P
Pisces1984
Guest
My family is a bit non-traditional. I have a very high-paying career, and my husband is a stay at home, homeschool dad. Well, about a year ago, he started staying up watching TV until at least 3 am, usually 4 am. One day, I got up for work at 6:30 am, and he was still up. The kids tell me he is rarely up before noon. Our house is filthy.
The TV makes it hard for me to fall asleep, and it is hard for me to fall back asleep because I wake up when he comes to bed. My job is very tough to do without sleep, and I am worried I will lose my job.
His position is that he’s always been a “night owl” and needs the time to himself, and I’m controlling for not accepting it. My position is that he should be watching the kids while I"m at work, and it is disrespectful to me as provider for him to not keep the house quiet at night.
I’ll send him a link in case he wants to give his side.
Am I being unreasonable?
The TV makes it hard for me to fall asleep, and it is hard for me to fall back asleep because I wake up when he comes to bed. My job is very tough to do without sleep, and I am worried I will lose my job.
His position is that he’s always been a “night owl” and needs the time to himself, and I’m controlling for not accepting it. My position is that he should be watching the kids while I"m at work, and it is disrespectful to me as provider for him to not keep the house quiet at night.
I’ll send him a link in case he wants to give his side.
Am I being unreasonable?