How do non-denominational Christians pick a church?

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When i dropped the Church for my local non-denom,i left my first “true” worship service deeply puzzled…there was something lacking,i couldn’t figure out what though…A close friend told me next week we have communion,that got my hopes up a bit…before the next service i was back in the Church kneeling before my Lord,i finally understood and knew the truth. Never again has my shadow darked the door to that non-denom
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Sounds rather traumatic; did you need any counseling?Do we realy know what a “true” worship service is? Did you realize that you can kneel before your Lord in your own home?
 
I was basically trying to see how people who “classify” themselves as non-denominational start to find a new church home, without being subjected to crazy theology for a sunday while you visit them.
I’ve never had the “pleasure” of searching for a church home, but most of my friends and coworkers are Protestants, so I’ve seen the process play through many times. Maybe it doesn’t work this way everywhere, but around here it seems like most people just make it known that they’re open to looking, and pretty soon they get invited by just about everybody to visit their church. They’ll ask the inviter a few questions, and I guess based on what they hear, they decide whether it sounds promising enough to justify spending a Sunday morning visiting. Of course, this is a friendly little Bible Belt area, so maybe it doesn’t work that way elsewhere.
 
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Do we really know what a “true” worship service is?
Yes, we can really know what it means to worship in spirit and in truth. That truth is found in the Catholic Church. Christ did not leave us alone to figure this out by ourselves, but left the Holy Spirit to guide His One Church in spirit and in truth. This is not an invisible church but a tangible church that has kept records from the time of Christ what it means to worship and how to “have church.” For me, to bring this back to the original question of this thread, I no longer follow after my favorite musicians, but look to the Church to guide me in the truth. I can get my music needs met elsewhere.
 
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Sounds rather traumatic; did you need any counseling?Do we realy know what a “true” worship service is? Did you realize that you can kneel before your Lord in your own home?
Not as traumatic as it would have been for those who deposited leaflets on my windsheild defaming Mary had i seen them.

You are the one claiming that your style of worship is the true way.

Thanks for telling me i would have never known that.
But i can’t kneel down and worship Him in person in my own home.
 
That’s “Church music.” It’s for going down on your knees and praying to God with; not for dancing with. 😉
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Ever notice how many times in the Psalms, where it refers to playing harps, cymbals and other instruments in worshipping God? How about Psalms 100:1? What about in Samuel when they were celebrating the return of the Ark of the Covenant? There is a time and place for every kind of music! Sometimes, I like the lights down low, and "Amazing Grace(My Chains are Gone) playing, and other times, “All Because of Jesus,” is appropriate!:cool:
 
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I know of no Catholics who simply registered at the parish closest to them. They all shopped around. My brother-in-law and my sister worship at a Catholic parish about a 30 minutes drive from their home - passing right by a number of Catholic churches in the process. They like the pastor there, the church seemed friendlier than the others they visited, and it was regarded as the only one around that is kid-friendly (they have a baby) and where there are a number of younger families. They also liked the family oriented activities.

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The only time I ever attended a Catholic Church other than the closest one, was a time in high school when the closest parish (10 miles away) had a priest with such a heavy French accent that none of us could understand him. (And my dad grew up speaking French!) So we went to the nearest Catholic Church in the opposite direction, maybe 15 miles away. We only lived there one year, so I don’t know if we would have continued that way.
 
Not as traumatic as it would have been for those who deposited leaflets on my windsheild defaming Mary had i seen them.

You are the one claiming that your style of worship is the true way.

Thanks for telling me i would have never known that.
But i can’t kneel down and worship Him in person in my own home.
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If I would have been the victim of someone doing something like that, I would have prayed for them:) That’s what I did for the person who smashed out my driver’s side window, and stole a purse from my car last week! And I never said that my style of worship was the “true” way, just an acceptable way! Listen I have been to churches, where their "worship music reminds me of being at a funeral, and it was okay with me! But then I discovered contemporary Christian music! I still LOVE the old hymns, in fact I like a good mix of both. I have been worshipping Him in my home, or other’s homes for years! He will meet you wherever you are!😃
 
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Actually, it would be disrespectful to Jesus, who did not give us any direction as to how to worship Him!
Jesus gave us the Church, the Church gave us the Bible, the Bible includes the Book of Revelation, and the Book of Revelation describes how worship is done in heaven, so I guess you could say Jesus gave us some direction after all. The description of worship in heaven does indeed include heavenly music, but it includes much more and sounds VERY Catholic.
 
