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I’d like to return to the OP’s question.How do you feel about atheists? Do you pity them? Hope for them? Argue with them? Pray for them?
For about a decade I worked with, and later for, a self-described atheist named Rodney.
Rodney was a very intelligent black man with a background in the air force. I was a conservative Baptist in those days, so we had many spirited conversations.
On the positive side, Rodney taught me how to ask questions. How to ask them in such a way that it forced me dig deeper into my intellect and use rationality. In some ways, a piece of why I abandoned fundamentalism and became a Catholic again, I owe to him and those many talks we had. He also had an ethical nature that was, sorry to say, superior to the ‘born-again’ Christian supervisor he replaced. He wasn’t anti-Church, he just disliked hypocrisy. More than a few times I remember his reaction to the stupidity of employees by looking up and saying to the Deity he did not believe in “See? This is why I don’t believe!”
On the negative side, Rodney never seemed to have any joy in his life. He went from one woman to the next without ever finding happiness with another human being. He had a negativity that was eating away at him. He had nothing to ‘latch onto’, no source of stability or permanence. His mother was a Christian who often prayed for him
Rodney died four years ago. I had lost touch with him after moving. I still occasionally remember Rodney when I pray the Rosary.
And I hope his mother never stopped praying either.