I will try to get back to you soon because on this forum I have been on a personal question to understand suffering and I have learned a lot!

Thank you most especially BarbaraTherese and JReducation for your words of knowledge!! However, before I go, I would like to suggest that Job’s mother might remind us of Jesus’s mother!!
Here are a few works off the top of my head that might be relevant to this topic:
On the Dolors of Mary by St. Alphonsus Mary de Liguori, one of the 33 Doctors of the Catholic Church, explains the sufferings of Our Lady in great and descriptive detail, the seven sorrows
http://writer.zoho.com/public/immaculate/Seven-dolors
Devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus en.wikisource.org/wiki/Devotion_to_the_Sacred_Heart_of_Jesus#FIRST_POINT._.E2.80.94_The_ardent_desire_Jesus_Christ_feels_to_be_with_us.
Papal Encyclical of His Holiness Pope John Paul II:
On the Christian Meaning of Human Suffering vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/apost_letters/documents/hf_jp-ii_apl_11021984_salvifici-doloris_en.html
A Pope’s Answer to the Problem of Pain catholic.com/thisrock/2007/0701fea1.asp
Here is my very best short shot at why we suffer: Adam and Eve at the fruit from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Thus, suffering is evil and it entered into the world. Just as we know the fullest expression of good or love, Christ, we also have the opportunity to know the fullest expression of evil. Also, I read somewhere, perhaps St. Mary Faustina’s Diary:
Divine Mercy in My Soulsaint-faustina.com/Diary/DMIMS1.shtml that some people are full/drenched of God’s love, other’s barely touched by it. And I realized that often the Church or Christians have been bulwarks against major suffering. William Wilberforce, a Christian, led the campaign to legally ended slavery in Great Britain. Reverend Martin Luther King led the campaign for civil rights here. We see Archbishop Desmond Tutu in South Africa, and even now Reverend Rick Warren donates 90% of his income to the poor.
If we research the Holocaust, we realize that the Catholic Church saved more Jews than all other international organizations combined and according to the Jewish Virtual Library, was the ONLY institution to have a 100% pro-life policy that led them to condem forced sterilziation of the mentally ill.
jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Holocaust/disabled.html jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/anti-semitism/piusdef.html If we research slavery, we see the Catholic Church to the best of my horribly imperfect knowledge, always condemned it.
catholiceducation.org/articles/facts/fm0006.html If we research human history, we realize that Western civilization, which may be increasingly becoming a civilization of love and leads the world in science - which can be used to lessen human suffering- has been founded on uniquely Judeo-Christian roots.
catholiceducation.org/articles/homosexuality/ho0003.html These moral laws may have led to the civiliation’s progress and women’s rights by constraining sexuality - giving people more time to pursue science and reducing idolatry of males. Maybe perhaps God wants to use each individual to end suffering, until Christ’s kingdom is built on earth through the work of individuals drenched with Christ’s love, and God allows it because he knows he will reward us each and every person in the afterlife. Maybe that is how Christ is planning to
humbly rule the world?
I think it is very interesting that a poor person may have
taught Mother Teresa. “Jesus is kissing you from the cross.” “Tell Jesus to stop kissing me.” Maybe we think we are lucky because we are not suffering in this world and we can
choose into suffering but when we die it will be the poor and suffering among us who are first in the kingdom of heaven. The last shall be first and the first last.
May the Holy Spirit through the Immaculate Heart of Mary grant us the graces that we most desperately need! May the LOVE and MERCY of the Sacred Heart of Jesus illuminate our lives, be adored, glorified, venerated, proclaimed, respected, loved, believed, trusted in, now and always, by all souls, all the time!! May the WONDERS of the Immaculate Heart of Mary shield us, be respected, known, loved, believed, venerated, in all creation, by all, in all places!!
*Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. *
Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse. Come Holy Spirit, come by means of the powerful intercession of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, your well beloved spouse.
For the sake of his sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world! For the sake of his sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world! For the sake of his sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world!
O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee!
Sorrowful and Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us!
*Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee. Blessed art Thou among women and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. *