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Then why doesn’t he talk to people who need him? Too busy?***“I don’t (really) care about you!” ***
Then why doesn’t he talk to people who need him? Too busy?***“I don’t (really) care about you!” ***
Bataar,I know the feeling and am in the same boat as the OP. I don’t pray as much as I used to because I kind of came to the “what’s the point?” mindset. From my perspective, for me to pray for an intention seems to be a sure way for it not to happen. I still hope I end up in heaven, moreso because I don’t want to go to hell, but it’s hard to keep that hope alive. In this life, I pretty much have no real hope, ambition, passion or anything. I’m not suicidal or anything, but every day just seems pointless.
Other people will talk to me about this and tell me I need to work on my relationship with God and that a relationship takes two and yada yada yada and completely agree with them, except that I feel like I’m the one putting in the work to maintain the relationship. I used to have a friend several years ago. We were really good friends, or so I thought. After a while, he started hanging out with a different group of people and was harder to get a hold of. Eventually, it got to the point where he never answered his phone when I called or called back when I left a voicemail. After a while of that, I just stopped calling. That’s how it feels with God. Saying prayers is like leaving a message on a voice mail to never get a response back.
Maybe I should have put theThen why doesn’t he talk to people who need him? Too busy?
Would you clarify that statement for me? I’m not sure if you are talking about the actual feeling or whether there are loving acts, which would mean that love is a physical action.It isn’t a physical action.
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Originally Posted by anytimequilter View Post
This isn’t an option for everyone. If you have this option appreciate that. In all honesty I would try to go during the week, but I am not able to. I have to be at work at 6 am and the local churches don’t have mass until 7 am another one has mass at 8 am.
My only option would be to go to Saturday evening mass and Sunday morning mass… which I admit I don’t do both…
Going for the weekend Mass is not an optional extra. You realise this, dont you?
Daily Mass is optional…
Ask your Saviour to help you. He is there to help us in our need and our weakness…
See the weekly Mass as the foundational stone on which to build your spiritual life, without which you will wander in the desert for 40 years, as the Psalmist tells us “for 40 years I was wearied of these people. And I said, their hearts are astray.These people do not know my ways. Then I took an oath in my anger, never shall they enter my rest.”
Ask Jesus our Lord, and He will gently and surely lead you to do the necessary and more. Our Blessed Mother and the saints will come to your aid, if you call on them.
Of course I realize Sunday is not optional. I have gone to Mass every Sunday and holy days of obligation for years and years. I said my only option would be to go to Saturday mass and then go again on Sunday. I don’t do both… I only go on Sunday morningsGod bless.
Exactly.Of course I realize Sunday is not optional. I have gone to Mass every Sunday and holy days of obligation for years and years. I said my only option would be to go to Saturday mass and then go again on Sunday. I don’t do both… I only go on Sunday mornings
I have been going to the Adoration chapel for years and asking Jesus to help me. I have said novenas to Mary, a number of saints and the Holy Spirit.
When you knock and knock but no one answers that is when you start to feel like God doesn’t care.