Homosexuality as a Perversion

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Rossum,

I’m glad you’ve spent some time putting out fires. Now are you interested in responding? I’m wondering what *you *mean by “purpose”.
 
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The alternative is that they are simply right. And their support is their own personal experiences of knowing LGBT individuals. Your need for studies on the issue is a bit desperate. What can we say about straight people through a study? Nothing, really.

With respect to media ‘brainwashing,’ it cuts both ways there were plenty of negative portrayals too.
Their support is not from.personal experiences, their support comes from the media portraying the stories of the “poor gay couple” which went to the hospital and one partner was not allowed to be next to his beloved life partner or make medical decisions just because they were not married ( which is nothing but a big lie), from listening to gay activist that marriage is a “right” and from hearing the story of “equality” (which is another lie) and that gays need to have “equal rights” and from hearing that poor gays are a marginalized group (when as very well said by justice Roberts, gays are in no way marginalized, instead that are one of the most powerful groups in society) and comparing gays with real marginalized groups like blacks and painting people that not agree with homosexuality as bigots and the same as racist. That is no personal experience, that is brainwashing. I myself do have personal experience because I have two good lesbians friends, so don’t tell me OS out of personal experience because on the same way that if a friend of mine is being promiscuous or cheating on his/her spouse, I can point out that that behavior is wrong, I can perfectly recognize that what my lesbian friend is doing is wrong.

And what is your point on the studies, the studies I am talking about is all the biased studies promoted by gay activist stating that homosexual relations are more stable and lesbians are better parents. If they have to resource to biased studies to convince people, they are the desperates no me. Their studies say that children of straight parents are darned and straight need to learn from gay…so who are the desperates. If all they want is equality as they say why resource to those techniches?
 
Their support is not from.personal experiences, their support comes from the media portraying the stories of the “poor gay couple” which went to the hospital and one partner was not allowed to be next to his beloved life partner or make medical decisions just because they were not married ( which is nothing but a big lie), from listening to gay activist that marriage is a “right” and from hearing the story of “equality” (which is another lie) and that gays need to have “equal rights” and from hearing that poor gays are a marginalized group (when as very well said by justice Roberts, gays are in no way marginalized, instead that are one of the most powerful groups in society) and comparing gays with real marginalized groups like blacks and painting people that not agree with homosexuality as bigots and the same as racist. That is no personal experience, that is brainwashing. I myself do have personal experience because I have two good lesbians friends, so don’t tell me OS out of personal experience because on the same way that if a friend of mine is being promiscuous or cheating on his/her spouse, I can point out that that behavior is wrong, I can perfectly recognize that what my lesbian friend is doing is wrong.

And what is your point on the studies, the studies I am talking about is all the biased studies promoted by gay activist stating that homosexual relations are more stable and lesbians are better parents. If they have to resource to biased studies to convince people, they are the desperates no me. Their studies say that children of straight parents are darned and straight need to learn from gay…so who are the desperates. If all they want is equality as they say why resource to those techniches?
Mary,

I think you’re overstating the viciousness of the gay lobby. These people see themselves as helping young people escape a world of shame. If their are abuses in their science, this has also been the case (hopefully to a lesser extent) among other scientists who come to diametrically opposed conclusions. There is an intimidation factor that is going on right now, and it is very frustrating that certain people in the gay lobby seek to demonize anyone who has a moral objection to homosexuality.

But if we do not want to be painted as bigots, we should not paint our opponents using such a broad brush. Gay people *were *a marginalized group, and there is a lot of anger stored up in them. Let’s not fight anger with anger.
 
There simply are difficulties with the notion of homosexuality as a normal behavior.

One can count instances of homosexual actions, but the existence of these don’t matter very much. The question is causation and normal adult sexual development.

Unfortunately, the activists must take the blame for blocking genuine scientific inquiry here.

Just IMHO, the human body isn’t made for such stunts. Psychologically there is a kind of existential repulsion of the opposite sex which is unhealthy; normal human development means appreciating the other sex in toto, and not merely physically. Homosexuals are deprived of a greater understanding of human existence.
 
