How important is it to treat people with respect?

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Both here and “out there”? It is easier, I think, to treat people with disdain on the internet than it is face to face. If we can agree that this is true, does that mean that it is even more important to treat people with respect here? Or is it of minimal importance. I’d like to hear both personal opinions and theological support, if you have any.
 
take a look at the vicious history of electing the country’s leader

the myth that there was once a great golden age of American politics, when every politician had the wisdom of Solomon, the honesty of George Washington, the manners of Sir Walter Raleigh, and the compassion of Mother Teresa. Sounds good, except it never was so

As Robert McClure, a political science and public affairs professor at the Maxwell School, points out, American political campaigns have always been nasty, dating back to 1800 and the first partisan presidential election between President John Adams and Vice President Thomas Jefferson—two men who despised one another. “Adams and his surrogates called Jefferson an atheist and a whoremaster,”

McClure says. “Jefferson and his friends made fun of Adams’s rotund figure and accused him of being a loyalist to the English crown.”
sumagazine.syr.edu/fall04/features/feature1/index.html
 
I’m not sure what your point is. Are you saiying it is not important to treat people with respect?
 
I’m not sure what your point is. Are you saiying it is not important to treat people with respect?
I think it is. Jesus did say, “Love one another. As you have love me.” I think this transcends all people.
 
I’m not sure what your point is. Are you saiying it is not important to treat people with respect?
Respect is earned not a Right -
YOU CANNOT PLAY NICE WITH SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO SEVER YOUR HEAD
 
Respect is earned not a Right -
YOU CANNOT PLAY NICE WITH SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO SEVER YOUR HEAD
ok. Let’s assume your neighbor is not coming at you with an ax. You seem to be predisposed to not automatically treating others with respect. Is this a personal opinion or one that is supported by your religion or community?
 
ok. Let’s assume your neighbor is not coming at you with an ax. You seem to be predisposed to not automatically treating others with respect. Is this a personal opinion or one that is supported by your religion or community?
Jonathan Sacks, Britain’s chief rabbi
Multiculturalism promotes segregation, stifles free speech and threatens liberal democracy, Britain’s top Jewish official warned in extracts from his book published Saturday. Sacks said Britain’s politics had been poisoned by the rise of identity politics, as minorities and aggrieved groups jockeyed first for rights, then for special treatment.

The process, he said, began with Jews, before being taken up by blacks, women and gays. He said the effect had been “inexorably divisive.” “A culture of victimhood sets group against group, each claiming that its pain, injury, oppression, humiliation is greater than that of others,” he said.

His reputation among Britain’s 260,000-strong Jewish community is more varied. Ultra-orthodox believers were dismayed by the suggestion in Sacks’ earlier book, “The Dignity of Difference,” that the faith did not contain the absolute truth, according to The Times.

In 1997, he outraged many among his more liberal-minded constituents when he criticized the late leader of the Reform movement as a “destroyer of the faith” in a letter leaked to the media. Sacks also raised hackles when, in 2002, he said in an interview that there were many things that happened in Israel that made him “very uncomfortable as a Jew.”
jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?c=JPArticle&cid=1192380605648&pagename=JPost%2FJPArticle%2FShowFull
 
I think that the bible says it all…
Galatians 5:13-15:
13 For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love. 14 For the whole law can be summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” 15 But if you are always biting and devouring one another, watch out! Beware of destroying one another.
Matthew 5:38:
38 “You have heard the law that says the punishment must match the injury: ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.’ 39 But I say, do not resist an evil person! If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also.
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Hello,

We must treat every single human with respect and dignity. As the Bible proclaims - love you neighbor as yourself. We are to love our neighbor out of love of God (theological virtue of charity). Our neighbor is made in the image and likeness of God, and demands dignity and respect.

Now, this doesn’t mean that we must be timid or deferential. Nor does it mean that we respect their opinion or behavior (as the proverb goes - love the sinner, hate the sin). If our neighbor is in error, either in what they think or how they act, we must correct them as an act of mercy.
 
