How Should I Respond to Prot. Pastor Friend Who Claims "Peter was Not Even in Rome"

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sparkle:
Friends: What do you think of this? I have a life-long family friend whose husband is a non-denom anti-Catholic pastor, and so is she. When she found out I converted, she e-mailed me some very anti-Catholic absurd articles, telling me I was into a “false religion”, “those Catholics are not saved”, etc., etc., Stuff she’s spreading throughout their whole “church”. Whoa! I responded very kindly by sending her a couple short phamplets along with Patrick Madrid’s book Surprised by Truth, which someone recommended on here, telling her how thrilled and excited I am to be a Catholic, and I wanted to share this stuff with her. A month goes by, and today I get the stuff back in the mail saying she’s not going to read it. Another Whoa! I feel-- well at least if we share in love, we share period. Who knows if she really didn’t look at any of it–or if she or her husband did------
I’d really like some comments from y’all. She said I wasted my time and money by sending it. Isn’t it better to share our faith than just sit back and not “witness”? I’m kinda discouraged about it. If someone hadn’t shared with me, I wouldn’t have discovered my Catholic Faith.
Thx~~
It’s already their loss if they haven’t read it. You’ve done your part, and that’s share your Faith with them. If they refuse to hear it or believe in it, then there’s not much we can do. We leave that up to God, that He open their hearts and minds to the Catholic Faith, and with generous hearts realize that we are all brothers and sisters in Christ.
 
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sparkle:
I’d really like some comments from y’all. She said I wasted my time and money by sending it. Isn’t it better to share our faith than just sit back and not “witness”? I’m kinda discouraged about it. If someone hadn’t shared with me, I wouldn’t have discovered my Catholic Faith.
Often, witnessing is less about the words which we speak and more about the actions which speak for us.

Continue to be her friend, love her, and do unto her as you would have her do unto you, and you will find that that will have a slower but surer effect than any number of books, pamphlets or tracts.
 
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catsrus:
Oh, Sparkle, I sooo understand.

Look at it this way; she sends you anti-Catholic materials and expects you to read it but returns the material you sent her - she claims, unread.
There’s a message here for you.
Did not Christ tell us he came to put a sword between us and “them”.
I have learned the hard way, that my family and “friends” have, at least for now, closed themselves off to any discussion, much less acceptance, of The Holy Catholic Church.
I have had to just let it (and them - to a point) go.
No more discussion of religion with them and only answer a direct question as briefly as possible.
Yes, it does make you tired! So let it go. Perhaps you planted a seed. Perhaps not. Let The Holy Spirit take over from here on and just go your happy Catholic way.
That’s what I’ve done. And I’m much more at peace because of it.
Thx Catsrus! I hear ya! But being of a passionate nature, I just feel I love and have to share with my family and friends my new-found faith. I feel God is counting on me on this one!!! ONCE that is, I suppose if they reject it, then you get the hint to “let it go”, and let the Holy Spirit take over. I’ve learned not to “try to get a pig to sing opera”- over and over by another poster on another thread, but I do think it doesn’t hurt to try to reach out, at least give it one chance. Don’t you agree?
I’ve shared with basically all my intimate close family and friends my conversion experience and all it entails, everyone but one person, has been totally close-minded. But then again, I will be continually excited at what The Holy Spirit can accomplish! Who knows–perhaps one of this friend’s older teen children picked up the phamplets, read it, and a teenie seed might have been planted!
Thx again!!
 
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Ignatius:
Tell her you will save the material for her and if she’s ever interested in the fullness of the Truth to let you know and you’ll have it waiting for her.
GREAT response Ignatius! How wise you are. I will do just that!
Thank you SO much!
 
