I’d definitely talk to some more people. There is so much misinformation, it is difficult to know where to begin.
Can a priest drink? The short answer is “yes”. But our perspective on the matter is what is most important to consider, I believe. I find it refreshing, as a Catholic, that the church understands and accepts that we are ALL sinners.
On the issue of Mary, as a Catholic, I have a tendency to turn the point right around. My question to those that question a devotion to Mary, why they choose to ignore her? Are we “more” devoted to the Holy Mother-I’d say that we are not “more” devoted. But there is certainly a love and respect for all she has done to do God’s will. She humbly served our Lord, and her humility is an example to all of us…or should be, at least. She helps us to more completely love and understand her Son-she points us to Him, never herself.
To your third point, are there SOME Catholics too concerned about one or two books of the Bible more than the others? The answer, I’m sure, is again, “yes.” But isn’t that true of any member of any faith? The same could be said about many individuals. We must look beyond individuals, though, to find the right answer. I’d ask you to look at the liturgy. During Mass, throughout the year, there is usually a reading from both the Old and New Testament, followed by the Gospel. During the weeks of Easter, there are only readings from the New Testament. So, there is a measurable, quantifiable way to dispute this particular information you’ve been given. If you are curious and wish to explore this point further, I’d direct you to look at a Missal and look at the readings for each Mass. (they can also be found on line if you don’t have a Missal at your disposal).
Fourth point, as a Catholic I can answer for myself. I pray often. Every morning I make an offering to Jesus. I pray any special intentions I may have at that given moment. Every evening, I pray special intentions and examine my conscience. Again, you can look at a local parish for guidance here also. Many parishes have prayer groups, just like many Protestant churches do.
I don’t feel qualified to answer your fifth point. I am unaware of where that would even come from. So I will use the space to make a point about something else you brought up…confession. I didn’t understand it before my conversion. I didn’t want to receive the sacrament of reconciliation before my conversion, if I’m being honest. Confession is a beautiful part of the faith, now that I’m a part of it. It allows me to feel completely forgiven for my specific sins. It also helps me avoid occasions of near sin and sin itself by being aware of my sinful nature, thanks to the sacrament. I went from not wanting to be a part of reconciliation, to now seeing it as one of the true joys of the Catholic faith.
Hope this lengthy post helps you in your journey. May God Bless!