I think that the bible says it all…

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Numbers 31 17 Therefore kill all that are of the male sex, even of the children: and put to death the women, that have carnally known men.

Matthew 10 34 Do not think that I came to send peace upon earth: I came not to send peace, but the sword. 35 For I came to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

John 15 13 Greater love than this no man hath, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
 
Numbers 31 17 Therefore kill all that are of the male sex, even of the children: and put to death the women, that have carnally known men.
Context, Context, Context my friend… Numbers 31 is about GOD commanding the Israelites to kill the Midianites. The operative word is GOD. He commanded it and therefore they were to do it. But that protestant that a catholic burns at the stake or the protestant that kills a catholic for his beliefs… do you REALLY want to say that God commanded these things? Does He tell us to berate and belittle those who believe differently? No. This thread is about whether it is more IMPORTANT to respect others, this verse that you quoted has nothing to do with this… 🤷
Matthew 10 34 Do not think that I came to send peace upon earth: I came not to send peace, but the sword. 35 For I came to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Again, context. The point being made here has nothing to do with respecting others. It is about who you put first in your life. The next verses:
37"Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; 38and anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.
He isn’t saying treat your family like your enemies but that they should not come before Christ in your life. Again, this is not about respecting others but respecting CHRIST.
John 15 13 Greater love than this no man hath, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
This proves my point. “Lay down HIS life for his friends.” What greater respect than to lay down your own life for someone else.👍
 
Love thy neighbor as thyself. …Everyone is my neighbor. I used to get caught up in the moodiness of the internet. But I just see so much vice in the world, so much pollution in today’s behavior. I think it’s not only important to love, but to be pleasant and beautiful in all things, which is an act of love. To share love everywhere and in every thing is to spread beauty in a greatly troubled, spiritually polluted world. Hopefully, those touched by the love of a Christian will be reminded of God’s immeasurable beauty (and thus inspired all the more toward Christ). How beautiful it is to be graceful, and what a grace and a blessing it is to share the love of Christ with others. It is a discipline, a great discipline that requires humility. I’ve seen how love can soar in another’s heart because of an act of kindness. But sadly, I’ve seen how treating a person with the opposite of love can tear them apart on the inside. It really comes down to love.

I think it is very important to respect every person, no matter what their status. I think the homeless should be loved as much as any king, as they too are souls created by and loved by God. Same goes for everyone in between. Yet I also I know it is important to respect positions of authority in the sense that God has appointed them to such positions (Romans 13:1). At the same time, I think it’s good to treat everyone, prince or pauper, with great love as a human being. Each and every one of us are creations of God, and in respecting God’s creation, we respect God. What does it mean to respect people? It is to regard everyone with love, kindness, and mercy in honor of God’s beautiful creation. It’s ultimately all about God. And that’s how important it is.
 
We must all respect one another’s dignity as human beings. It is all a function of Christian love and humility, to consider others better than ourselves.
Part of the consequences of the trends in education in the 1990’s especially was that addressing ideas with an attempt at clarity was suddenly seen as a red flag that a person didn’t respect others. In defiance of logic, common sense, courtesy and honesty, the new rules were something like these:
“Everything anyone says that sounds fuzzy is right, regardless of what it actually means or whether it is self-contradictory.”
“Attempting to be sure what anyone is talking about makes one an automatic reactionary and a fair target for any kind of attack.”
“It is a felony to hold firm opinions on anything that is out of fashion.”
“Everyone must know what the issues and fashionable opinions are before entering the campus each day. Asking for help with this once on campus is a felony.”
“Offering a reasoned argument in class is a disrespectful, disruptive, counterproductive act and will result in severe punishment, regardless of subject matter or intentions.”

Under these new rules, many people became afraid of words like “respectful” and “co-operation” for the same reason that people living in the Chinese Cultural Revolution or the Soviet Union in 1937 became afraid of the term “The People”. The terms were being used to obscure rather than to explicate.

