Cut & pasted from older thread:
*Originally Posted by Goya View Post
Rather than addressing your question from an ‘academic’ or even theological perspective, I’m going to address it personally.
For reference–my wife is evangelical protestant. To her and her people, Mary is like repellant. It freaks her and her family, and all her people, out. Truly freaks them out.
Let me put it to you this way–Mary is the Mother of Chirst; yet they can not, to save their lives, formulate a positive comment about her, that isn’t immediately nagated with “but…”.
As in, “Mary was the Jesus’s mother…BUT that’s all”.
or “…BUT she was also a sinner”
or “…BUT she’s just another human being”
or “…BUT she had relations with Joseph, and had other children…”
I volunteer this for reference.
Now, here’s what brought be BACK to Mary:
When I looked at the Christians throughout history, what the Church Fathers had to say, as well as what contemporary Christians say…I realized that my aspirational peers were Catholic, and many/most held the Virgin Mary in the highest esteem.
I chose to–in fact, continuously choose to–strive to be like them.
As with so much of my search into protestantism, it almost always came down to:
The Church Fathers and the Saints (never mind the Popes) on one side; and the
Reformers on the other. (e.g.–wrt—the Real Presence/Eucharist; confession; celibate priesthood; male priesthood; Baptism; basically the sacraments…).
So, I suggest stepping back, and asking yourself–as a Christian, who do you want to seek to emulate, and be more like?
St. Joseph her spouse, St. John (the Evangelist and Apostle, with whom Mary lived in Ephesus, [modern day] Turkey, after Christ’s ascension), St. Polycarp, St. Ireneaus, St. Cyril of Jerusalem, St. Jerome, St. Ambrose, St. Augustine, St. Thomas Aquinas, St. Dominic, St. Francis of assisi, St. Basil, St. Teresa of Avila, St. John of the Cross, St. Thomas Moore, St. Therese of Lisseux, Pope Paul VI, Blessed Mother of Calcutta, Blessed Pope John Paul II, Pope Benedict XVI, Pope Francis, just to name a few that come to mind…
–or–
Martin Luther, John Calvin, “Drs.” Spurgeon Sr &/Jr., Billy Graham, Oral Roberts, Jimmy Swaggart, Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, Jerry Fallwell, Pat Robertson, or Joel Osteen…
Then ask yourself where each/they stood, vis a vis the Virgin Mary.
NOTE: worth noting–before the ‘Reform movement’ fully lost its way (i.e. the movement that would stray and later be named --rather self-servingly, and inaccurately imo, as
the Reformation) Martin Luther–(even AFTER he had been defrocked and excommunicated), made many statements that were very flattering to the Virgin Mary–read into that, what you will.
But, for good measure, here is a quote from St. Irenaeus:
"For as Eve was seduced by the word of an angel to flee from God, having rebelled against His Word, so Mary by the word of an angel received the glad tidings that she would bear God by obeying his Word
. The former was seduced to disobey God, but the latter was persuaded to obey God,
so that the Virgin Mary might become the advocate of the virgin Eve.
As the human race was subjected to death through [the act of] a virgin, so it was saved by a virgin."
Irenaeus, Against Heresies, V:19,1(A.D. 180),in ANF,I:547
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*Now, in addition to those Saints I mentioned above, having a sincere devotion to Mary, I’ll take this opportunity to supplement:
Begin with: Blessed Mother TERESA of Calcutta (as I forgot to include the capped in prior post);
Add:
–Saint Louis Marie de Montfort
–St. Alphonsus Maria de Liguori
–St. Faustina
–Saint Maximilian Kolbe
–St. Josemaria Escriva
–Saint Bernard of Clairvaux, Father and Doctor of the Church
–St. John Vianney
–Saint Francis de Sales
–Saint Ildephonsus, Bishop
–Saint John Damascene
–Saint Germanus of Constantinople, Patriarch of Constantinople
–Pope Saint Gregory VII
–Saint Anselm, Archbishop and Doctor of the Church
–Saint Bonaventure, Cardinal-Bishop and Doctor of the Church
–Saint Cajetan, Founder of the Theatines
–Saint Francis Borgia
–Saint Robert Bellarmine, Cardinal-Bishop and Doctor of the Church
–Saint John Eudes
–Blessed William Joseph Chaminade
–Pope Pius XII, 1876-1958 AD
–Saint Hilary of Poitiers - Bishop, Father, and Doctor of the Church
–Saint Anthony of Padua, Doctor of the Church
–Saint Gregory Nazianzen, Father and Doctor of the Church
–Saint John Damascene, Father and Doctor of the Church
–Saint Padre Pio
–Pope Saint Pius X
–Blessed Cardinal John Henry Newman
–St. Clare ('Poor Clares)
–St. Rose of Lima
–St. Joan of Arc
–St. Elizabeth Ann Seton
–St. Bernadette of Lourdes
Still others–perhaps I’ll post somemore–but I’ll close out this post, with a quote from St. Louis de Montfort, that seems to express the point rather well:
“
The greatest saints, those richest in grace and virtue will be the most assiduous in praying to the most Blessed Virgin, looking up to her as the perfect model to imitate and as a powerful helper to assist them.”
–Saint Louis Marie de Montfort *