How do you know if it's God

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When you pray, how do you know if God is trying to tell you something or if it’s your own thoughts? I always hear stories here and testimonies where people will talk about how God told them something. Prayer is like talking to a brick wall for me, I don’t get how you differentiate your own thoughts/God’s. Am I missing out on something?
 
This is really an excellent question, I think. And it is hard to answer. At least it has been for me, anyways. I think a lot of us don’t take time to even listen.

For myself, I’m still trying to figure this out. The biggest first step is simply to be quiet and listen for a span of time when we pray.
 
When you pray, how do you know if God is trying to tell you something or if it’s your own thoughts? I always hear stories here and testimonies where people will talk about how God told them something. Prayer is like talking to a brick wall for me, I don’t get how you differentiate your own thoughts/God’s. Am I missing out on something?
It will be in agreement with the teaching of the Catholic Church.
  • Catechism 1777 (excerpt): “When he listens to his conscience, the prudent man can hear God speaking.”
Remember how St. Joseph received his messages:

Matthew 1:20-21
20 But while he thought on these things, behold the angel of the Lord appeared to him in his sleep, saying: Joseph, son of David, fear not to take unto thee Mary thy wife, for that which is conceived in her, is of the Holy Ghost.
21 And she shall bring forth a son: and thou shalt call his name Jesus. For he shall save his people from their sins.
Matthew 2:13
13 And after they were departed, behold an angel of the Lord appeared in sleep to Joseph, saying: Arise, and take the child and his mother, and fly into Egypt: and be there until I shall tell thee. For it will come to pass that Herod will seek the child to destroy him.
Matthew 2:19-20
19 But when Herod was dead, behold an angel of the Lord appeared in sleep to Joseph in Egypt,
20 Saying: Arise, and take the child and his mother, and go into the land of Israel. For they are dead that sought the life of the child.
 
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When you pray, how do you know if God is trying to tell you something or if it’s your own thoughts? I always hear stories here and testimonies where people will talk about how God told them something. Prayer is like talking to a brick wall for me, I don’t get how you differentiate your own thoughts/God’s. Am I missing out on something?
I struggle with the same thing. I don’t think I have ever clearly “heard God’s voice” speaking to me. I sometimes wonder if I am doing something wrong, or not praying enough, or being quiet enough, or doing something wrong.
 
Remember that God uses angels to communicate to men. That is good angels.

According to St. Thomas Aquinas, good angels and bad angels can affect the thoughts of man (Summa Theologica).

A true sign that God is communicating with you is that you will feel his love.
 
Hi, Lea!

Yeah, this is a tough nugget… and it’s not gold!

Consider an example in my own life…

I’m at a bus stop and I see this good-looking young woman approaching… she’s what I’m waiting for… she stands right next to me (must be God’s answer); then she takes out a cigarette and starts to smoke (I’ve allergies)… I begin to sweat and my sinuses begin to play their game… I wonder if I’m not being judgmental and could I be pushing God’s reply asunder? So I determine to suck it up! (after all, this could be a God sent) While considering that I could put up with it, at least for a good while, another attractive young woman comes near me… she too begins to smoke… I was bombarded in stereo with something that is toxic to me… I saw myself as a lab rat–being exposed to concentrated smoke from left to right…

I could not believe it! Two attractive females at my reach and I could not experience happiness unless I traded off my health or their contentment.

My lessons: God did not send me the “love of my life” and He did cautioned me that it would not be a pretty sight (love and happiness abound) even if I forced myself to accept my “dreamboat’s” intimate relations with nicotine.

Sometimes the answer is, “No.” (yet, we do not want to hear it)

Sometimes the answer is, “Not yet.” (yet, we refuse to wait one second longer)

Sometimes the answer is, “Let Me tell you when/how.” (yet, we do not want Him as the Pilot of our lives)

Maran atha!

Angel
 
Hi, Irish!

…ever thought that maybe He has answered but we missed it?:
19:11 Then he was told, ‘Go out and stand on the mountain before Yahweh’. Then Yahweh himself went by. There came a mighty wind, so strong it tore the mountains and shattered the rocks before Yahweh. But Yahweh was not in the wind. After the wind came an earthquake. But Yahweh was not in the earthquake. 19:12 After the earthquake came a fire. But Yahweh was not in the fire. And after the fire there came the sound of a gentle breeze. 19:13 And when Elijah heard this, he covered his face with his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. Then a voice came to him, which said, ‘What are you doing here, Elijah?’ (1 Kings)
Sometimes we can miss the forest for the trees; God may be answering through that which seems insignificant in our lives… we miss it because we are expecting grandeur and uncontested “proof.”

Maran atha!

Angel
 
Hi!

…and positive proof is that it is according to His Will–something that furthers, aides or enhances the Body of Christ.

Maran atha!

Angel
 
I advise daily praying the Prayer to One’s Guardian Angel. This way, you establish a relationship with your Guardian Angel, who God has assigned to you.
 
Self abandonment to Divine Providence by Cassade is one good book that can speak to us on how God speaks to us in our daily lives.

One way God speaks to us and shows us His holy will is through the circumstances of our daily lives.
 
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I also add that he uses other people to speak to us. But again, angels have a part in that as well.
 
If it is a good thought that isn’t selfish I would say you can be almost certain it is God.
 
In my experience I know it is God talking to me when the message is said in five words or less (often just two or three words). So quick, so easy, so simple, so pure. God does not talk in diatribes or dissertations, that is the devil’s realm. Also, for me, I never hear God’s voice during prayer. I hear it while I’m doing the daily tasks of life and am not specifically waiting to hear his voice.

I guess for me, prayer is the time for me to do all the talking. The time for God to do the talking to me is during the living of my mundane life, when I need it the most.
 
But what if it’s just my own thoughts? I sometimes ‘think’ about how God would respond
 
When you pray, how do you know if God is trying to tell you something or if it’s your own thoughts?
When I pray, I’m normally talking to God. I don’t hear anything in return.
I always hear stories here and testimonies where people will talk about how God told them something.
Me too.
I don’t get how you differentiate your own thoughts/God’s.
When I get good ideas, I chalk it up to the Holy Spirit’s inspiration. When I get bad ideas, I chalk it up to my own error.
Am I missing out on something?
I don’t know. When I pray, I feel calm and sometimes I feel a burning in my chest. Do you? I also feel that, sometimes, when I read holy books like the Bible and the Catechism. And at Mass.

In addition, I feel a need to pray. And when I don’t, I feel like something’s missing.

But I don’t hear anyone speaking to me, though.
 
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I have flagged this as it is NOT teachings of the Catholic Church
 
I don’t feel anything at all. No calmness, no nothing. It’s like I would feel exactly the same if I were to have a conversation with a lamp, which is why I’m so lost when people say they felt like God was saying _______ to them, or that they feel his love
 
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