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sparkle:
Friends: What do you think of this? I have a life-long family friend whose husband is a non-denom anti-Catholic pastor, and so is she. When she found out I converted, she e-mailed me some very anti-Catholic absurd articles, telling me I was into a “false religion”, “those Catholics are not saved”, etc., etc., Stuff she’s spreading throughout their whole “church”. Whoa! I responded very kindly by sending her a couple short phamplets along with Patrick Madrid’s book Surprised by Truth, which someone recommended on here, telling her how thrilled and excited I am to be a Catholic, and I wanted to share this stuff with her. A month goes by, and today I get the stuff back in the mail saying she’s not going to read it. Another Whoa! I feel-- well at least if we share in love, we share period. Who knows if she really didn’t look at any of it–or if she or her husband did------
I’d really like some comments from y’all. She said I wasted my time and money by sending it. Isn’t it better to share our faith than just sit back and not “witness”? I’m kinda discouraged about it. If someone hadn’t shared with me, I wouldn’t have discovered my Catholic Faith.
Thx~~
I am sorry your friend sent back the material with the message that you’re wasting your time and money by sending them. She should have at least showed you some courtesy and explained to why. But you do need to understand the Protestant, evangelical mind (if that’s what she is). Evangelicals witness to people about Christ Himself, salvation through faith in Him alone. You, on the other hand, are witnessing to her about your church. That doesn’t always set well with Evangelicals, anymore than say a Mormon or J.W. knocking on their door with the intention of winning them over to their church. Her response was not necessarily anti-Catholic. You would have gotten the same response if you sent her material to convince her to join a particular Lutheran or Baptist church. Their faith is not about “church” but Christ Himself, the focus of their hope…
 
originally posted by Sparkle
but I do think it doesn’t hurt to try to reach out, at least give it one chance. Don’t you agree?
I do agree! In my neophyte enthusiasum, I reached out to everyone! I wanted to share my joy so very much and thought that everyone else would be enthusiastic too. Silly me.
After a few trys with everyone in my path and being shot down again and again, I just slunk off to to Mass and asked God “why?”.
I have learned that I can share but after dropping my seeds of Faith and joy, I must back off and let The Holy Spirit take over. I do my part.
Also, I was encouaged to recall how I reacted as a non practicing protestant when someone wanted to “shove Jesus down my throat”.
Looking in a mirror and seeing the old me helped me with discernment.
I still share when the opportunity arises but have discontinued stopping everyone on the street. LOL!
 
Thank you friends. I took “Ignatius’ '”’ wise advice and e-mailed her that I was saving the materials for her and if ever she was interested in the Fullness of the Truth and the Fullness of our Christianity that they would be waiting for her. Well, she e-mailed me back today saying “thank you” and how much that meant, and how much she loves me, etc…🙂

This only affirms to me that we Catholics must always take the extra step and perhaps the risk it takes at times, to share our Faith, and the Fullness of our Faith we all know and possess in the Catholic Church. PTL! Praise the Lord! Let’s all keep sharing, keep proclaiming, keep Loving.

Sparkle
 
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sparkle:
Thank you friends. I took “Ignatius’ '”’ wise advice and e-mailed her that I was saving the materials for her and if ever she was interested in the Fullness of the Truth and the Fullness of our Christianity that they would be waiting for her. Well, she e-mailed me back today saying “thank you” and how much that meant, and how much she loves me, etc…🙂

This only affirms to me that we Catholics must always take the extra step and perhaps the risk it takes at times, to share our Faith, and the Fullness of our Faith we all know and possess in the Catholic Church. PTL! Praise the Lord! Let’s all keep sharing, keep proclaiming, keep Loving.

Sparkle
I also thinks it shows how the Holy Spirit works and “follows-up” on our efforts. She probably was feeling bad that she responded in such an unChristian way. However, your failure to give up and response with the tender heart of Jesus filled the “opening” the Holy Spirit left in her mind/heart. Good job! Salvation history is a story of people being the instruments through which God’s plan is executed.
 
