Homosexuality as sexist

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Please provide the study that proves this. Nothing in your original post suggests this. Homosexual people are by definition attracted to members of the same sex. Please establish how homosexual attraction makes you sexist.

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It is my own observations- a lot of homosexual men are anti-women and a lot of lesbians are violently feminist and have resentment towards men.My experience and observations are my study. I could write them down and call it a study, if you like.

Please provide a study which established that the occurence of sexist sentiment is not prevalent among homosexuals. And, of course, a study not conduct by pro-homosexual, left wing academics…

I have proposed a correlation. If you experience does not support- I accept that. Mine does. The reason I propose it is to gauge whether the experience of others supports it.
 
It is my own observations- a lot of homosexual men are anti-women and a lot of lesbians are violently feminist and have resentment towards men.My experience and observations are my study. I could write them down and call it a study, if you like.
That does not make homosexuality sexist. And, unless you have met thousands and thousands of gays and lesbians, it is not quite a study.
Please provide a study which established that the occurence of sexist sentiment is not prevalent among homosexuals. And, of course, a study not conduct by pro-homosexual, left wing academics…
Nice try. The thread title was “Homosexuality as sexist?” I said, “homosexuality is not sexist.”

You are then trying to get me to prove the statement that “homosexuals are not sexist.” That is an altogether different claim, and note that it is NOT the opposite of what you argued in your first post.

I never made that claim. Furthermore, YOU were the one who claimed that homosexuals were sexist, so the onus is therefore on YOU to provide the proof.
 
A homosexual is effectively saying “I can go ahead and have a sexual relationship without including women, without having the consent of a woman.” Homosexuality seems to be all about reducing the power and status of women- of making them unnecessary. I think, in spirit and effect, it is almost akin to rape.

Does anyone else see it this way?
No. That does NOT constitute rape in either spirit or effect. Even remotely. By any stretch of the imagination.

If you’re aware of a woman or a man who feels ‘raped’ by a nearby homosexual union, then you’ve met a fascinating person. Who very well may require some serious help.
 
I think that it is insulting to gays and lesbians to try and find some deep psychological explanation for all of it-“They really hate woman! They really hate God! They really hate custard pie!” instead of just accepting that it is and then figuring out what to do from there.
 
It is my own observations- a lot of homosexual men are anti-women and a lot of lesbians are violently feminist and have resentment towards men.My experience and observations are my study. I could write them down and call it a study, if you like.
Well, you could, but it would be a rather poor study unless you knew a statistically significant number of gays and lesbians and unless you used proper statistical methods.
Please provide a study which established that the occurence of sexist sentiment is not prevalent among homosexuals. And, of course, a study not conduct by pro-homosexual, left wing academics…
This is poisoning the well a bit, since you can now easily dismiss any study by claiming that the people who performed it were biased.
 
But aren’t a lot of lesbians anti-men??? Doesn’t that actually prove my point.

Gay men are sexist against women.
Gay women are sexist against men.
Nope, I don’t buy the premise.

One’s sexual prefence is not “sexist” if one prefers the same sex.

What about someone with a SSA that is chaste? Are they “sexist” due to an inclination which is beyond their control.

Sexism is an *unfair * or unjust discrimination against someone or a group based on their sex. There is no unfair discrimination if someone is attracted to someone of the same sex.

The only claim of “unfairness” could conceivably be that they have such a cross to bear.
 
One’s sexual prefence is not “sexist” if one prefers the same sex.

Sexism is an *unfair * or unjust discrimination against someone or a group based on their sex. There is no unfair discrimination if someone is attracted to someone of the same sex.
I hope you don’t mind that I snipped you down to just these two, because I wanted to agree with you on this specifically.

The odd implication of this entire thread is that one is sexist against everyone to whom they are not sexually attracted, and that’s a rather silly claim to make.
 
I suggest that the recent rise of homosexuality is a reaction made by a patriarchical culture to the movement to give women equal rights. Homosexuals are trying to derive women even of the status in human relationships.

A homosexual is effectively saying “I can go ahead and have a sexual relationship without including women, without having the consent of a woman.” Homosexuality seems to be all about reducing the power and status of women- of making them unnecessary. I think, in spirit and effect, it is almost akin to rape.

