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And where in my post did I say that anyone should give 10 percent to the church? … What I said was as good stewards - we should give in relation to the Blessings that God provides and that you should feel the giving … the widow who gave 2 mites - gave from here need [that means she could have used those 2 mites to provided food she needed or some other basic necessity … one can guess it was less then 10 percent of what she had - or else it would have represented the same as the two rich men who gave 10 percent - but for whom the 10 percent represented far less because they had all of their need cared for and for whom the 10 percent represented a fraction of their excess …and we should not be coy … that pledging is important and not something to keep unknown.You must remember that older people have it hard,some live on very little,from what that get,so they have to give what they can.Than theirs people that make money and only put in a dollar in the Basket,or don,t put anything as it is goes pass them.Times are getting harder,and people will put food on their table first,before giving 10% to the church.
And your elderly people want the parish to be well cared for and accessible - they also want the water bill paid, etc …
I personally believe that 10 percent is a good beginning - I contribute to two parishes. I also contribute to my archdiocese and a catholic seminary and other charities that feed homeless and low income individuals and families, Mother & Child, etc … but as God’s Steward - I am humbled by this responsibility … and I understand the issues well … I am a member of an administrative council, have work on parish capital campaigns, was unemployed for 15 months - finally found a position then lost a spouse.
The last two items there - death of spouse and the unemployment period both represent major changes in my family budget … and resulted in modifications to giving rates - after all - charitable giving is the one area of your budget that is 100 percent controllable [though we all spend money on things that are optional] - and optional … I still believe it is important to make it a deliberate and conscious decision …