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sparkle:
How should I respond friends, to a Prot. pastor friend who claims “Peter was not even in Rome”?..WOW…how could he even doubt? even for one minute? The evidence is just so overwhelming with Rod Bennett’s book “Four Witnesses” among many other good ones and so many witnesses to early Christianity here. Guess with Prots…if it’s “not in the Bible”…it’s not valid. If there’s no “Chapter and Verse” explicitly saying: Peter witnessed Christianity in Rome and was persecuted and killed in ______ AD, well then they dispute it, and thus dispute the entire papacy. I’m at a loss.

I’m getting so tired of this same old stuff…and don’t have the energy for it any longer. Please help me here. I’m not an apologist, don’t want to be, but these things are coming up friends right and left from my Fundamentalist Evangelical Family (Dad and 6 cousins pastors). I MUST know what to say. I need something short, and succinct. Thank you all for your replies. I think churches should have classes on apologetics, don’t you? As we live in such an anti-Catholic society. We must know how to defend our faith, I firmly believe this, or we are just used up salt to be trampled underfoot–as yesterday’s Scripture tells.

Blessings~~
Here is an article that is pretty good.

bringyou.to/apologetics/num13.htm
 
There is more evidence for Peter being in Rome than there is for Washington being in Valley Forge!

Verbum
 
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linus:
I am sorry your friend sent back the material with the message that you’re wasting your time and money by sending them. She should have at least showed you some courtesy and explained to why. But you do need to understand the Protestant, evangelical mind (if that’s what she is). Evangelicals witness to people about Christ Himself, salvation through faith in Him alone. You, on the other hand, are witnessing to her about your church. That doesn’t always set well with Evangelicals, anymore than say a Mormon or J.W. knocking on their door with the intention of winning them over to their church. Her response was not necessarily anti-Catholic. You would have gotten the same response if you sent her material to convince her to join a particular Lutheran or Baptist church. Their faith is not about “church” but Christ Himself, the focus of their hope…
I would probably agree with you if she was talking to people who do not know Christ; but the people she’s talking with know Him, so there’s the difference. Since they know Him, what else can she add that’s already not known? Both Catholics and Evangelicals more or less agree to who Christ is, and that He’s our Lord and Saviour. Point of the matter though is that they do not understand why she became Catholic, and what she found in the Church that she did not find in Protestantism. Now that would indeed require an explanation of what the Catholic Church is, and so it is necessary to witness not just about Christ now, but about the Church. It is unfortunate that it would not sit well with the Evangelical crowd, but that is what is witnessing is all about–to give testimony to Christ and His Church.
 
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Verbum:
There is more evidence for Peter being in Rome than there is for Washington being in Valley Forge!

Verbum
Were there any “eyewitnesses” (contemporaries) who wrote of Peter being Bishop of Rome?
 
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Milliardo:
I would probably agree with you if she was talking to people who do not know Christ; but the people she’s talking with know Him, so there’s the difference.
Actually, the differences are soteriological. And those differences are vast. If there were no theological differences why would “Sparkle” send them literature about the Catholic church in hope they would follow her footsteps?
It is unfortunate that it would not sit well with the Evangelical crowd, but that is what is witnessing is all about–to give testimony to Christ and His Church.
Evangelicals do not witness about their church since they don’t believe, as Catholics do, that salvation is through the church, but through personal faith in the Person and work of Jesus Christ alone. And to them the “Church” is not an ecclesiastical hierarchy headquartered in Rome, but made up of all who are now “in Christ Jesus” (born again).
 
If St Peter was never in Rome, :confused: how come that when I was growing up in the Methodist tradition, I was taught all about how he was martyred there???
I feel old, because I have to tell people that up until 40 or 50 years ago, everybody knew that Peter was in Rome. I heard:yup: all about it in a :yup: Free Methodist Sunday School class.
I don’t know if it will help to tell someone that, since they probably will not believe me,either, but it happens to be true. St Paul, too…plus a lot of other early Christians…It just so happens that, for the purpose of 😦 tearing at Catholics, where other people were martyred doesn’t make nearly as much difference.
 