*Actual *respect is a good thing and a mandate. But the 1990’s cultural upheaval made many people a litle defensive and nervous about the use of the word. It’s just too bad. Maybe soon we will be able to breathe again.
 
Context, Context, Context my friend… Numbers 31 is about GOD commanding the Israelites to kill the Midianites. The operative word is GOD. He commanded it and therefore they were to do it. But that protestant that a catholic burns at the stake or the protestant that kills a catholic for his beliefs… do you REALLY want to say that God commanded these things? Does He tell us to berate and belittle those who believe differently? No. This thread is about whether it is more IMPORTANT to respect others, this verse that you quoted has nothing to do with this… 🤷

Again, context. The point being made here has nothing to do with respecting others. It is about who you put first in your life. The next verses:

He isn’t saying treat your family like your enemies but that they should not come before Christ in your life. Again, this is not about respecting others but respecting CHRIST.

This proves my point. “Lay down HIS life for his friends.” What greater respect than to lay down your own life for someone else.👍
‘Rabbis told Jews to shun Evangelicals’
Israeli rabbinic authorities have abruptly called on Jews to shun a major Christian tourism event, baffling and upsetting evangelical groups that traditionally have been big supporters of the Jewish state. More than 6,000 Christians from more than 90 nations are expected to arrive in Jerusalem this week to take part in the 28th annual Christian celebration of the weeklong Jewish holiday of Sukkot, or Feast of Tabernacles, according to the event’s organizers, the International Christian Embassy Jerusalem.

But this year the chief rabbinate urged Jews to stay away from the event, saying some of the groups want to convert them to Christianity. Proselytizing is illegal in Israel.

“According to information that has reached the chief rabbinate, there are participants in this conference who convert Jews to Christianity and perform missionary activity throughout the year,” said Rabbi Simcha Hacohen Kook, the chief rabbi of Rehovot, who took part in committee discussions of the matter. “This is against the law, so the chief rabbinate is calling upon Jews not to take part in the conference.”

Israel has laws against missionary work, and for many here, proselytizing is dangerously close to the forced conversions European Jews endured for centuries.

The group’s organizers said they were upset by the rabbis’ call. “It is disappointing to learn that some rabbinic authorities are trying to discourage the Jewish public from participating in this traditional march,” said the Rev. Malcolm Hedding, the ICEJ’s executive director. “The ICEJ has never conducted any missionary programs in Israel and we clearly instruct our Feast pilgrims against such activity during their stay here.”

The ICEJ says its supporters do not accept teachings accepted by some other Christian groups that masses of Jews will die in the final climactic battle between God and Satan if they do not accept Jesus.
jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?cid=1189411469471&pagename=JPost%2FJPArticle%2FShowFull

Under Jewish law, a man can divorce a woman for any reason or no reason. The Talmud specifically says that a man can divorce a woman because she spoiled his dinner or simply because he finds another woman more attractive, and the woman’s consent to the divorce is not required. In fact, Jewish law requires divorce in some circumstances: when the wife commits a sexual transgression, a man must divorce her, even if he is inclined to forgive her.
jewfaq.org/divorce.htm
 
I really appreciate this thread! You must have read some of the post, even on this thread, that shouldn’t be used.

I’ve seen people leave pretty rude post even on the “prayer intentions” section of the forums. That is the saddest thing, someone comes and asks for prayer and they get cut to the bone.

I reported someone to the Moderators the other night after they left an incredibly disgusting post for a 14 year old. The 14 year old had ask for help with a problem, and the person making a reply stared telling the boy to look at pornagraphic material and stupid junk like that.

We are here to represent the Christian Faith! That is the most important thing! We should band together as brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus. We should not argue to the point where we cause confusion or agravation.

If one person becomes offended and turns away from seeking God because of something they have read on these forums, don’t you think there will be “hell” to pay for someone?

Thank you for starting this thread!
 
I really appreciate this thread! You must have read some of the post, even on this thread, that shouldn’t be used.

