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Vern, I responded to your saying, “But in the meantime, the system actively promotes the poverty cycle and makes those who work responsible for the reckless behavior of those who don’t – which feeds the poverty cycle”. Doesn’t that sound like you’re blaming the welfare system?When did I blame it on welfare? My question was, “How do we help these people?”
On the grounds of abuse and neglect. Those were your words, right? She abused and neglected them?What grounds?
That she left her husband? She accused him of abusing the children.
Didn’t you say an investigation is going on? I’m so confused. This story seems so strange. Is there an investigation going on or not? Isn’t an investigation what is needed to prove or disprove anything? How in the heck can you expect me to decide if the social services system is being fair to man I only know through your sporadic pieces of information?How do we prove it?
Perhaps. Again, let the courts decide…you and I have no way of knowing.Or perhaps a perfectly normal person.
I do NOT assume he is guilty. I am trying to tell you (over and over and over again) that neither you nor I know one way or another. I pray that if he is innocent, this matter is cleared up through the system quickly. It is a sin as to how long these matters take. Truly. I haven’t given you my opinion on the courts in these situations. Well, let me give you some insight into my views on this, for the first time on this thread…I agree with you that they are extremely inefficient. You have no argument with me there! I was just trying to stay off that subject, as that is not the subject of this thread.Why I think it is wrong for you to suddenly assume his supposed “guilt.” There is no proof against him, only an allegation by a person whose own interests are served by that allegation.
Okay, so your beef is with our court system now? Fine. Why are you debating the court system with me? That is not the topic of this thread, and you don’t even know my stance on how I feel the courts are run. What does ANY of this have to do with health care? You are so far off on a tangent, my head is spinning.Which may take years.
You’re debating things with me, based on how you THINK I feel. Child Protective Services. The legal system. Child Molestation charges. Geesh. You don’t have anything to debate with me on this, other than what you are ASSUMING I believe. I’ve never even discussed my feelings on those topics because they aren’t the topic at hand.
I did delve into welfare with you. But, discussing Tom’s situation with the courts and his silly wife do not change my view…that we properly feed, clothe, and provide health care to those who do not (especially the children) until the adults have found adequate means to do so themselves. Now, pay close attention to this, because you seem to miss this point: Currently, the welfare system does not, in my opinion, do an adequate job of ensuring that people are looking for work or ways to better their situation. This needs to change. Regardless, I still believe we have a responsibility to ensure that in a country as rich as ours, where we spend big bucks building schools and providing health care in other countries, and there is GREAT personal wealth as well, can take care of those who have nothing.