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It has been mentioned that some live in fear that SP will be overruled. But we all have our fears, and IMO, we should consider not rebuking or judging those who do live with this fear. If we are to be tolerant of others, then shouldn’t tolerance extend also to those with whom we disagree, and who even treat us badly? Or should we only tolerate those with whom we agree, and who also show us respect?
 
It has been mentioned that some live in fear that SP will be overruled. But we all have our fears, and IMO, we should consider not rebuking or judging those who do live with this fear. If we are to be tolerant of others, then shouldn’t tolerance extend also to those with whom we disagree, and who even treat us badly? Or should we only tolerate those with whom we agree, and who also show us respect?
Tolerance is not the same as putting up with abuse that can and should be avoided. There are times that we have to tolerate a certain amount of abuse, because we can’t reach out and pop the other person. You grin and bear it.

As to those who fear that SP will be revoked, I was not criticizing them at all. I was pointing to a simple fact. We don’t know the future. To worry about something that we don’t know if it will happen is unnecessary. It only wears one out. At this point in time, no one has even mentioned touching SP. Those who worry about it need help to refocus on something more productive.
I’m slow today…
Good. That means that I can keep up with you. 😃
 
To worry about something that we don’t know if it will happen is unnecessary. It only wears one out. At this point in time, no one has even mentioned touching SP. Those who worry about it need help to refocus on something more productive.
I’m not sure it’s correct to say that a person who worries about SP being overruled needs help to refocus on something more productive. We can’t really dictate, IMO, what other Catholics should be thinking and doing, or what they should choose as being productive. This amounts to wanting to control others, which in itself can be counterproductive.
 
I’m not sure it’s correct to say that a person who worries about SP being overruled needs help to refocus on something more productive. We can’t really dictate, IMO, what other Catholics should be thinking and doing, or what they should choose as being productive. This amounts to wanting to control others, which in itself can be counterproductive.
So what should we do when we see or hear someone worrying about something that has not happened yet, something that no one has given an indication is in the process of happening, and in the end he or she has no control of what will happen?
 
So what should we do when we see or hear someone worrying about something that has not happened yet, something that no one has given an indication is in the process of happening, and in the end he or she has no control of what will happen?
Perhaps remind them, in charity, that Jesus himself explicitly stated that we are not to worry. Worry denotes a lack of trust in God and a desire to be in control. I myself cannot understand why some people worry about this, as the subject has never, ever been alluded to by our Pope. I think to plant the seeds of unnecessary concern and worry and suspicion in someone without sufficient reason is leading others astray, and Jesus had something to say about that, too.

No, we cannot dictate what others are thinking or doing, no one has suggested that, but we do have a Christian duty to correct erroneous thinking and point out the truth to other Christians. That, too, is Biblical. But it must always be done in love.
 
Brother JR,
I am coming into this thread late, but I have been trying to articulate my thoughts. I, too, have felt like a fish out of water here, and I consider myself a very traditional Catholic. But lately I have been noticing something, but I admit I may be wrong. There is a noted tendency toward scrupulosity in many posters, and a rigidity toward form and rubrics that leads some posters to disrespect clergy, Bishops, priests, fellow parishoners and posters in disparaging terms, although the mods do the best they can to keep it under control. I have noticed that a large percentage of this comes from very young posters with little actual life experience in dealing with others. I am in my middle sixties now and if there is one thing I have learned, it is that I know virtually nothing when compared to what I thought I knew when I was in my teens, twenties, and even 30’s. In other words, I have mellowed. I have learned to pick my battles. Do I like liturgical abuse? No, but there are things that are worth concerning oneself about, and there are things not worth the bother. I doubt highly that the Good Lord is as concerned about some things that drive others to complain, moan, and groan and swear the Church is going to h— in a handbag and most Catholics along with it.

