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BlessedBe13:
i don’t agree with the idea that it is the one ’ true’ religion. I don’t believe in hell, or the embodiment of evil (Satan). I prefer to think of my creator in a male and female aspect, I don’t believe that I need to “go through” someone (i.e. priest, bishop, pope) to have a relationship with god or to confess my sins (i don’t believe that is between anyone but me and god), partially because of attitudes of people and the fact that it was pushed upon me constantly, etc.

A while ago I had written up a post of why I felt different things or chose to leave the church, but it got deleted…I can always answer specific questions.

Currently I am not part of any particular religion, I am just studying.
You have quite a few things in disagreement not just with the Church but with christianity in general.

If you remain with these beliefs, then you would ultimately have to choose (if you choose at all) a religion outside of chirstianity. Probably some kind of paganism.

But if you have questions, ask away! 🙂

Martin
 
MKW- I wish you could come to our parish. We need a little enthusiasm. We value our converts. Your parish has no idea how fortunate they are to have you. A convert helped start our Rosary/Novena group that has been meeting for about 15 years now. Don’t be disappointed. Check to see if there is a Third Order of some kind near you. They will value your enthusiasm.

May God bless you,
Deacon Tony SFO
 
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Imprimartin:
You have quite a few things in disagreement not just with the Church but with christianity in general.

If you remain with these beliefs, then you would ultimately have to choose (if you choose at all) a religion outside of chirstianity. Probably some kind of paganism.
That’s exactly what I thought when I read that post.

Blessed be. 😃
HD
 
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dhgray:
How many are just visiting and/or looking for more information?
Just a comment on the poll, there is no place for I am catholic and love the church and am interested in finding out more.
 
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BlessedBe:
i don’t agree with the idea that it is the one ’ true’ religion. I don’t believe in hell, or the embodiment of evil (Satan). I prefer to think of my creator in a male and female aspect . . .
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Imprimartin:
If you remain with these beliefs, then you would ultimately have to choose (if you choose at all) a religion outside of chirstianity. Probably some kind of paganism.
Heathen Dawn:
That’s exactly what I thought when I read that post.

Blessed be. 😃
HD
Yes, but I wonder if he (or she) would actually be comfortable being thought of as a pagan. I teach ethics classes and when some students recite their beliefs, I usually reply, “Congratulations, you’re a pagan/atheist/agnostic!” They usually don’t like being called that for whatever reason.

I would like to know how BlessedBe left the church and what caused him/her to think that there was no hell/Satan-type figure. Where does evil come from? etc

Martin
 
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Imprimartin:
You have quite a few things in disagreement not just with the Church but with christianity in general.

If you remain with these beliefs, then you would ultimately have to choose (if you choose at all) a religion outside of chirstianity. Probably some kind of paganism.

But if you have questions, ask away! 🙂

Martin
I am still looking for a religion, and currently am studying Wicca. I don’t consider myself Wiccan, as I want to have a firm understanding, but I feel like this is the path I want to head towards.

Laura
 
Imprimartin said:
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Yes, but I wonder if he (or she) would actually be comfortable being thought of as a pagan. I teach ethics classes and when some students recite their beliefs, I usually reply, “Congratulations, you’re a pagan/atheist/agnostic!” They usually don’t like being called that for whatever reason.

I would like to know how BlessedBe left the church and what caused him/her to think that there was no hell/Satan-type figure. Where does evil come from? etc

Martin

I know someone who is proud to be called “pagan.” She says so, herself.

She doesn’t like to be called agnostic because she’s SURE there is no “God” and therefore she is “atheist.”

An atheist of the Pagan type.

If I unthinkly say begin to say something to her about some grace that God has granted to me in some experience I’ve had recently and I express that to her beginning with the words “God did something really good for me yesterday!” – she cringes and immediately throws up her hands with her index fingers crossed over in front of her face saying “DON’T say ‘God’ to me!! There’s no such thing!”

I backtrack and say “whoops… didn’t mean to offend you… okay, I’ll tell you a different way.”

And I start over with “had a great thing happen to me yesterday…”

In the back of my mind, I say a quick prayer for her.
 
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BlessedBe13:
I am still looking for a religion, and currently am studying Wicca. I don’t consider myself Wiccan, as I want to have a firm understanding, but I feel like this is the path I want to head towards.

Laura
Laura,
I’m curious as to some things that you have said over the posts in this thread. I’m a little confused.

You say that you don’t believe in certain things. (The devil, Hell, etc) I would take that to mean that you don’t think that they exist. In other words, you would say, “It is true that they don’t exist.”

