There seems to be a lot of “I think…”, “I’m pretty sure…” “In my opinion…”, etc. If you can reserve your emotions and study this subject objectively you may be surprised by your findings. If you are being fair and honest then a primary distinction between the two forms is degree of reverence.
While it’s everyone’s prerogative to prefer the OF it’s a stretch to say “reverence” is the central theme. Perhaps on EWTN, Papal Masses, or maybe even in some parishes there is an attempt at it but the vast majority of OFs I"ve been to it is not a priority.
The OF’s theme is communal supper, joyful celebration while the EF’s theme is Calvary. The very structure of the OF distracts from reverence with laity walking into the sanctuary for readings, talks, distribute Holy Communion, ‘hugs’ of peace, CITH, Lutheran hymns, etc.
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