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TheAtheist
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One of the small advantages of being a teacher is when a few years after your students have dawned the robe and cap and gone out into the world… they occasionally come back and tell you about their exploits.
And, at least for me, I take a modicum of pleasure when I find out that something I said/did/taught put them on a path to achieving their dreams.
And then sometimes… sometimes it just goes all horribly wrong.
Submit for your consideration - an Asian student of mine, American-born, religious (one of yours my dear Catholics), philosophical, funny, decent student, and above-all quite humane.
He fit a certain I guess you can say, stereotype - the child of immigrants wanting to take care of his parents when they were older, kept himself focused on his studies through secondary school and college and in doing so skipped out on what people might consider the “normal” chain of events that color the American High school and College experience.
A few years ago, he was passing through the alma mater and stopped by and told me his life “finally turned a corner.” He had just been admitted to Medical School, met a lovely sassy Russian girl in his classes (who also fits a kind of stereotype apparently for her community, but i’m unfamiliar with what those outlines might be), was tutoring some of his classmates like he always did when he was here.
He laid open his future before me - and I couldn’t help but smile.
A few years later, I find out this sincere and studious man’s fortunes have completely up-ended themselves. An incredibly rare genetic illness triggered by stress resulted in this degenerating cycle of decreasing health and academics. He’s had to leave Medical School - much the surprise of those who he helped pass through. He’s drowning in debt (the American price tag for higher education never ceases to astound me). He’s nearly gone blind a couple of times.
And that lovely sassy fast-talking Russian med student apparently made for the exit when the going got tough…
"But Professor its the year of Mercy, perhaps God will forgive me of my sins…
…perhaps I’ll be able to get my life back… otherwise… i’d rather not be here anymore."
That Life is Unfair is a truth we all learn at some particular point in time…although I begin to wonder about the latest batch of teens to twentysomethings…but that is another discussion altogether - probably better for the World News subforum.
For me of course, my old student is simply a victim of circumstance - of things well beyond his control. If he were an arrogant man or hubristic, perhaps some of my ilk would deem this to be “fair” or something akin to “just desserts.” However, he is none of these things at all.
Normally, for those of you who believe the world to be guided somehow - whether by an anthropomorphic deity, a cosmic force or law like Karma, etc. etc. I often see certain strands of logic that try and make sense of what has occurred in situations like this:
1.) He Deserved it. (Punishment for Sin, Karmic payback, Punishment for being int he Wrong Religion etc. etc.)
2.) There is a Higher Purpose behind this (the assumption is that things may get better).
3.) God (however so conceived)'s will is a Mystery (if things happen to get worse instead of better).
Of course, if any of the above is true, I can’t quite understand why any of you pray as he is doing right now for this Year of Mercy (what exactly is that by the way?)
Whether we are talking about Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Christians, etc - most people pray in the hopes of getting i guess whatever they believe governs the universe to pour out some mercy on a particular situation they are suffering from.
But, what if what is being prayed for stands in direct opposition to the Will of _____?
It seems trivial if what is being asked for seems ludicrous - like “I want to win a million dollars.”
But, at least from my perspective, it seems absolutely cruel if what is being asked for is something akin to “God, please let me keep my vision.”
So how does your religion deal with suffering? Especially if said suffering seems more random or unfair or unjust to our human sensibilities?
And how does your religion deal with circumstances wherein those we may feel deserve a bit of help receive none at all. And those who are reviled, some how slip the bonds of this earth without a single care and paying no price.
And if these…incongruities are to be made right in the end (as in the End whether we speak of the Christian Apocalypse, the Jewish Olam-ha-ba, the Islamic Yawm-ad-Din, the Hindu end of Kali Yuga, etc etc. etc) - how?
Or is that just part of your respective faiths? That somehow, someway, it is made just at…well… some particular point in time?
And, at least for me, I take a modicum of pleasure when I find out that something I said/did/taught put them on a path to achieving their dreams.
And then sometimes… sometimes it just goes all horribly wrong.
Submit for your consideration - an Asian student of mine, American-born, religious (one of yours my dear Catholics), philosophical, funny, decent student, and above-all quite humane.
He fit a certain I guess you can say, stereotype - the child of immigrants wanting to take care of his parents when they were older, kept himself focused on his studies through secondary school and college and in doing so skipped out on what people might consider the “normal” chain of events that color the American High school and College experience.
A few years ago, he was passing through the alma mater and stopped by and told me his life “finally turned a corner.” He had just been admitted to Medical School, met a lovely sassy Russian girl in his classes (who also fits a kind of stereotype apparently for her community, but i’m unfamiliar with what those outlines might be), was tutoring some of his classmates like he always did when he was here.
He laid open his future before me - and I couldn’t help but smile.
A few years later, I find out this sincere and studious man’s fortunes have completely up-ended themselves. An incredibly rare genetic illness triggered by stress resulted in this degenerating cycle of decreasing health and academics. He’s had to leave Medical School - much the surprise of those who he helped pass through. He’s drowning in debt (the American price tag for higher education never ceases to astound me). He’s nearly gone blind a couple of times.
And that lovely sassy fast-talking Russian med student apparently made for the exit when the going got tough…
"But Professor its the year of Mercy, perhaps God will forgive me of my sins…
…perhaps I’ll be able to get my life back… otherwise… i’d rather not be here anymore."
That Life is Unfair is a truth we all learn at some particular point in time…although I begin to wonder about the latest batch of teens to twentysomethings…but that is another discussion altogether - probably better for the World News subforum.
For me of course, my old student is simply a victim of circumstance - of things well beyond his control. If he were an arrogant man or hubristic, perhaps some of my ilk would deem this to be “fair” or something akin to “just desserts.” However, he is none of these things at all.
Normally, for those of you who believe the world to be guided somehow - whether by an anthropomorphic deity, a cosmic force or law like Karma, etc. etc. I often see certain strands of logic that try and make sense of what has occurred in situations like this:
1.) He Deserved it. (Punishment for Sin, Karmic payback, Punishment for being int he Wrong Religion etc. etc.)
2.) There is a Higher Purpose behind this (the assumption is that things may get better).
3.) God (however so conceived)'s will is a Mystery (if things happen to get worse instead of better).
Of course, if any of the above is true, I can’t quite understand why any of you pray as he is doing right now for this Year of Mercy (what exactly is that by the way?)
Whether we are talking about Hindus, Muslims, Jews, Christians, etc - most people pray in the hopes of getting i guess whatever they believe governs the universe to pour out some mercy on a particular situation they are suffering from.
But, what if what is being prayed for stands in direct opposition to the Will of _____?
It seems trivial if what is being asked for seems ludicrous - like “I want to win a million dollars.”
But, at least from my perspective, it seems absolutely cruel if what is being asked for is something akin to “God, please let me keep my vision.”
So how does your religion deal with suffering? Especially if said suffering seems more random or unfair or unjust to our human sensibilities?
And how does your religion deal with circumstances wherein those we may feel deserve a bit of help receive none at all. And those who are reviled, some how slip the bonds of this earth without a single care and paying no price.
And if these…incongruities are to be made right in the end (as in the End whether we speak of the Christian Apocalypse, the Jewish Olam-ha-ba, the Islamic Yawm-ad-Din, the Hindu end of Kali Yuga, etc etc. etc) - how?
Or is that just part of your respective faiths? That somehow, someway, it is made just at…well… some particular point in time?