I didn’t say the Bible is completely invalid. I said that you have to think about the context and translation in order to fully understand it. And I said, twice, that the words themselves are not ambiguous - I can read you know. But do you know the original ancient Hebrew, greek or roman words that we now have translated as homosexuality? They point towards men who rape men, male prostitutes, men who abuse young boys, the boys they abuse, and ritual homosexual orgies. I’m sure you would agree that the countless times that the Bible mentions slavery are not a justification for it. Why? Because we analyze it and apply it to modern day life. But with homosexuality you love to revert to literalism to get the point across that you believe to be true.
Here’s the deal…
In the RSV (one of the most literal renderings of Scripture available), in 1 Tim 1:10, the English word used is “sodomites”, which we might - because of conventional usage - be tempted to translate “homosexuals” in general. There is good reason to believe, however, that the reference here to “sodomites” is specifically to those who make use of male prostitutes. Yes.
In 1 Cor. 6:9, the word used in the RSV is “homosexuals”…much less wiggle room. But I’m gonna give this one to you too, just 'cause. It’s free. Let’s pretend it to is actually a reference to men who, say, engage in orgies.
When we back up and take a look at Romans 1:26-27, we start to see something different. Rather than labels for homosexuals, we start seeing a description of the behavior itself. Romans does not say that, “God gave ‘sodomites’ up to their dishonorable passions.” It says first that, “God gave them up to dishonorable passions.” The passage then elaborates on this and proceeds to say that “Their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural.”
Ok. So…“natural” and “unnatural” relations. What are they? Could they be a reference to a “committed” sexual relationship of any kind and a promiscuous relationship? Well…No. Not if one has any regard at all for the context in which the passage is found, no.
The very next verse says that, "the men likewise - " stop here; “likewise” meaning, of course, also. Meaning, “in the same way” “gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another”. And thus, it becomes obvious that what Paul means by “natural” relations is heterosexual ones and his reference to “unnatural relations” is to homosexual relations across the board. No reference to promiscuity, no reference to prostitution, no reference to pedophilia. Only a simple declaration that for a man to lie with a man is, as it already appears without the aid of divine revelation, “unnatural” (that is, contrary to the proper design of nature). Likewise when it comes to women lying with women.
To back up further and go back to the OT, again, Leviticus does not apply labels that can be mistranslated. It simply states in Lev 18:22, “You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination.” Everyone knows that when the word “lie” is used here, we’re not referring to “deception”. We all know what “lie” means.
And in Leviticus 20:13, “If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination;”. Period. No reference to one man offering another money for the sex. No reference to a man lying with a boy. “If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination.” Period. End of story.
Now. Peduzzi. I’m not sure that any of this really matters for you anyway.
I think that the bottom line - for you - is your own perception, your own “sense” of what’s wrong and what’s right, rather than the voice of any higher authority.
You’re gay. Apparently happily so. You have many friends that are gay and that are all “good people”. (And I put that in quotes because there are two kinds of good: selfless good and selfish good; good for its own sake and good for the sake of selfish gain or reward. Homosexual, heterosexual, or asexual, we are all subject to doing good for selfish reasons and may not, then, be as genuinely “good” as we seem.) You know many gay people in general who hold full time jobs, have families and so on and so forth just like everyone else on the planet.
None of them have been struck dead by lightening yet. None of them have had locusts eat them out of house and home. None of them have had boils break out on their skin or their first born brother killed mysteriously in the middle of the night by the angel of death…
Translation???
"Can homosexuality - the “real”, committed kind, not the promiscuous kind - really be all that bad? Can it really, truly be “evil”??? I mean, how could something so evil feel so damn good??? (And appear in many cirlces, just like life does for many heterosexuals)…Right, Peduz?
SK