Does anyone else see it this way?
Your post is fascinating from a philosophical perspective. If a person rejects the natural law of “God made man and woman,” or the agnostic Darwin evolutionist “man and woman,” or the pagan Mother Earth “man and woman,” then fine. People should have the right to choose (just don’t try to force me to change my opinion on the matter). However, it seems to me that the next logical behavior after rejecting the natural law is BISEXUALITY. If people are free to love the person INSIDE, then that person should logically be someone of the opposite sex some of the time, statistically speaking (if one is TRULY open-minded and tolerant), otherwise there seems to be an intolerance toward those who are “different.” “Xenophobia” is fear of those who are different. The liberal media culture is quick to apply this to race, ethnicity, etc., but not to sexuality. Why? Are they prejudiced?

Consider this paradox, which I think your point makes: How does male homosexual #1 who feels “trapped inside a woman’s body” have a relationship with male homosexual #2? If male homosexual #2 was looking for a “woman” (male homosexual #1), then he would be hetero, not homo, and he never would have become hooked up with male homosexual #1 in the first place, unless male homosexual #2 is also a man who feels “trapped inside a woman’s body,” which, - follow me here - this would necessitate that both men actually believe themselves to be lesbians. Think about that carefully.

The same parallel would apply to lesbians: the “she’s the man” lesbian gets her feminine lesbian, but that does not explain the feminine lesbian, because the feminine lesbian would be looking for a “real” man, and would find one some of the time, statisitcally speaking, unless she is intolerant or fearful of real men, which would appear to be xenophobia. Again, bisexuality would appear to be the natural progression, but that does not appear to be the case, so your post raises an interesting question. Unfortunately, the unelected media has programmed many people to close their minds to discuss these issues, but fairness and free speech say otherwise.
 
I suggest that the recent rise of homosexuality is a reaction made by a patriarchical culture to the movement to give women equal rights. Homosexuals are trying to derive women even of the status in human relationships.

A homosexual is effectively saying “I can go ahead and have a sexual relationship without including women, without having the consent of a woman.” Homosexuality seems to be all about reducing the power and status of women- of making them unnecessary. I think, in spirit and effect, it is almost akin to rape.

Does anyone else see it this way?
No, and trying to understand things using leftist paradigms is dangerous because they’re pretty much always false.

I don’t even really like these philosophical attempts to explain homosexuality (e.g., homosexuality as narcissisim). The evidence suggests it’s a relatively harmless genetic mutation aggravated by certain conditions in the prenatal milieu and encouraged by difficult family conditions and a wildly approving culture.
 
I suggest that the recent rise of homosexuality is a reaction made by a patriarchical culture to the movement to give women equal rights. Homosexuals are trying to derive women even of the status in human relationships.

A homosexual is effectively saying “I can go ahead and have a sexual relationship without including women, without having the consent of a woman.” Homosexuality seems to be all about reducing the power and status of women- of making them unnecessary. I think, in spirit and effect, it is almost akin to rape.
I do suspect the error of radical equality does contribute to homosexuality. The very idea behind it, which should be so obviously false it is hard to believe how anyone could hold it, is that there is no difference between the sexes. If there is in fact no difference between the sexes then a man having sex with a woman is the same as a man having sex with a man since the words man and woman connote no difference.

I would add that I think a culture’s men must have been thoroughly feminized to allow the current relations between the sexes. So in as much as homosexuality is an unnatural feminization of men I think much of it can be attributed to the actions and beliefs of the non-homosexual men who are feminized.

I dont get the likening to rape.
Homosexuality is not some made up reaction against women’s rights. It’s a cross that some people have to bear.
I do not think it is a cross to bear. The cross must be taken up willingly and if homosexuality is a matter of will then that defeats the whole argument that it is not a choice. Crosses to bear are sufferings we choose.
 
No, and trying to understand things using leftist paradigms is dangerous because they’re pretty much always false.

I don’t even really like these philosophical attempts to explain homosexuality (e.g., homosexuality as narcissisim). **The evidence suggests it’s a relatively harmless genetic mutation **aggravated by certain conditions in the prenatal milieu and encouraged by difficult family conditions and a wildly approving culture.
Hi sw85, I also think that homosexuality has more than one factor accounting for it. In another thread, I mentioned (and took some heat for it) that out of the admittedly small sample of homosexual males I’ve encountered or heard about in my life, it struck me that in a vast majority they had either a very strained or nonexistent relationship with their father . Not a well-established scientifc fact nor a decisive factor (perhaps a contributing factor) but merely a personal observation. But what startled me in your post is what you said about the evidence suggesting it’s a genetic mutation. I know many people among homosexuals are looking high and low for a scientic basis to legitimize their sexual orientation and if there was a well-conducted study/research showing a genetic origin to homosexuality, we’d know about it within seconds of it being published. So I was wondering if you could provide some kind of source(s) for this (again, personally I don’t rule out the genetic component). Thank you.
 