You also study other religions so that you can have a “firm understanding”. That is to say, you want to know what they teach, and if those truths don’t agree with the truths that you previously learned as you understand them, then they must not be true.

But then you say in your most recent post that [X religion] is where I “want” to head towards.

Is your motive to find a religion:
  • “the Truth” (if you believe in such a thing). OR
  • Is it a function of your desire (which doesn’t neccessarily reflect truth–It’s simply what you want or maybe (sorry about using this phrase) something that feels good.)
Martin
 
Veronica Anne:
I know someone who is proud to be called “pagan.” She says so, herself.

She doesn’t like to be called agnostic because she’s SURE there is no “God” and therefore she is “atheist.”

An atheist of the Pagan type.

If I unthinkly say begin to say something to her about some grace that God has granted to me in some experience I’ve had recently and I express that to her beginning with the words “God did something really good for me yesterday!” – she cringes and immediately throws up her hands with her index fingers crossed over in front of her face saying “DON’T say ‘God’ to me!! There’s no such thing!”

I backtrack and say “whoops… didn’t mean to offend you… okay, I’ll tell you a different way.”

And I start over with “had a great thing happen to me yesterday…”

In the back of my mind, I say a quick prayer for her.
This is curious. Correct me if I’m wrong, but Pagans do believe in some kind of higher power, Yes? Now, this higher power doesn’t neccessarily have to be a person. It can be a force to be used and manipulated like Magick, spells, etc. But the Old Pagans used to believe in gods who were persons who had feelings, etc. I know of no Neo-Pagans like this.

Perhaps, HeathenDawn can shed some light on this.

In any case, How can she call herself an atheist and still believe in some kind of pagan higher power? In addition, it offends her to hear the word “God”. I think there is something else there and you are very right to pray for her. Intellectual athiests do not cross their fingers as you friend does. :hmmm:

Martin
 
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Imprimartin:
Laura,
You say that you don’t believe in certain things. (The devil, Hell, etc) I would take that to mean that you don’t think that they exist. In other words, you would say, “It is true that they don’t exist.”
I really can’t say that it’s “true” they don’t exist, but I don’t believe that they do. There really is no definite proof that they do exist either way. However, even when I was still Catholic, I didn’t see how or why they would exist. If God is supposed to be all-loving, I don’t see how he could send anyone to eternal suffering. I suppose maybe I could see “punishment” for the “bad” things you did (purgatory), but not for eternaty. That seems to contradict the “all-loving God” theory. When I have said this, people have told me that people go to hell because god is just. Well if god is just then he wouldn’t send people to hell, because no-one is that bad that they deserve eternal punishment, especially if god loves them. Just would be maybe giving them the punishment they “deserve”, but not an eternal punishment. Personally, I think that what you do in life comes back to haunt you while you are still living, not in the afterlife.
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Imprimartin:
You also study other religions so that you can have a “firm understanding”. That is to say, you want to know what they teach, and if those truths don’t agree with the truths that you previously learned as you understand them, then they must not be true.
I don’t believe that there is any one, true religion. Religion to me is the perception of a god/goddess that helps one to understand it the most, and the preferred way of worshiping that deity/deities. So, I am searching for a religion that fits my beliefs, so that I may attain the spiritual fulfillment I am looking for. If a religion doesn’t fit my beliefs, that doesn’t make it wrong, false, untruthful, it’s just not the way that I choose to look at deity. I said I feel right now that I want to head towards Wicca because from what I’ve learned so far it’s a religion that fits several of my beliefs.
 
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Imprimartin:
This is curious. Correct me if I’m wrong, but Pagans do believe in some kind of higher power, Yes? Now, this higher power doesn’t neccessarily have to be a person. It can be a force to be used and manipulated like Magick, spells, etc. But the Old Pagans used to believe in gods who were persons who had feelings, etc. I know of no Neo-Pagans like this.
From what I believe, and what I have been told by other Pagans, many believe in a god and goddess, who are often personified and have different personalities, etc. Also, I believe all the pagans I have talked to, although some belief gods/esses can aid with spells (much like the Christian God is thought to aid in prayers - since that is essentially what a spell is), they believe that “magic” is harnessing the natural energy that everyone has within them and directing it towards a specific goal or pupose. Also I’ve never heard that the gods/esses were something to be manipulated to perform magic, gain power, etc.

Granted, this may not speak for all pagans, but this is most often what I have heard.
 