It’s so obviously wrong in so many ways. I feel sorry for people who are afflicted with such perverse desires. No need to persecute them, but no need to celebrate them either. They definitely don’t have normal desires, and everyone knows it including themselves. However, just because a person has abnormal sexuality, doesn’t define their worth as a human being. I still say celibacy is the best way to deal with it.
I agree.

What I find also destructive here is the existential angst of the activists. They’ve made this purpose for themselves and throw their energies into it, as if sexual pleasure is the highest good in life. . . of course, our times and culture aid this skewed perception.

It’s a sexual disorder and addiction put together; my guess is that it has to do with emotions and affections and the expression of these more than any biology.
 
On the contrary, one poster here was drawn into a ludicrously bad error due to using singular “purpose” for the penis, when it has more than one purpose. My point is valid, because it can lead to underthinking the problem by stopping after one purpose, and not considering if there is also a second, third etc. purpose to be dealt with.

I repeat, natural selection is not teleological. It has no foresight, but deals only with the immediate situation.

rossum
Rossum, you state there is no objective Truth. So everything you have written is not true? Good, we agree on that
 
There simply are difficulties with the notion of homosexuality as a normal behavior.

One can count instances of homosexual actions, but the existence of these don’t matter very much. The question is causation and normal adult sexual development.

Unfortunately, the activists must take the blame for blocking genuine scientific inquiry here.

Just IMHO, the human body isn’t made for such stunts. Psychologically there is a kind of existential repulsion of the opposite sex which is unhealthy; normal human development means appreciating the other sex in toto, and not merely physically. Homosexuals are deprived of a greater understanding of human existence.
This is the crux of the matter: gay activists hate scientific enquiry and wish to block rational enquiry. They appeal only to the emotions
 
Mary,

I think you’re overstating the viciousness of the gay lobby. These people see themselves as helping young people escape a world of shame. If their are abuses in their science, this has also been the case (hopefully to a lesser extent) among other scientists who come to diametrically opposed conclusions. There is an intimidation factor that is going on right now, and it is very frustrating that certain people in the gay lobby seek to demonize anyone who has a moral objection to homosexuality.

But if we do not want to be painted as bigots, we should not paint our opponents using such a broad brush. Gay people *were *a marginalized group, and there is a lot of anger stored up in them. Let’s not fight anger with anger.
Prodigal I know that gay people have been bullied, some have even been attacked and that is, of course, not right and not acceptable. And I know that not everybody is bad intentioned, but I live in Massachusetts, gay marriage had been legal for a long time, Massachusetts is heavily a democrat state, liberal and believe here people don’t bother gays, they mostly don’t care. Massachusetts is in no a way where a gay person can feel threatened in any way, and here: the gay lobby has been fighting for years to eliminate the words mother and father from.school, which finally they did a few years ago. You cannot use mother or father in schools in Ma. They have been fighting against father and daughter dances (which they successfully eliminated in RI) and mother son picnics, have planned parenthood going to.elementary schools to give lectures to.children under 8 regarding homosexuality, etc, etc…isn’t that pushing it into other’s throat? If gay marriage is legal, accepted and nobody gets bullied because of it, why does a 7 years old need a lecture about girls giving mouth kisses to other girls??? That is the big I have with the gay lobby. If they are so well intentioned why do they want to take things away that the majority of people do and enjoy or live by? Is beyond ridiculous and non sense. And also, while I do know gays have been victims of abuse and in certain places and times been the Target of abuse, comparing them to the African American who were all enslaved, kidnapped, taken away from their countries, brought under inhumane conditions to the Americas, sold as slaves, and spending.thousand of years as slaves with zero rights (there has never been any law in the USA forbidding gays to vote or to buy property or sldenying them personhood) is beyond my understanding, there is no comparison between the two and I don’t think that recognizing that gays have never been targeted in the same way as blacks and recognizing that gays have never been enslaved in this country is fighting anger with anger, is fighting exaggeration with reality. You don’t need to exagerate and overly victimize to the extreme in order to fight bullying,
 
