I myself have no problem with CITH being chosen by those who are reverent and well-disposed, and no problem with COTT being chosen by those who are reverent and well-disposed.
But as far as ‘disobedience and attempting to force one’s will on others’–well, in the 50 years since 1969’s imposition of the OF, even though COTT is not only the ‘default’ position of the entire Church (CITH is an INDULT practice), I witnessed then, and still witness today, parishes where COTT is ridiculed, forbidden, never taught as an option, etc.
I have noticed of late years a practice on these forums where disobedience (anecdotally of course), and hateful remarks etc are attributed ‘traditionalists’ or rad trads. . . yet disobedience and hate are much more widespread by the "OF crowd’.
It’s almost as if there’s a strategy of ‘accusation’ made to weaken the EF position from the start. Because once one is loudly accusing a group of things, somehow people know, “It’s the TRUTH. That’s what I have always heard”, and any remarks to state, "No wait, it is the other group which has done this’ are met with, “Well, of COURSE you’re going to ATTACK”.
Diabolical? Of course. But hard to counter because, of course, there is always that pesky ‘grain of truth’. Even if I have never experienced the so-called rad trad personally (I have high suspicion of trolls and sock puppets), we are fallen humanity and since I see ‘rad OF’ words and actions exist, they surely exist in ‘trads’ somewhere too!
It just seems to me that at least here, the vast majority of us who comment from the position of “We like the Latin Mass” are a lot more ‘tolerant’ than, "Those EF people are SO terrible to us poor OF people who love Pope Francis and are totally obedient to everything and open to the Spirit and want to know what we hear and be able to see at Mass and how could anybody want to go back to being ignorant like the EF fools?. . .
And the vast majority of traditionalists, I repeat, do not call CITH sacrilege!