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linus:
Actually, the differences are soteriological. And those differences are vast.
The differences are more perceived than real, in most cases. This is one reason I enjoy thios site so much as a protestant. I get to learn so much about what Christians actually have in common.
If there were no theological differences why would “Sparkle” send them literature about the Catholic church in hope they would follow her footsteps?
Well, I would imagine that she is:yup: very happy, & wants to share her joy with folks who don’t understand what she believes.Seems pretty standard Christian behaviour for 2000 yrs.
Evangelicals do not witness about their church since they don’t believe, as Catholics do, that salvation is through the church, but through personal faith in the Person and work of Jesus Christ alone.
You all could have fooled me. I can’t begin to tell you how many Baptists, pentecostals, et al, have wasted my time explaining why :eek: “Methodists aren’t Christians”.
And to them the “Church” is not an ecclesiastical hierarchy headquartered in Rome
The Catholic Church is in Rome…It is hierarchical; for sure it’s :whistle: ecclesiastical.(Churches are!)
Also, see answer to previous point, above.
but made up of all who are now “in Christ Jesus” (born again).
Yes, and?? I mean, this is also what Catholics believe…They don’t believe in OSAS, if that is your point, but neither do I. Does that mean that I’m :bigyikes: not a Christian???

God bless.
 
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linus:
I think one sentence would suffice: “Justified by faith alone.”
Grace.
Grace is the basis, not faith alone.

“Faith without works is dead”… The solas all fall when subjected to the truth of the scripture.
I have never understood why people who believe in sola scriptura, have such a hard time sticking to scripture in order to make their arguments. It’s always, “Well, it says that, but it doesn’t mean that”.

You really need to spend more time reading and studying some of those articles.
 
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Zooey:
If St Peter was never in Rome, :confused: how come that when I was growing up in the Methodist tradition, I was taught all about how he was martyred there???
Then you were taught a “tradition” as fact. I’m not saying he wasn’t martyred in Rome but, truth be, what we’re all taught of the Apostle’s deaths is from tradition. But the question is not if he died in Rome, but if he truly was Bishop of Rome for some 25 years before his death. What historical proof is there? You’d think Luke would have covered this most important part of Peter’s life in his Holy Spirit inspired, historical account, but alas, silence! And if Peter was Bishop of Rome, why did Paul have to instruct the Roman believers on soteriological matters? And why no contemporary writings that speak of it? Yet the whole authority and supremacy of the Roman Papacy is based on this silence. Help me out here :confused:
 
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linus:
Then you were taught a “tradition” as fact. I’m not saying he wasn’t martyred in Rome but, truth be, what we’re all taught of the Apostle’s deaths is from tradition. But the question is not if he died in Rome, but if he truly was Bishop of Rome for some 25 years before his death. What historical proof is there? You’d think Luke would have covered this most important part of Peter’s life in his Holy Spirit inspired, historical account, but alas, silence! And if Peter was Bishop of Rome, why did Paul have to instruct the Roman believers on soteriological matters? And why no contemporary writings that speak of it? Yet the whole authority and supremacy of the Roman Papacy is based on this silence. Help me out here :confused:
Lukes gospel ends shortly after the ressurection. Peter did not go to Rome until around 42AD, so it would not be in the gospel. What makes Peter supreme is not that he was bishop of Rome but that he was the head of the apostles as Christ puts him in Matthew 16, in John19, and in Luke22. It doesn’t matter that he wasn’t in Rome for the first 10 years. The pope was in Avignon, not Rome, in the 14th century. It is not Rome that makes Peter, it is Peter that makes Rome.

Peter spent the last 25 years of his life in Rome preaching as the Bishop of Rome. It can be seen in his letter that he was in Rome when he addresses them from Babylon. Since Peter, and Paul as well, spent his life in Rome preaching, and was the first bishop of Rome and Rome claimed his life, his successors recieve the authority.

The authority of the pope has been as it is since the first century. We can see it in Ignatius when he adresses Rome as the seat of the presidency. We can see it in Irenaeus when he says of Rome, “All churches should agree with this church on account of its pre-eminent authority.”
 
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