Thunder & lightening & an extreme downpour ended my post - had to shut down computer fast. The gentleman listed above was very harassed when he left mormonism - my coworker told me about it as it was happening. WHY was this man subjected to such craziness?
Techniques cults use include the few thoughts are listed here:
SECRECY - Initiates kept in dark until progress deeper into group until it’s too late. The missionaries don’t tell you about controversial beliefs: Jesus & Satan are brothers, Jesus’ good plan vs. Satan’s bad plan, blood oaths, polygamy, impending “godhood” for the husband, slavish eternal sex for the wife on & on - do they.
SHUNNING - mental & emotional attack that disrespects one’s dignity & humanity - an affront to the 5th Commandment “Thou Shalt Not Kill (murder)”. This rejection is a brutal injustice to the “shunnee” definitely NOT a Christian practice. Is like a mental, emotional stoning of a person.
Belief that ONLY they have the “TRUTH”". Everyone else is SUSPECT, APOSTATES, HERETICS…
SCRIPTURE TWISTING Very commonly used & initiates strongly discouraged to research “heretical” materials (“from the devil”) outside their exclusive group. Read the FINE PRINT anyway!: historic documents such as founders personal writings kept from you? If so, WHY? Are they arrogant, pompous, lack charity or off the rails in general or have 99 truths & 1 lie? Can be tricky!
Do founders, leaders display a MESSIAH COMPLEX. WE have the TRUTH, WE KNOW what is BEST for YOU - history is littered with Pied Piper personalities that have wreaked much havoc on the tragically unaware & caused many tears to be shed. No telling how many souls have been LOST. :bighanky:
ATTACK & CONDEMN THE CATHOLIC CHURCH??? This is a biggie - they
have to attack the RCC in order to CREATE a BASIS for their EXISTENCE - failure of the RCC or the Inquisition or Galileo or some other tired old canard crops up. Do they say to your face they respect our Church? Their reading materials usually give them away? I was assured by a JW later to clearly read attacks, they have printed outright attacks for decades of RCC…
USE EMOTIONAL GIMMICKS: LOVE BOMBING or FEAR to CONTROL? Heavy welcome for the new initiates. Touchy feely in the beginning, fades when you’re fully initiated - then the heat is on to pay mandatory tithing to the penny or are not “temple worthy” by “they” (who is the terrible, anonymous authority of “they” - to quote Archbishop Fulton Sheen - anyway), mandatory to perform, put in your hours… works oriented until you’re run ragged? Use fear to keep foot soldiers in line: you leave & you’ll lose your job, wife, kids, SEE SHUNNING. Also, the subjective silly: “I have a “burning in my bosom” the church (lds) is “true”!” Weelllll, I have NEWS for YOU: I have a “burning in my bosom” YOUR house, autos, bank accounts, jewelry, investments, personal property IS ALL MINE! - is silly line of thinking but DANGEROUS!
If YOUR group practices some or ALL of these things, You may want to reconsider.
Trust the evidence of your senses; use the brain God gave you. RESEARCH! If you read stuff that stirs the pit of your stomach,
RUN! Most of all PRAY, PRAY, PRAY
