have done so already.

I’m in a profession where my clients think they have to take more responsibility than they do. I like to be the boss and I like hierarchies. Many modern people don’t like this concept at all. If you are speaking to other members of the Church who are concerned, point out to them some of the benefits of hierarchies.
 
I have not read this whole thread but what I did read had no specifics in it.

Is there a copy of the Homily?
What changes did he make?

I have heard some very good and bad homilies on morality. I think this priests mistake was to announce ahead of time what the homily would be about. Considering the gospel reading was about morality it should be a no brainier that the homily would be about morality. I f the priest gave no warning no one would have thought twice about it.

Priest have the authority to change the way the mass runs and many other things throughout the parish. Not sure why everyone makes such a huge deal about it. No dout he will learn to be more discreet in his future endeavors but that does not lessen his authority.

Why not befriend the young priest and help him make the changes he requires. Helping may give you the opportunity to show him why things are done this old way, posssibly mitigating some of the more drastic changes… Maybe you will learn why he wants to change/improve the way things are done.

with out knowing the specifics of your grievances with the homily or the changes it is hard to be sympathetic to your concerns. I have be in many parishes that get changes some are good some are bad. the only ones who lose out are the ones who make a big fuss and fight against these things. relax and go with the flow. In five years you will no doubt hav anthother pastor that will chnage things back the way you had them before and a whole new set of people will be disturbed!
 
Who is to judge whether the priest is wayward? The laity, or the Bishop who actually has the authority over said priest? Parishioners have no authority to correct the parish priest. Praying for the priest is a proper first response in matters of how the parish “ought to” be run.
The answer is very simple: the Bishop…or the priest to whom the Bishop delegates this, such as the Vicar General, the Vicar for Clergy, etc. As I said above, those of us who have filled such positions welcome the laity who inform us that a priest has has acted in a way that the Bishop would not approve.
 
I have NO USE for people who vote with their dollars in church.

That’s so unkind, and such a knee-jerk reaction.

The staff, the poor, and the Diocese suffer when we don’t support ministry.
Indeed. Honestly, the people of the parish hurt themselves more than the priest when they do this. I’ve never understood that mentality either.
 
His announcement used fornication, masturbation, and many other “loaded words”, and said that he will not be “soft” in his language.
I see.

@CilladeRoma: In such a case, I would advise the lay person seeking my counsel to bring a recording device for the homily. If he has not overstated what he intends to do and if it is indeed problematic, there is no case of he said/she said…if it is recorded and there to be heard.

Make sure you have the ability to have copies of the recording – and make it clear that you are retaining a copy.

If these “many loaded words” and “language that is not soft” are gratuitously sexual, take the matter immediately to your diocese’s safe environment official, since that will trigger its own set of protocols.

And then stay in dialogue with the Dean/Vicar Forane and seek their counsel regarding negative effects.

You describe a situation in which the diocese is dealing with a very unfortunate situation.
 
Could you record it and post, please?
I would prefer the OP not share a recording with the forum. I think that would be bad form. Cillade may give us the highlights, but sharing a recording is not necessary. The person to share that with would be the appropriate person at the diocesan office.
 
I agree. That would serve no purpose., and I would hope CAF would immediately remove any such post.

If any recording is made, it should be shared with the proper officials within the diocese and those ofifcials only.
 
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Look, I’m not going to beat this dead horse. That’s not what it means in this context.
 
I have attended Catholic grade school and high school for most of my life, and you could fill maybe 3 pages, size 12 font, with the Catholic morality I have been taught in school. Most of my knowledge is from youth group or my own curiosity.
 
Salutations,
I’m not sure. It’s been a long time since I heard one.
We use to have a Children’s mass.So delicate homilies could be given at other masses. Kids over 12, are needing to hear about morality.
Times are different.
In Christ’s love
Tweedlealice
 
Could you record it and post, please?
That seems rather inappropriate. That is playing gotcha. That is assuming an adversarial position.

There is no indication anything inappropriate will be said. The charitable approach would be to assume the priest will deliver an appropriate homily. If he doesn’t a recording isn’t necessary.

If a person was going to record it they should at least inform the priest ahead of time. That would be honest and straightforward. One of the twelve was a spy and it didn’t turn out so well for him.
 
This sounds like a young enthusiastic priest who believes he is doing the right thing by making changes in the parish and by giving a hard-hitting homily on controversial subjects.

The fact he put a warning announcement in the bulletin strikes me as odd. I have never seen anything like that.

Our pastor does mention sexual sins in his homilies if they are pertinent to the readings but he does so in such a way that people of any age can hear the homily. I have never heard anyone complain about his homilies. I’m on the pastoral council at my parish and I do hear complaints from other parishioners about a variety of things.

When our new pastor arrived several years ago he made a few changes that people disliked but most of the changes were minor. He is an experienced pastor and waited to learn more about the parish before making bigger changes.

I will say that we have a young priest in my Diocese who sounds similar to your priest. Uber traditional and extremely rigid. He caused so many problems at his first assignment as a parochial vicar that he was removed from public ministry. After some time our Bishop reinstated limited faculties for him but he is still restricted from certain things.

If your priest is causing this much of a disruption in your parish then you may want to speak with the vicar for priests or the vicar general.
 
I will say that we have a young priest in my Diocese who sounds similar to your priest. Uber traditional and extremely rigid. He caused so many problems at his first assignment as a parochial vicar that he was removed from public ministry. After some time our Bishop reinstated limited faculties for him but he is still restricted from certain things.

If your priest is causing this much of a disruption in your parish then you may want to speak with the vicar for priests or the vicar general.
It is sad when a presbyterate confronts such a situation.
 
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