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Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Pamm said:
I feel selfish for asking for prayer in a world full of sufferng, but I am indeed feeling my own suffering in my current situation. Three months ago I lost my job after 26 years with a company I was totally committed to – I was making a substantial salary and an officer of the company. I have chosen to accept that God somehow works in mysterious ways - and that my future will be bright and bountiful. I have gone back to school at the age of 52 - -and am working on my masters degree. I feel as though I have found my next calling in life – and I am filled with joy on that front. Sadly, my marriage is struggling – I have been married for 30 years, to a good man. I have been the breadwinner in my family for so long. I have taken care (in a physical sense) of my husband’s parents and then my mother – all of whom were diagnosed with terminal illnesses and then passed away. I finally feel free of the death and loss I have experienced for so long – and now I feel joy in my future. Sadly, my husband of 30 years, seems to lack interest or compassion in my future. After all these years, I am unsure he cares about me as a person. He remains angry about my mother’s illness and the impact it had on our family. I am on this threshold of starting anew – and he seems locked in the past and negative. My heart and soul is stricken by his lack of support and I don’t know what do to. I feel lost and unsure of where to go. Please pray for us --that my marriage can survive this latest challenge and that I can find the right path ahead of me.
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I am praying for you and your husband’s situation.

THE PRAYER
SAINT ANNE, BLESS MY FAMILY
My family is the heart of my life.
It is my little Church.
Saint Anne, guard the members of my family
against all physical and spiritual danger.

You lived in the presence of your husband Joachim
and your little daughter Mary.
Later, you welcomed your son-in-law, Saint Joseph,
and above all your beloved Grandson Jesus, our Saviour.

May your family inspire our families.
May we remain united in a deep mutual love.
If my family is broken by separation or divorce,
remain for us the Saint of tenderness and lead us to God.

Saint Anne, you were a spouse, a mother, and a grandmother;
bless all the members of my family.
Keep us faithful to the Lord.

May we remain attentive to the needs of other families.
Protect all families.

Amen.
 
I am praying for you and your husband’s situation.

THE PRAYER
SAINT ANNE, BLESS MY FAMILY
My family is the heart of my life.
It is my little Church.
Saint Anne, guard the members of my family
against all physical and spiritual danger.

You lived in the presence of your husband Joachim
and your little daughter Mary.
Later, you welcomed your son-in-law, Saint Joseph,
and above all your beloved Grandson Jesus, our Saviour.

May your family inspire our families.
May we remain united in a deep mutual love.
If my family is broken by separation or divorce,
remain for us the Saint of tenderness and lead us to God.

Saint Anne, you were a spouse, a mother, and a grandmother;
bless all the members of my family.
Keep us faithful to the Lord.

May we remain attentive to the needs of other families.
Protect all families.

Amen.
 
Our Father Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Pamm,

I prayed to the Sacred Heart of Jesus that your husband’s heart will be changed, and be filled with happiness.

Here is prayer that spouses can pray for each other:

PRAYER OF HUSBAND AND WIFE

O God, who has ordered the holy state of matrimony, wherein I am engaged, grant me grace to comply with all its obligations, and to perform them in such a manner as is becoming a Christian, not an unbeliever. Preserve my love undefiled, according to Thy divine command, and let the duty of love help to conduct me with comfort through all the obligations and difficulties of my state. Grant me discretion to manage all circumstances for the best; a true love for peace; and such a discreet compliance as to resign my own thoughts and inclinations for preserving it. Inspire me with true humility and patience that I may submit to and bear with all crosses in the manner the apostle requires.
Furnish me with all other helps that whatever difficulties may occur, I may persevere with cheerfulness in discharging the duties of my state, and never yield so far to any weakness, ill-humor, or impatience, as to weaken, much less to break, the bond which cannot be dissolved but by death.
May I always be faithful and defatigable in the discharge of the duties of my state, doing and suffering whatever falls to my lot, with such absolute submission, to Thy will, that both in peace and trouble, in prosperity and in adversity, I may ever remember to resign myself cheerfully, O God, to Thy pleasure or permission; and, under all difficulties, still labor to work out my salvation; through Christ our Lord. Amen.
 
hello. im so sorry to hear about your sufferings. but do not fear, for the Lord loves you and will pull through for you.
Here’s a novena you should do and i will also pray it for you. it is to St. Rita
St Rita helped me when i was going through a tough time in a relationship and i am confident she will help you. St Rita is the patroness of hopeless cases and of the family. She is very powerful with Jesus. Just have faith.

here is the novena:

**O holy patroness of those in need, St. Rita,
whose pleadings before thy Divine Lord
are almost irresistible,
who for thy lavishness in granting favours
hast been called the Advocate of the hopeless
and even of the impossible;
St. Rita, so humble, so pure,
so mortified, so patient
and of such compassionate love
for thy Crucified Jesus
that thou couldst obtain from Him
whatsoever thou askest,
on account of which all confidently
have recourse to thee expecting,
if not always relief,
at least comfort;
be propitious to our petition,
showing thy power with God
on behalf of thy suppliant;
be lavish to us,
as thou hast been in so many wonderful cases,
for the greater glory of God,
for the spreading of thine own devotion,
and for the consolation of those
who trust in thee.