We simply cannot sit in Mass and point at others. We cannot point a finger and say “That person isn’t paying attention”, or “That person looks like he does not respect the Eucharist” or “The priest is a liberal modernist” etc. Nor can we get so upset over minute aberrancies in the liturgy that it interferes with our prayer. Not only is it bad for one’s spiritual life, when one repeats it on the forums, it can cause a vulnerable person to follow that example, it can cause another to sin. But I think a lot of this is just a matter of immaturity.

We simply can never judge the inner disposition of anyone, even if the outer doesn’t look so promising. That is sacred space, so to speak, and belongs to God alone. But that takes a lot of living to learn that, and even at my age, I slip and fall in this regard. But it is something one needs to constantly be on guard against.

I am not meaning to generalize here and point a finger at the young ones, because there are plenty of us older folks that have a lot to learn, including me, but it is something I have noticed.
 
Did SP being “over-ruled” first appear in a prophetic (pathetic?) YouTube video or something? Did John Vnnr* and his happy troupe of dour defeatists predict it? Doesn’t all of this fear-mongering silliness have the faint ring of “End Times Pope: Petrus Romanus!” in it?

There seems to be little unemployment in the Novus Ordo conspiracy theorist camp.
 
I’m not sure it’s correct to say that a person who worries about SP being overruled needs help to refocus on something more productive. We can’t really dictate, IMO, what other Catholics should be thinking and doing, or what they should choose as being productive. This amounts to wanting to control others, which in itself can be counterproductive.
You’re misunderstanding me. I don’t mean it that way. Let me try this.

If my brother came to me expressing concern about this, my response would be to tell him that he’s worrying about something that may never happen, because no one has said anything about turning SP around.

Then I would add that even if the pope did do this, which I sincerely doubt will happen, what will worrying do? Popes have the authority to do that.

And again, I would encourage him to put that idea aside, because SP is not being discussed right now.

What he does with my well intended advice is his choice. I’m not controlling anything or anyone.
 
Perhaps remind them, in charity, that Jesus himself explicitly stated that we are not to worry. Worry denotes a lack of trust in God and a desire to be in control. I myself cannot understand why some people worry about this, as the subject has never, ever been alluded to by our Pope. I think to plant the seeds of unnecessary concern and worry and suspicion in someone without sufficient reason is leading others astray, and Jesus had something to say about that, too.

No, we cannot dictate what others are thinking or doing, no one has suggested that, but we do have a Christian duty to correct erroneous thinking and point out the truth to other Christians. That, too, is Biblical. But it must always be done in love.
Why didn’t I think of saying it this way? 👍
 
Did SP being “over-ruled” first appear in a prophetic (pathetic?) YouTube video or something? Did John Vnnr* and his happy troupe of dour defeatists predict it? Doesn’t all of this fear-mongering silliness have the faint ring of “End Times Pope: Petrus Romanus!” in it?

There seems to be little unemployment in the Novus Ordo conspiracy theorist camp.
I tried reading the link another person kindly posted for me… could someone, anyone 'splain it to me, using little words? 😃
 
I tried reading the link another person kindly posted for me… could someone, anyone 'splain it to me, using little words? 😃
Summorum Pontificum is the document by Benedict XVI that freed up the use of the Extraodinary Form of the Mass, also called the TLM. It is Mass celebrated according the the Missal that was in use prior to 1969 when the Ordinary Form (what we celebrate now) was introduced.
 