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If I would have been the victim of someone doing something like that, I would have prayed for them:) That’s what I did for the person who smashed out my driver’s side window, and stole a purse from my car last week! And I never said that my style of worship was the “true” way, just an acceptable way! Listen I have been to churches, where their "worship music reminds me of being at a funeral, and it was okay with me! But then I discovered contemporary Christian music! I still LOVE the old hymns, in fact I like a good mix of both. I have been worshipping Him in my home, or other’s homes for years! He will meet you wherever you are!😃
At this point in time i would pray too…back then i had an issue with those whom lied to me about the most important thing in this life.
 
I haven’t jumped into the whole Eucharist thing (it is off topic a bit) but this says it all bout the Eucharist

John 6: 47-66

47Amen, amen, I say to you, whoever believes has eternal life.
48 I am the bread of life.
49 Your ancestors ate the manna in the desert, but they died;
50 this is the bread that comes down from heaven so that one may eat it and not die.
51 I am the living bread that came down from heaven; whoever eats this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world."
52 The Jews quarreled among themselves, saying, “How can this man give us (his) flesh to eat?”
53 Jesus said to them, “Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you.
54 Whoever eats 19 my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day.
55 For my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink.
56 Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him.
57 Just as the living Father sent me and I have life because of the Father, so also the one who feeds on me will have life because of me.
58 This is the bread that came down from heaven. Unlike your ancestors who ate and still died, whoever eats this bread will live forever.”
59 These things he said while teaching in the synagogue in Capernaum.
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20 Then many of his disciples who were listening said, “This saying is hard; who can accept it?”
61 Since Jesus knew that his disciples were murmuring about this, he said to them, “Does this shock you?
62 What if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? 21
63 It is the spirit that gives life, while the flesh 22 is of no avail. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and life.
64 But there are some of you who do not believe.” Jesus knew from the beginning the ones who would not believe and the one who would betray him.
65 And he said, “For this reason I have told you that no one can come to me unless it is granted him by my Father.”
66 As a result of this, many (of) his disciples returned to their former way of life and no longer accompanied him.

I for one, do not want to be one of his disciples that said “this is hard how can I accept it”
 
I take it you don’t have an ear for good music.😃

How about’s we use the music the apostle’s listened to during their worship…gee what would that be none? Let’s not forget the folk whom say no to music during worship…
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Now you’re questioning my “ear” for music? Do catholic churches have good music? Heard some pretty “rockin” tunes at a catholic funeral in Fresno, Ca last year! Did Davidplay music for God, h-m-m-m-m, thr harp maybe? And it’s okay to not have music during worship, but it’s equally okay to have it:p
 
Jesus gave us the Church, the Church gave us the Bible, the Bible includes the Book of Revelation, and the Book of Revelation describes how worship is done in heaven, so I guess you could say Jesus gave us some direction after all. The description of worship in heaven does indeed include heavenly music, but it includes much more and sounds VERY Catholic.
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To be quite honest, it sounds HEAVENLY, and melodic; but definitely not catholic!
 
Jesus gave us the Church, the Church gave us the Bible, the Bible includes the Book of Revelation, and the Book of Revelation describes how worship is done in heaven, so I guess you could say Jesus gave us some direction after all. The description of worship in heaven does indeed include heavenly music, but it includes much more and sounds VERY Catholic.
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This may be part of what drew me to the Catholic Church. I loved the visions of heavenly worship in the book of Revelation. I loved those scriptures, and I loved to sing any song with text from Revelation. Now here I get to have a little glimpse of heaven every time I go to Mass.

scripturecatholic.com/revelation_and_the_mass.html
 
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Does this mean you agree with his post, even though you have no idea what the conversation is about?:confused:
How can you say, I can’t have any idea what the conversation is about? I can read.:confused:

I agree, because I see where he is coming from. I have been there myself. God is much more than music (worship). Maybe someday you’ll see Church is not about YOU FEELING GOOD, it is about our Lord Jesus Christ.
 
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He is an incredibly gifted writer and speaker!:thumbsup:Is he no longer a Church of Christ pastor? Are they not a denomination?
The church has dropped the “Church of Christ” in the name. Honestly I think everything else is exactly the same. I think the die-hard “Church of Christ” members were struggling with all of the musical instruments, so they shed the name. 🙂
 
How can you say, I can’t have any idea what the conversation is about? I can read.:confused:

I agree, because I see where he is coming from. I have been there myself. God is much more than music (worship). Maybe someday you’ll see Church is not about YOU FEELING GOOD, it is about our Lord Jesus Christ.
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WEll, D-U-H! I already know that God is way more than music!😛 And I also know that it is not about what YOU get out of the worship, it’s about what God gets out of the worship! Is His name glorified, does He receive the praise that He is worthy of?👍
 
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