I’ve seen people leave pretty rude post even on the “prayer intentions” section of the forums. That is the saddest thing, someone comes and asks for prayer and they get cut to the bone.

I reported someone to the Moderators the other night after they left an incredibly disgusting post for a 14 year old. The 14 year old had ask for help with a problem, and the person making a reply stared telling the boy to look at pornagraphic material and stupid junk like that.

We are here to represent the Christian Faith! That is the most important thing! We should band together as brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus. We should not argue to the point where we cause confusion or agravation.

If one person becomes offended and turns away from seeking God because of something they have read on these forums, don’t you think there will be “hell” to pay for someone?

Thank you for starting this thread!
Judge: Catholic Position Against Homosexual Adoption Justifies Government Hostility Towards Church
SAN FRANCISCO, April 23, 2007
lifesite.net/ldn/2007/apr/07042302.html
 
‘Rabbis told Jews to shun Evangelicals’
Israeli rabbinic authorities have abruptly called on Jews to shun a major Christian tourism event, baffling and upsetting evangelical groups that traditionally have been big supporters of the Jewish state. More than 6,000 Christians from more than 90 nations are expected to arrive in Jerusalem this week to take part in the 28th annual Christian celebration of the weeklong Jewish holiday of Sukkot, or Feast of Tabernacles, according to the event’s organizers, the International Christian Embassy Jerusalem.

But this year the chief rabbinate urged Jews to stay away from the event, saying some of the groups want to convert them to Christianity. Proselytizing is illegal in Israel.

“According to information that has reached the chief rabbinate, there are participants in this conference who convert Jews to Christianity and perform missionary activity throughout the year,” said Rabbi Simcha Hacohen Kook, the chief rabbi of Rehovot, who took part in committee discussions of the matter. “This is against the law, so the chief rabbinate is calling upon Jews not to take part in the conference.”

Israel has laws against missionary work, and for many here, proselytizing is dangerously close to the forced conversions European Jews endured for centuries.

The group’s organizers said they were upset by the rabbis’ call. “It is disappointing to learn that some rabbinic authorities are trying to discourage the Jewish public from participating in this traditional march,” said the Rev. Malcolm Hedding, the ICEJ’s executive director. “The ICEJ has never conducted any missionary programs in Israel and we clearly instruct our Feast pilgrims against such activity during their stay here.”

The ICEJ says its supporters do not accept teachings accepted by some other Christian groups that masses of Jews will die in the final climactic battle between God and Satan if they do not accept Jesus.
jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?cid=1189411469471&pagename=JPost%2FJPArticle%2FShowFull

Under Jewish law, a man can divorce a woman for any reason or no reason. The Talmud specifically says that a man can divorce a woman because she spoiled his dinner or simply because he finds another woman more attractive, and the woman’s consent to the divorce is not required. In fact, Jewish law requires divorce in some circumstances: when the wife commits a sexual transgression, a man must divorce her, even if he is inclined to forgive her.
jewfaq.org/divorce.htm
What does this have anything to do with how important it is to respect on another? :confused: 🤷
 
I personally believe that it is alot easier to disdain people on the net. For some reason the anonymity of the net makes people seem less real to others and so it seems to be easier to dismiss the feelings of people you disrespect on the net.

I do think that respect towards all whether on the net or in real life is important. We all have to answer down to the last penny for all our actions as Christ said. It’s easier said than done, I know.
 
I personally believe that it is alot easier to disdain people on the net. For some reason the anonymity of the net makes people seem less real to others and so it seems to be easier to dismiss the feelings of people you disrespect on the net.

I do think that respect towards all whether on the net or in real life is important. We all have to answer down to the last penny for all our actions as Christ said. It’s easier said than done, I know.
pay your respects

Czech court allows Prague neo-Nazi march
The march is scheduled for Nov. 10
upi.com/NewsTrack/Top_News/2007/10/23/czech_court_allows_prague_neonazi_march/2730/
 
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