Prodigal I know that gay people have been bullied, some have even been attacked and that is, of course, not right and not acceptable. And I know that not everybody is bad intentioned, but I live in Massachusetts, gay marriage had been legal for a long time, Massachusetts is heavily a democrat state, liberal and believe here people don’t bother gays, they mostly don’t care. Massachusetts is in no a way where a gay person can feel threatened in any way, and here: the gay lobby has been fighting for years to eliminate the words mother and father from.school, which finally they did a few years ago. You cannot use mother or father in schools in Ma. They have been fighting against father and daughter dances (which they successfully eliminated in RI) and mother son picnics…
I agree that these things are beyond the pale. But to say that “the gay lobby” supports them is painting with a broad brush. Not everyone in the liberal media, for example, thinks that father/daughter dances should be forbidden. Far from it. But the more we fight fire with fire, the more we will get marginalized. If it’s an all-out war, we will lose. Maybe in 100 years we’ll be vindicated, but we will lose big time now.
You don’t need to exagerate and overly victimize to the extreme in order to fight bullying,
I thought this was my point, so I agree. You fight bullying by picking out the bully, not the sheep that follow after the bully. There are real bullies pushing the “gay agenda”, but they are not every gay person, nor every liberal, etc.

By the way, when I talk about gay people being treated badly, especially in the past, I’m talking about day-by-day stuff, being-bullied-by-macho-boys stuff. This reminds me of a Ben Folds song: the songwriter was bullied as a kid and then becomes famous, and sings “Now I’m big and important, one angry dwarf and 200 solemn faces are you. If you really want to see me, check the papers and the TV. Look who’s telling who what to do.”

Or W.H. Auden said, “I and the public know what all schoolchildren learn: those to whom evil is done do evil in return.”

One might hope that if we turn the other cheek, they might relent. Of course, I’m not counting on it.
 
I’m glad you’ve spent some time putting out fires. Now are you interested in responding? I’m wondering what *you *mean by “purpose”.
I do not mean anything, since I do not accept purpose. In Buddhism there is no Creator God. We each set our own purposes in life. We can choose wisely or we can choose unwisely, but it is we who set our own purposes.

There is no overarching reified Purpose derived from a single designer. Purposes are much more diffuse in origin.

rossum
 
Rossum, you state there is no objective Truth. So everything you have written is not true?
There is objective truth. Ultimate Truth is a lot more problematic. Objective truth can be contingent: “1 + 1 = 10” is objectively true, contingent on the use of binary mathematics.

I do not accept any reification, and that includes the reification of truth.

rossum
 
I do not mean anything, since I do not accept purpose. In Buddhism there is no Creator God. We each set our own purposes in life. We can choose wisely or we can choose unwisely, but it is we who set our own purposes.
Wisely or unwisely, eh? Well, if there is a wise choice of purpose and an unwise choice of purpose, there must be a standard by which to judge purposes – even if it is only a standard implied by the results of actions. So then there are objectively good purposes, relative to individual people in individual situations, no?

This is precisely what I mean by saying that people have objective purposes, over and above their subjective goals.
 
There is objective truth. Ultimate Truth is a lot more problematic. Objective truth can be contingent: “1 + 1 = 10” is objectively true, contingent on the use of binary mathematics.
By the “use of binary mathematics”, you are simply indicating a code by which the meaning of “10” changes. Of course, if you change the meanings of words, you can change a sentence’s truth value!

This isn’t subjectivity at all. :coffeeread:

If you want a really interesting take on the value of subjectivity, read Kierkegaard. 🙂
 
I thought this was my point, so I agree. You fight bullying by picking out the bully, not the sheep that follow after the bully. There are real bullies pushing the “gay agenda”, but they are not every gay person, nor every liberal, etc.

By the way, when I talk about gay people being treated badly, especially in the past, I’m talking about day-by-day stuff, being-bullied-by-macho-boys stuff. This reminds me of a Ben Folds song: the songwriter was bullied as a kid and then becomes famous, and sings “Now I’m big and important, one angry dwarf and 200 solemn faces are you. If you really want to see me, check the papers and the TV. Look who’s telling who what to do.”

Or W.H. Auden said, “I and the public know what all schoolchildren learn: those to whom evil is done do evil in return.”