Brother JR,
I am coming into this thread late, but I have been trying to articulate my thoughts. I, too, have felt like a fish out of water here, and I consider myself a very traditional Catholic. But lately I have been noticing something, but I admit I may be wrong. There is a noted tendency toward scrupulosity in many posters, and a rigidity toward form and rubrics that leads some posters to disrespect clergy, Bishops, priests, fellow parishoners and posters in disparaging terms,
When trust is eroded, not matter whether you’re on the left or the right, people don’t realize how defensive they become. When they become defensive, it’s a short walk to becoming offensive. Think of a cornered cat. All of us need to work self-control.
I am in my middle sixties now
You’re just a kid.
there are things that are worth concerning oneself about, and there are things not worth the bother.
I had such an experience on Sunday when two women in front of me decided to start a conversation before mass and the lady next to me had three kids and two of them started to play, again before mass. I wanted to pray. The only choice I had was pray through it or find another seat. The church was full. That narrowed it down to no choice but pray through it.
I doubt highly that the Good Lord is as concerned about some things that drive others to complain, moan, and groan and swear the Church is going to h— in a handbag and most Catholics along with it.
I would agree. God is not a hypersensitive as we are. He knows us very well and knows what’s in our hearts. God doesn’t sweat the simple things. I’m reminded of several things in scripture. The one story is Jesus eating with sinners and tax collectors. OK, maybe if I see Jesus eating with the IRS man it might raise my eyebrow. 😃 But he didn’t seem to sweat that. He was looking into their hearts and dealing with them at that level. The other story is similar, when the disciples are eating on the Sabbath. “The Sabbath is made for man, not man for the Sabbath.” That rule has not changed, because it’s common sense.

At our parish, we have between 5,000 and 6,000 people at mass every Sunday. You do the math. The church sits 800 and there are 7 full masses. This past Sunday I had to shake myself. I was watching the line for Communion and immediately thought about how many had been there for confession on Saturday. I think there may have been only about 150 or so. I had to remind myself MYOB. I just closed my eyes and covered my face with my cowl.
Did SP being “over-ruled” first appear in a prophetic (pathetic?) YouTube video or something? Did John Vnnr* and his happy troupe of dour defeatists predict it? Doesn’t all of this fear-mongering silliness have the faint ring of “End Times Pope: Petrus Romanus!” in it?

There seems to be little unemployment in the Novus Ordo conspiracy theorist camp.
:rotfl:
 
There have to be others who love tradition and do not live in fear of the pope overruling SP.
Hello again, Brother JReducation,

Traditionalist with a captial “T” and traditionalist with a lower case “t” can be so confusing to try and explain to people without scandalizing them or writing a novel all the time that I hesitate to label myself.

The main thing is, I follow the Pope. And I would rather stay out of arguments where people favor certain Popes over other Popes because some Popes are seen as “conservative” and others are seen as “liberal” … Because I trust that each Pope is chosen by the Holy Spirit. And I take joy in that.

As for the SP … Latin Mass issue.

Whenever I mention on CAF that I have a special love for the Latin Mass, I always feel the need to write a long disclaimer such as the following to stave off attack posts:

"I am officially a member of a parish with an English-language Mass. Besides attending the Mass in Latin in the US, I have also attended the Mass in Spanish and Latin while visiting Spain and the Mass in Portuguese as well as a Byzantine-style Mass while visiting Fatima, Portugal. I would also be very interested in attending the Mass in French, Japanese, German … " :highprayer:

" … and being a Trekkie, I have even seen the “Our Father” translated into the Klingon language!" 🙂

We are all unique … why the rush to judgment to label one another or disparage one another just for being different when it comes to language preference, when the Catholic Church recognizes Masses both in Latin and Masses in the vernacular, i.e., language of each country?

~~ the phoenix
 
Hello again, Brother JReducation,

Traditionalist with a captial “T” and traditionalist with a lower case “t” can be so confusing to try and explain to people without scandalizing them or writing a novel all the time that I hesitate to label myself.
Now you’ve peaked my curiosity. What’s the difference between a traditionalist with upper case and lower T.
The main thing is, I follow the Pope. And I would rather stay out of arguments where people favor certain Popes over other Popes because some Popes are seen as “conservative” and others are seen as “liberal” … Because I trust that each Pope is chosen by the Holy Spirit. And I take joy in that.
The issue with popes is that we forget that popes are human beings. Every human being has his own personality. Every human being has his personal history, which comes to the job with him and usually influences his agenda. And every human being looks at the Church through his window, not someone else’s window. It’s the old thing about four people at an intersection watching two cars collide. There are going to be similarities and differences in their reports, because of different perspectives.

