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JohnMichaels
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I thought about ways to go at this. I came up with 3. I’ve decided to double-downI hope you don’t mind my interjecting here, but this particular post called out to me.
In your previous thread**, I suggested that you shouldn’t allow your feelings to get in the way of the search for truth**. But here that is exactly what you have done. ** You “feel” abstinence leads to higher divorce**. Unfortunately, the numbers prove you dead wrong. The fact is that there is a demonstrable increase in the likelihood for divorce with every premarital sexual partner one has, even if it’s only one and that one is the same person you married. Numerous studies have confirmed that fact:
More could be said and many other points could be made, but I’ll leave it at that for now. The point is that, as I said earlier, you should not assume you have all the same information as your opponent, and, if you’re interested in the truth, you should set aside your personal feelings and be open to data which may contradict your preconceptions. Again, truly understanding the moral teachings of the Church requires a great deal of study and reflection.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.
I prayed deeply for the Lord to send me an answer on this issue. Should I be chaste before marriage. He spoke to me, & told me I was of him, & there was no sin in his eyes.
Then I read
1 Peter 4:8
Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins
&
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing
And I knew I was right to trust in the Lord.
YOU keep ignoring this. You keep throwing statistics around. I read them.
Are you telling my prayer is not an acceptable form of seeking truth?
I dare ya…