One might hope that if we turn the other cheek, they might relent. Of course, I’m not counting on it.
On that we agree, and that is exactly what I meant on my original post about brainwashing, you have one big bully pushing an agenda, they use everything from newspapers, internet, media to get to the small sheep, the small sheep listens to it because it sounds “pretty” and is using words that reflect values, and the small.sheep thinks it is actually a good thing, and follows the bully without knowing any better. The problem here is that the big bully usually has money (and this was what Roberts was refering to) and is very good at lying and manipulating, so while is true that anger with anger is not good (two wrongs don’t make a right) I do think that lies need to ne fight with truth and what we need to do is recognizing the lies and tell the truth.
 
The problem here is that the big bully usually has money (and this was what Roberts was refering to) and is very good at lying and manipulating, so while is true that anger with anger is not good (two wrongs don’t make a right) I do think that lies need to ne fight with truth and what we need to do is recognizing the lies and tell the truth.
Yes, I think we should find the extremists, the bullies’ bullies, and use our leverage against them. And I think we should talk less about homosexuality itself, and more about – as you have been suggesting – the way that powers and principalities are able to manipulate people. Then when the truth about homosexuality begins to trickle out, and it will, people will begin to understand the historical forces that brought about this most recent battle of the sexual revolution.
 
Well, if there is a wise choice of purpose and an unwise choice of purpose, there must be a standard by which to judge purposes – even if it is only a standard implied by the results of actions.
Which is indeed the standard the Buddhism uses. What are the results of actions? Wise actions lead to happiness;unwise actions lead to suffering. We should choose our purposes to increase wise actions and to decrease unwise actions.
So then there are objectively good purposes, relative to individual people in individual situations, no?
Correct.
This is precisely what I mean by saying that people have objective purposes, over and above their subjective goals.
The results of the purposes, or more strictly the results of the actions engendered by the purposes, are objective. The purposes themselves are subjective. Purposes are internal to the person. Actions are external to the person.

rossum
 
By the “use of binary mathematics”, you are simply indicating a code by which the meaning of “10” changes. Of course, if you change the meanings of words, you can change a sentence’s truth value!
Correct. We cannot tell the truth value of a stream of symbols unless we know the meanings of the symbols in question. What is the meaning of “Ресторан”? There is an objective meaning, you can find it in a Russian dictionary. That meaning is contingent on reading the symbols as part of the Cyrillic alphabet.

rossum
 
Which is indeed the standard the Buddhism uses. What are the results of actions? Wise actions lead to happiness;unwise actions lead to suffering. We should choose our purposes to increase wise actions and to decrease unwise actions.
Are you aware that the sexual revolution has made people less happy? They have more freedom, but less happiness. Nor is this surprising, since they have more desires to satisfy, and they have been told that happiness is the satisfaction of these desires.

Gee, you would think that a Buddhist, of all people, would understand how very mixed up those beliefs are! 🤷
The results of the purposes, or more strictly the results of the actions engendered by the purposes, are objective. The purposes themselves are subjective. Purposes are internal to the person. Actions are external to the person.
Well, of course the results are objective. Events are objective. And I don’t care whether the purposes are objective; I’m not even sure what that means. But here’s what I want to insist on: the purposes have an objective property, that of being good, bad, or indifferent. They have this property because they are judged by an objective standard.

This means that, whether or not you should say that homosexual orientation is a perversion, you should say that, **if **homosexual actions (by and large) make people unhappy, then these actions are not morally choiceworthy; in other words, they are wrong. And we’re talking long term effects here, not just short term effects. Do you agree to this?
 
I think it is useful to note what the Catechism says regarding the cause and extent of homosexuality: “Homosexuality refers to relations between men or between women who experience an exclusive or predominant sexual attraction toward persons of the same sex. It has taken a great variety of forms through the centuries and in different cultures. Its psychological genesis remains largely unexplained.” (2357) In addition, it acknowledges: “The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible.”(2358) In short, it’s been around a long time, the number of homosexuals is not negligible its cause is unknown. Furthermore, these days, the Church seems to prefer the word “disordered” rather than perverted, although the word “depravity” is also used in this section of the CCC.
 
So, we are agreed that sexual attraction to males is a part of human nature. We are also agreed that sexual attraction to females is part of human nature.

While homosexuality is indeed a minority, it does not go against human nature since all its elements are agreed to be a natural part of human nature.

rossum
Your words are inchoate as stated. Human nature is not simply what happens to exist without relation to right reason. All types of deviations exist but that is not proof they are morally good or healthy.
 
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