I suggest that the recent rise of homosexuality is a reaction made by a patriarchical culture to the movement to give women equal rights. Homosexuals are trying to derive women even of the status in human relationships.

A homosexual is effectively saying “I can go ahead and have a sexual relationship without including women, without having the consent of a woman.” Homosexuality seems to be all about reducing the power and status of women- of making them unnecessary. I think, in spirit and effect, it is almost akin to rape.

Does anyone else see it this way?
There is no “rise” in homosexuality. There has always been a percentage of people who were born homosexual and that percentage has always been around the same. The rise is in awareness and, hopefully, less judgement on these people. My work in crisis intervention made me realize how discrimination and fear influenced the lives of people who are homosexual. The suicide rate, for example, is much higher than in the normal population. Why should anyone be ashamed to be the person they were born to be? The position of the church on the subject really needs to be looked at and re-evaluated. I have a real hard time, for example, with the Church’s position on gay couples adopting.

In my work I have known several gay couples who adopted with great success. Including two gay men who adopted a 10 year old boy, raised him and sent him through college. This boys parents were abusive and the boy was already in trouble with the law at ten. Those men saved that boy. The boy is now through college and is engaged to be married. As someone who was raised in foster care, I would have loved to have been adopted by any loving parents, gay or straight.
 
There has always been a percentage of people who were born homosexual and that percentage has always been around the same. The rise is in awareness and, hopefully, less judgement on these people.
I agree there is a rise in awareness, but also, importantly, acceptance. I’m not sure that the percentage of homosexuals has always been the same. We really dont know that. We’d have to have surveys going back centuries and we dont. And even at that a survey is not the same as actually knowing who engages in homosexual sex or has those attractions because people lie.
My work in crisis intervention made me realize how discrimination and fear influenced the lives of people who are homosexual. The suicide rate, for example, is much higher than in the normal population.
I’m not really sure why a homosexual would feel discriminated against or have fear in this day and age. Homosexuals can ‘marry’ and adopt in many states. It is illegal to discriminate against them in many places. They are featured in a positive light on TV and in schools. The high suicide rate might be better explained as an indication of deep problems related to their homosexuality. In fact this would be an argument that homosexuality is wrong if it were not assumed to be right by most people these days. Has the suicide rate decreased as homosexuality has become accepted and commonplace?
Why should anyone be ashamed to be the person they were born to be?
If the person they were born to be is immoral they should be ashamed. Basic Christian theology says we are born with a sin nature. No one should be proud of that nature. Only if homosexuality is not immoral should a homosexual not be ashamed.
 
Hi sw85, I also think that homosexuality has more than one factor accounting for it. In another thread, I mentioned (and took some heat for it) that out of the admittedly small sample of homosexual males I’ve encountered or heard about in my life, it struck me that in a vast majority they had either a very strained or nonexistent relationship with their father . Not a well-established scientifc fact nor a decisive factor (perhaps a contributing factor) but merely a personal observation. But what startled me in your post is what you said about the evidence suggesting it’s a genetic mutation. I know many people among homosexuals are looking high and low for a scientic basis to legitimize their sexual orientation and if there was a well-conducted study/research showing a genetic origin to homosexuality, we’d know about it within seconds of it being published. So I was wondering if you could provide some kind of source(s) for this (again, personally I don’t rule out the genetic component). Thank you.
There have been studies demonstrating that homosexual men have significantly larger families, but on the maternal side only, than heterosexual men. There is hypothesized (but has not yet been firmly discovered, hence why I simply said “the evidence suggests”) to exist a gene sequence responsible for higher sex drives in women, which makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint, given that women’s low sex drives would naturally be an impediment to procreation. In other words, some women are genetically wired to really, really want to have sex with men. It’s hypothesized homosexual men (improperly) receive this trait from their mothers, hence, they really, really want to have sex with men (possibly explaining, too, why homosexual men have vastly different sexual behaviors than heterosexual ones, for instance, tending to have more partners).

There is also evidence that younger sons are more likely to be gay than older ones. On average, each successive biological son has a 33% greater risk of homosexuality than the first one; the third son, for instance, is twice as likely to be gay as the first. It’s hypothesized that the mother’s immune response to developing testosterone in the womb (which is, after all, an invasive foreign substance in the mother’s body) interferes with sexual differentiation, and this immune response gets stronger with each successive male pregnancy. Because all fetuses start out essentially feminine, the immune response prevents male fetuses from developing their maleness fully, with the result that not only do they develop attraction to males but they also acquire certain features more common to women, i.e., they tend to have feminine digit-length ratios (women tend to have more even lengths of their index and ring fingers, while men tend to have longer ring fingers than index fingers; homosexual men tend to have finger lengths more like women).

