I have had a mixed response to this over time. There have been times when I have been actually touched at the sincerity of the offer, while at times when I am at a low ebb that I have taken real offense. Given the fact that I am here posting on a Catholic site I tend to take offers here to pray for me as a sincere sign of good will, but I have taken offense when a prayer has been offered in my real life circumstances for 2 reasons:
- It is offered instead of real help.
- It is offered and then the problem resolves itself and the one praying takes quiet satisfaction that it was due to their involvement when in fact it was the hard work of others that actually solved the problem.
In such circumstances the offer of prayer appears to the atheist to be a means for the one so praying to absolve themselves of further physical assistance while simultaneously sharing in the credit for any future resolution no matter how tenuous might be the claimed Godly intervention.
In an argument it might equally appear slightly patronizing to the atheist as it allows the theist to claim a morally superior stance of quiet confidence…a stance that the atheist simply does not believe to exist. In my personal case, because I am here in a learning capacity, I do not mind if the theist offers to pray for me…it does me no harm…of which I am aware…!