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Imprimartin:
This is curious. Correct me if I’m wrong, but Pagans do believe in some kind of higher power, Yes? Now, this higher power doesn’t neccessarily have to be a person. It can be a force to be used and manipulated like Magick, spells, etc. But the Old Pagans used to believe in gods who were persons who had feelings, etc. I know of no Neo-Pagans like this.

Perhaps, HeathenDawn can shed some light on this.
Pagan is an umbrella term gathering a wide variety of paths. No-one has yet given a definition to fit all pagans; even the most comprehensive definition leaves a few people out who do call themselves pagans. It may be polytheists, but not all pagans are, and there are nonpagans who are (eg the Mormons). It may be worshippers or reverers of nature, but not all pagans are (eg Thelemites—they focus on ceremonial magic more than anything else). They are non-Abrahamics, but not all non-Abrahamics are pagans (Buddhists and Sikhs aren’t, and Hindus may or may not be, depending who you ask). And there are atheists who call themselves pagans, forming a path called Secular Paganism and Atheist Paganism, focussing on attuning oneself to nature.

Now the theology of pagans is of similar diversity. Among Old Pagans, and the Reconstructionists who emulate them (practitioners of Ásatrú or Hellenismos, for example), the theology is hard polytheism: many Gods and Goddess, each unique, distinct and personal, with no overarching divinity behind Them. Among other pagans the theology is soft polytheism: all the Gods and Goddesses are aspects of one overarching dinivity (Brahman in Hindu terminology), and beliefs vary as to Their distinctiveness and personhood. I’m a soft polytheist who believes each God is unique, distinct and personal; closer on the scale to hard polytheism, but I do believe in one Creator-God behind Them all. Another theology is duotheism: divinity is divided into male (one God) and female (one Goddess), and all Gods are aspects of the God, and all Goddesses aspects of the Goddess. The last theology I see fit to mention is that of metaphorism or archetypalism: the Gods and Goddesses are not literal beings, but metaphors conceived of the human psyche. That last view is atheism-compatible.

I hope this gives you some picture of the diversity of paganism and pagan beliefs.

Blessed be.
HD
 
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BlessedBe13:
If God is supposed to be all-loving, I don’t see how he could send anyone to eternal suffering. I suppose maybe I could see “punishment” for the “bad” things you did (purgatory), but not for eternaty. That seems to contradict the “all-loving God” theory. When I have said this, people have told me that people go to hell because god is just. Well if god is just then he wouldn’t send people to hell, because no-one is that bad that they deserve eternal punishment, especially if god loves them. Just would be maybe giving them the punishment they “deserve”, but not an eternal punishment.
Thank you for the music! 😃

I believe eternal hell is a human invention for the purpose of maximising the adherents of the religion in question.
 
Heathen Dawn:
Thank you for the music! 😃

I believe eternal hell is a human invention for the purpose of maximising the adherents of the religion in question.
Thank you for your thanks 🙂

Even when I was a practising Catholic, I started to lose my belief in hell as I grew older. To me it was, as you said, a way to essentially “scare” people into following the religion. To me it seemed close to parents telling their kids “Don’t do that/go there/disobey me or the bogeyman’s going to get you” or “If you’re not good, Santa’s not going to bring you any presents”. Granted, hell is a much more extreme versions of those, but that’s how my views are.

It doesn’t make sense to me that an all-loving god would do something like that.
 
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BlessedBe13:
Thank you for your thanks 🙂

Even when I was a practising Catholic, I started to lose my belief in hell as I grew older. To me it was, as you said, a way to essentially “scare” people into following the religion. To me it seemed close to parents telling their kids “Don’t do that/go there/disobey me or the bogeyman’s going to get you” or “If you’re not good, Santa’s not going to bring you any presents”. Granted, hell is a much more extreme versions of those, but that’s how my views are.

It doesn’t make sense to me that an all-loving god would do something like that.
BB13,

I think you’re misunderstanding hell a bit here.🙂 People are waaay too influenced by Dante on this!

Hell is essentially eternal separation from God. The souls in hell are there because they chose to be there. Think of it this way…God offers humanity a relationship with him; we are perfectly free to either accept or reject it. If a person spends their entire life rejecting God and not wanting to have anything to do with him, why the heck would God then force that person to spend all eternity with him?:whacky: :eek: I don’t know what beliefs (if any) Pagans have of an afterlife but I think many people, pagan or not, (and probably some christians!) have this fairyland idea of an afterlife with dancing leprechauns and pots of gold at the end of the rainbow where everyone goes when they die and where everyone is all wonderful and happy with God regardless of what they have done in their lifetime. :whacky: Sounds nice but such a situation would not allow for peoples’ freedom to reject God.