We also have to remember that popes cannot solve every problem in the Church. They never have and never will. The Church is too big and there are too many things to deal with. A pope has to pick and choose. His priorities are not going to be my own.
" … and being a Trekkie, I have even seen the “Our Father” translated into the Klingon language!" 🙂
Do I really want to ask? :nope:
We are all unique … why the rush to judgment to label one another or disparage one another just for being different when it comes to language preference, when the Catholic Church recognizes Masses both in Latin and Masses in the vernacular, i.e., language of each country?
~~ the phoenix
I agree. I also feel that Latin is not going to disappear, just because it’s not commonly used. It still remains the liturgical language of the Latin Church. By the way, for those who don’t know, it’s not called the Latin Church because we used the Latin language. It’s the Latin Church, because it’s the Church of the Latin (Roman) world.

It is beautiful. I love a mass in Latin, OF or EF. But I don’t feel deprived if I have to attend mass in one of the modern languages, especially Spanish and Italian. They’re beautiful languages. I speak both, so it’s not a problem for me.

Speaking of that, I friend of mine went to Europe and came back saying that they had gone to mass and did not understand the language, but they could follow along and say the prayers in English, because just looking they knew where they were in the mass. The only thing they missed out on was the readings and the homily. I thought that was good to hear.
 
I always teach our novices something that you may find useful. In fact, we were discussing this in last week’s lesson.

I was explaining how we live in a world of “trust and verify”. But this is not evangelical. I was explaining that in the life of faith, the burden of proof is not on the teacher, but on the student. It’s not on the speaker but on the receiver.

This goofy custom that you often find on forums where people want you to give them document, page, parr and art is silly. As we go through life on the journey of faith, we learn many things. We see and hear many things and we record them in our memory banks. Further down the road, we find ourselves sharing what we have gathered along the way. This is how tradition works. It was this way from before the first book of the bible was written to today.

If someone wants to know more about what I say, they can certainly ask me where I got that information. If have the resource handy, it is charitable to share it. If I don’t remember where I picked it up or if it’s something that someone taught me and I never looked it up, then I don’t have a source. However, that does not make my statement unreliable. It is the burden of the one who believes that the statement is unreliable to prove it.

These two novices just received the habit on August 14th. They’re just starting their formal studies. I was trying to establish that we would be teaching them any things, but we cannot spend the time and energy proving everything we say by digging up ancient documents or things that are archived in Assisi, Rome, or some library somewhere and are not readily available. You either trust or you do the leg work for yourself; but don’t impose on the other person. The problem does not belong to the other person. It is not the other person who doubts. It is you. Therefore, since you have the need to satisfy your doubt, you have the responsibility to do the necessary work.

We have taken something from the world of politics “trust and verify” and over generalized it. We’re trying to use it in the world of faith. The world of faith does not operate that way. Theologians don’t get up in a classroom and give references during their lectures. They would never get done. The theology student has to go find the information himself. The preacher does not give footnotes and bibliography when preaching a retreat or mission. He speaks. The person listening takes it, leaves it or does the research for himself. The Fathers of the Church never gave footnotes. They simply taught and wrote what had been handed to them via oral tradition.

In other words, we must be careful not to stifle oral tradition. Oral tradition is part of every culture and the Church is on exception. It’s a beautiful part of culture. It’s much more beautiful when to people interact then when someone slips a document under your nose and says, “Here, read this.” That’s pretty cold. Lawyers do that, not evangelists.
I was taking a bit of a light-hearted dig at myself, but I do get too personally involved with posts sometimes.