These are just probabilistic factors though. We don’t know the determinants of homosexuality. Then again, we don’t have to. As you say, some family environments are likely to be more conducive to homosexuality than others, and this is consistent with what’s called the “diathesis-stress model,” according to which predispositions for certain conditions are actualized by subsequent life events (alcoholism being a good example). In this case, it’s reasonable that a young boy, disposed to be effeminate by virtue of his birth, may develop a strained relationship with his father (who, after all, likely wants his boy to act more like a boy) and thereby identify more strongly with girls.

It’s all interesting stuff. I don’t have sources handy; I was a psych major in college so I read all of these studies back then. There was, however, a pretty interesting documentary on the etiology of homosexuality recently, though I can’t recall the name of it, that hit on all these points. I’m sure I’ve given you enough ammunition to go on in terms of Google searching.

In any event, none of this is really relevant to the question of homosexuality’s moral liceity. Homosexuals want to prove that their desires are naturally occurring because they misapprehend our objection when we say it’s “unnatural”; what we mean is not that homosexuality is not naturally occurring but that it is inconsistent with human nature, which is naturally sexualized and so ordered toward intersex procreation. If today it was discovered that there is a single gene the presence of which accounts totally for homosexuality, that would not change the Catholic Church’s position at all.
The position of the church on the subject really needs to be looked at and re-evaluated. I have a real hard time, for example, with the Church’s position on gay couples adopting.
Careful here. You are duty bound to give full assent of faith to the Church’s magisterium on matters of faith and morals, as it is protected from error by the Holy Spirit in these areas. If you have doubts, there are plenty of books and such written on the topic of the ethics of human sexuality explaining the Church’s position in fuller detail (though I recommend Edward Feser’s The Last Superstition, which rather offers an understanding of natural law theology), but you should avoid attacking the Church’s teaching.
 
Thanks, sw85. Very interesting stuff. I knew you had a solid accademic background. And even if it was proven that homosexuality stemmed exclusively from uterine life and no form of personal assent is ever given, I would still side with the Church. If I was born with a medical condition at birth that was treatable, I’d want that condition to be treated, I wouldn’t want doctors to say, “Since nature intended him to be that way, we won’t try to do anything”.
 
Thanks, sw85. Very interesting stuff. I knew you had a solid accademic background. And even if it was proven that homosexuality stemmed exclusively from uterine life and no form of personal assent is ever given, I would still side with the Church. If I was born with a medical condition at birth that was treatable, I’d want that condition to be treated, I wouldn’t want doctors to say, “Since nature intended him to be that way, we won’t try to do anything”.
You’re very welcome, and that’s a good point – the fact that something is naturally occurring (“normal”) doesn’t mean it’s good (“normative”). Natural law relates to the latter, not the former.
 
This logic can debunked with 5 facts…


  1. *]How is not be attracted to someone, depriving them of rights?
    *]Lesbians exist
    *]Homosexuality (yes, even male homosexual acts) has existed before modern women’s suffrage was even thought of (i.e. Greece, Rome)
    *]I could say the same thing about Male Celibate Catholic clergy
    *]Homosexuality is not a choice. If you believe it is. When did you choose to be attracted (not have sex with, attracted) to the opposite sex? I’m not saying I support the acts, but the appetite (SSA) itself is disordered and not sinful in itself.

    Now, could be please just respectfully disagree with homosexual acts without having demonize them (i.e. portraying them as “sexists”).
 
The evidence suggests it’s a relatively harmless genetic mutation aggravated by certain conditions in the prenatal milieu and encouraged by difficult family conditions and a wildly approving culture.
Do you have evidence for this? Identical twins have the same genes. The identical twins studies show only a 20% incidence of both twins being homosexual. If the condition was genetic, then it should be 100%.
 
There is no “rise” in homosexuality.
The Archives of Sexual Behavior reports: “One of the most salient findings of this study is that 46 percent of homosexual men and 22 percent of homosexual women reported having been molested by a person of the same gender. This contrasts to only 7 percent of heterosexual men and 1 percent of heterosexual women reporting having been molested by a person of the same gender.”

Marie, E. Tomeo, et al., “Comparative Data of Childhood and Adolescence Molestation in Heterosexual and Homosexual Persons,” Archives of Sexual Behavior 30 (2001): 539.

In other words, kids who were molested by adults from the same gender have a much higher than average tendency to be homosexuals, indicating that it most certainly can be created.
 
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