Well that’s my :twocents: , I’m sure there are others on this board who could come up with something more eloquent.😉

Peace!
Jade
 
I think what most people believe in hell must ultimately tie in to what they believe about Jesus. It is akin to the question of whether Jesus is divine. If he is not God, then based on what he clearly said he is either a self-deluded fool, a madman, or a liar. If he is none of these then he is what he said he was, which is God.

As a corrolary to this, it is a fact that Jesus talked much more about an eternal hell than he did about heaven. If he is God, then he can not be mistaken, decieved, lying or insane. Ergo, if Jesus is God and he taught about an eternal hell, then it is worthy of belief.

Perhaps a biblical revisionist can pooh-pooh the entire argument as “Well, I don’t think Jesus really said that” or “The later Church put those words in his mouth,” but that would take you back to full circle to the beginning of this post: Who do you say Jesus is?
 
Heathen Dawn:
Pagan is an umbrella term gathering a wide variety of paths. No-one has yet given a definition to fit all pagans; even the most comprehensive definition leaves a few people out who do call themselves pagans. It may be polytheists, but not all pagans are, and there are nonpagans who are (eg the Mormons). It may be worshippers or reverers of nature, but not all pagans are (eg Thelemites—they focus on ceremonial magic more than anything else). They are non-Abrahamics, but not all non-Abrahamics are pagans (Buddhists and Sikhs aren’t, and Hindus may or may not be, depending who you ask). And there are atheists who call themselves pagans, forming a path called Secular Paganism and Atheist Paganism, focussing on attuning oneself to nature.

Now the theology of pagans is of similar diversity. Among Old Pagans, and the Reconstructionists who emulate them (practitioners of Ásatrú or Hellenismos, for example), the theology is hard polytheism: many Gods and Goddess, each unique, distinct and personal, with no overarching divinity behind Them. Among other pagans the theology is soft polytheism: all the Gods and Goddesses are aspects of one overarching dinivity (Brahman in Hindu terminology), and beliefs vary as to Their distinctiveness and personhood. I’m a soft polytheist who believes each God is unique, distinct and personal; closer on the scale to hard polytheism, but I do believe in one Creator-God behind Them all. Another theology is duotheism: divinity is divided into male (one God) and female (one Goddess), and all Gods are aspects of the God, and all Goddesses aspects of the Goddess. The last theology I see fit to mention is that of metaphorism or archetypalism: the Gods and Goddesses are not literal beings, but metaphors conceived of the human psyche. That last view is atheism-compatible.

I hope this gives you some picture of the diversity of paganism and pagan beliefs.

Blessed be.
HD
Wow.

How does one make sense of it all? It almost sounds like protestantism with all it’s denominations. Only that pagans can’t argue against each other because there is no standard like a bible or something.

Martin
 
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Imprimartin:
Wow.

How does one make sense of it all?
A pagan chooses what makes most sense to him or her.
It almost sounds like protestantism with all it’s denominations.
Correct. The difference is pagans have no mandate to be united. The diversity is cherished, not loathed.
Only that pagans can’t argue against each other because there is no standard like a bible or something.
Right. 🙂 They can debate (and if you ever get to see those theology debates on pagan boards, they can become furious, with hard polytheists slinging mud at the soft polytheists, soft polytheists at the duotheists, and everyone at the metaphorists), but the consensus is that division is the fruit of seeing the one truth in many forms. As Isaac Bonewits says:
Polytheistic religions are usually based on multiple value (or “fuzzy”) logic systems. The existence of many deities implies many realities, truth is thought of as fluid (in vino veritas?) and disagreements mean error, stupidity or imagination – not “Evil.”
 
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Fidelis:
Perhaps a biblical revisionist can pooh-pooh the entire argument as “Well, I don’t think Jesus really said that” or “The later Church put those words in his mouth,”
Yes, that’s what I do.
but that would take you back to full circle to the beginning of this post: Who do you say Jesus is?
Who do I say Jesus is? My position on Jesus is the same as my position on Elvis Presley: a mostly historical figure who, after death, had extraordinary claims attached to him. Elvis was born, lived, performed and died in 20th-century America, a historical figure; but after he died, sightings of him, alive again, in various places began to circulate—extraordinary claims attached to him. In like manner, Jesus was born, lived, ministered/preached/taught and died (crucified) in 1st-century Roman Judaea, a historical figuire; but after he died, people believed in his rising from the dead, the virgin birth, miracles performed by him during his life—extraordinary claims attached to him.
 
I’m Orthodox, which from the viewpoint of the Orthodox church means I’m also Catholic 😃

John
 
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