However, I also have a fear that often the last word could go to something which is not either the truth or the whole truth. Since there are often many more views than posts in a thread I fear that someone who is new to the faith, or is vulnerable in some way, or is scrupulous, or is suffering could read some posts and be led astray in some way.
 
This year I am one, of several, teachers in RCIA. I commented to my wife on the way home how many of the questions candidates often ask are nothing like I find on the internet. In fact, many are quite mundane and ordinary. No great moral or theological issue. It’s a constant reminder of the difference between the internet and the real world.
Even across the Tiber in evangelical churches, most pew warmers, except the preacher, are not wracking their brains about theology or customs in their church. Their questions are more practical and ordinary.
Only on the internet do I find Catholics who are scrupulous to the point of obsession about religious matters. Oftentimes the comments are negative toward clergy, religious, and other Catholics. I seriously consider simply saying to these people that they might be better off at the local hell-fire and brimstone Baptist church down the road. The problem is not with the Church or their local parish, the problem is with them.
Evangelicals love to ask the question “do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?” It’s actually a pretty silly question. It’s like asking if you have a “personal relationship” with your wife. For the Catholic, we have the Eucharist. I don’t think we can get any more personal than that.
I bring this up because being Catholic is intensly personal. It’s about MY walk with God, no someone elses. If my focus is on others and what they are doing, I can easily miss the decay in my spiritual life. Is it personal? You better believe it.
I have learned, over time, to concern myself with my own journey to Heaven, so my questions now, like these new Catholics, are now more mundane and ordinary. I don’t need to worry over every jot and tittle of Catholic doctrine and practice. That is to be left up to the doctors of the Church.
I can relax over that and focus on that “personal relationship” that being Catholic is all about.
 
Now you’ve peaked my curiosity. What’s the difference between a traditionalist with upper case and lower T.
The way I see it personally, “Traditionalist” stands for someone from the SSPX (technically non-Catholic) who loves the Latin Mass while “traditionalist” stands for a Catholic who follows the Pope and loves the Latin Mass. This is by no means a universal definition, but rather my own idiosyncratic way of looking at things. And whether spelled in lower case or with a capital letter, I find the term itself confusing and would have to ask whoever calls himself or herself a “T / traditionalist” what the term personally means to that individual. Which is why I’ve come to prefer the phrase “Catholic who follows the Pope.”

And as for the popes, totally agree with you … of course each one brings his own experience as a human being to the papacy, and guiding the Church as the Vicar of Christ is entrusted to him.
Do I really want to ask? :nope:
Way back in the history of Star Trek fandom, (I would rather not say how far back), there were some Protestants (likely nondenominational or evangelical, I’m not sure) who started a group called Klingons for Christ. Yes, seriously. I’m not sure whether this group still exists, haven’t heard about it in years. And no, I did not join the group. However, apparently, some of these people became members of the Klingon Language Institute. Well, that’s the short answer.
It is beautiful. I love a mass in Latin, OF or EF. But I don’t feel deprived if I have to attend mass in one of the modern languages, especially Spanish and Italian. They’re beautiful languages. I speak both, so it’s not a problem for me.

Speaking of that, I friend of mine went to Europe and came back saying that they had gone to mass and did not understand the language, but they could follow along and say the prayers in English, because just looking they knew where they were in the mass. The only thing they missed out on was the readings and the homily. I thought that was good to hear.
It definitely was interesting in Spain to attend the Latin Mass in la Catedral Vieja in Salamanca, and hear the Gospel and homily in Spanish rather than English.

I speak Spanish, having studied it for many years since age seven, and have also studied Latin in high school, French in college, took two semesters of Japanese in night school, recently went through German with the Rosetta Stone program, and yes, have studied some Klingon. Linguistics is something that just comes naturally.

And to get back to what’s important before getting off on too much of a tangent …

As an artist with an imagination that can sometimes be classified as zany, I still have a deep appreciation for the ancient treasures of the Catholic Church as far as customs and liturgy.

~~ the phoenix
 
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