We promise, if our petition is granted,
to glorify thee by making known thy favour,
to bless and sing thy praises forever.
Relying then upon thy merits and power
before the Sacred Heart of Jesus,
we pray thee grant that…

(Make your request here…)

as soon as God deems fit.

Amen.**

**This Novena must be said for nine consecutive days, and then must be published if your petition is granted. **
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Loving God,

We lift up our intentions for pamm and ask for your mercy, blessings, and the touch of your Holy Spirit to be with her during this time of transition and challenge in her life. Please strengthen this daughter of yours, and grant her strong faith, courage, and trust in your divine providence. We lift this pray for pamm now:

PRAYER FOR CHOOSING A STATE OF LIFE

From all eternity, O Lord,
You planned my very existence and my destiny.
You wrapped me in Your love in baptism
and gave me the Faith
to lead me to an eternal life
of happiness with You.
You have showered me with Your graces
and You have been always ready
with Your mercy and forgiveness
when I have fallen.
Now I beg You for the light
I so earnestly need
that I may find the way of life
in which lies the best fulfillment of Your will.
Whatever state this may be,
give me the grace necessary
to embrace it with love of Your holy will,
as devotedly as Your Blessed Mother did Your will.
I offer myself to You now,
trusting in Your wisdom and love
to direct me in working out my salvation
and in helping others
to know and come close to You,
so that I may find my reward
in union with You for ever and ever.

Amen.
 
Saint Joseph, Protector of family life, be with this family. Pray for them and guard them from evil. Watch over this woman with your special care and pray for her and her husband for a committed, joyful, and bountiful future. Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
sambfive said:
Our Father Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
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I pray things are improving. Amen.
 
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Saint Joseph, holy patron of husbands, pray for Pamm’s husband.

Saint Castora Gabrielli, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Catherine of Genoa, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Dorothy of Montau, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Edward the Confessor, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Elizabeth of Portugal, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Fabiola, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Gengulfus, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Godelieve, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Gummarus, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Hedwig of Andechs, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Helena, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Louis IX, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Margaret the Barefooted, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Marguerite d’Youville, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Monica, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Nicholas of Flue, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Olaf II, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Pharaildis, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Philip Howard, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Radegunde, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Rita of Cascia, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Theodore of Sykion, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Thomas More, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Wilgefortis, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Saint Zedislava Berka, holy patron of difficult marriages, pray for Pamm’s marriage.

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

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Pamm said:
I feel selfish for asking for prayer in a world full of sufferng, but I am indeed feeling my own suffering in my current situation. Three months ago I lost my job after 26 years with a company I was totally committed to – I was making a substantial salary and an officer of the company. I have chosen to accept that God somehow works in mysterious ways - and that my future will be bright and bountiful. I have gone back to school at the age of 52 - -and am working on my masters degree. I feel as though I have found my next calling in life – and I am filled with joy on that front. Sadly, my marriage is struggling – I have been married for 30 years, to a good man. I have been the breadwinner in my family for so long. I have taken care (in a physical sense) of my husband’s parents and then my mother – all of whom were diagnosed with terminal illnesses and then passed away. I finally feel free of the death and loss I have experienced for so long – and now I feel joy in my future. Sadly, my husband of 30 years, seems to lack interest or compassion in my future. After all these years, I am unsure he cares about me as a person. He remains angry about my mother’s illness and the impact it had on our family. I am on this threshold of starting anew – and he seems locked in the past and negative. My heart and soul is stricken by his lack of support and I don’t know what do to. I feel lost and unsure of where to go. Please pray for us --that my marriage can survive this latest challenge and that I can find the right path ahead of me.
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Loving God,
Restore and protect this marraige from the evil one and reveal the true problems. Open the communication and help both to see the other through Your eyes. Guide each to love each other as You love us. In the precious Name of Your Beloved Son, Jesus our Lord. Amen.
mlz
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Loving God,
Restore and protect this marraige from the evil one and reveal the true problems. Open the communication and help both to see the other through Your eyes. Guide each to love each other as You love us. In the precious Name of Your Beloved Son, Jesus our Lord. Amen.
mlz
 
May we have the strength and guidance to live and love the faith we profess.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
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