I have fallen into Grave sin

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I have fallen into Grave Sin again after having one of my best lents in my life and avoiding the sin of fornication for the longest period of time since i was 13.

This coming on holy week . the worse possiable time.

All of this Started on Monday
I have been having sex with my girlfriend , and then had sex with my girlsfriends Sister , and best friend behind her back.

I have lost my connection to God completly…

I dont even feel like going to Church on Easter. I think why repent when you know you’ll be sinning again sooner or later.

I m a slave to my sin.
 
I have fallen into Grave Sin again after having one of my best lents in my life and avoiding the sin of fornication for the longest period of time since i was 13.

This coming on holy week . the worse possiable time.

All of this Started on Monday
I have been having sex with my girlfriend , and then had sex with my girlsfriends Sister , and best friend behind her back.

I have lost my connection to God completly…

I dont even feel like going to Church on Easter. I think why repent when you know you’ll be sinning again sooner or later.

I m a slave to my sin.
God is bigger both than you and the sin you think you are a slave to.

He doesn’t want you to sin, and will help you to avoid sin. Call on him earnestly, pray long and hard for his help. And call your nearest church and ask the priest to give you an appointment to hear your confession today or some time prior to Easter.
 
I have fallen into Grave Sin again after having one of my best lents in my life and avoiding the sin of fornication for the longest period of time since i was 13.

This coming on holy week . the worse possiable time.

All of this Started on Monday
I have been having sex with my girlfriend , and then had sex with my girlsfriends Sister , and best friend behind her back.

I have lost my connection to God completly…

I dont even feel like going to Church on Easter. I think why repent when you know you’ll be sinning again sooner or later.

I m a slave to my sin.
Here is some advice, next time you fall into sin, immediately go to confession before you ever post anything online.

God have mercy on us all.
 
Why post here now? You should get to confession since I think some places offer confessions on Good Friday for extended times. I could be wrong but I think I remember going to confession on Good Friday once a few years ago.
 
Why post here now? You should get to confession since I think some places offer confessions on Good Friday for extended times. I could be wrong but I think I remember going to confession on Good Friday once a few years ago.
You would be suprised on this day of all days but it is often hard to find confession on Good Friday.

At least down here it is it seems
 
That being said I bet if you go and call a Priest he will not hear it today or tommorow
 
I plan on going to confession tommorow…

the Priest wouldnt meet me today, too busy.

anyway I wish I could live my life with out confliction. nothing makes me happy .

I either feel guilt for my sin, or i feel empty in living a good clean style life.
 
I felt the same way you felt RepentorPerish. But then I remember that even though God fell 3 times and he still got back up and was able to say “It is finished.”
 
I have been battling this sin for 10 years ,I cant overcome it.

i dont know what to do…

you know whatever…

If God wants me in heaven he’ll make a way, I give up completly.
 
I have been battling this sin for 10 years ,I cant overcome it.

i dont know what to do…

you know whatever…

If God wants me in heaven he’ll make a way, I give up completly.
Give up? Why? You might have to get help. Satan just wants you to give up, but you can’t. You have to pray, pray, pray, no matter how much energy it takes. Trust in grace, and not in yourself. You don’t know what to do, but God does. Talk to him!!! He is just waiting to help.

RepentorPerish, repent or perish. I hate to be hard, but if you give up, you will perish.
 
I have been battling this sin for 10 years ,I cant overcome it.

i dont know what to do…

you know whatever…

If God wants me in heaven he’ll make a way, I give up completly.
Don’t worry, I’m in mortal sin too. Just don’t receive on Easter. Don’t let that ruin it for you though. Go to confession after Easter is what I plan to do…that way I can receive the next Sunday which is Divine Mercy Sunday. Seems fitting that I should receive on that day. Don’t let it get you down…there are others of us who have fallen into mortal sin and haven’t been able to receive during Holy Week. Peace!🙂
 
I have been battling this sin for 10 years ,I cant overcome it.

i dont know what to do…

you know whatever…

If God wants me in heaven he’ll make a way, I give up completly.
By the way, do you really believe you can overcome sin? That is God’s job. You’re job is to let him in.🙂
 
I have been battling this sin for 10 years ,I cant overcome it.

i dont know what to do…

you know whatever…

If God wants me in heaven he’ll make a way, I give up completly.
Do not give up. These threads tonight are really getting into my heart. My most bothersome sins are sexual. They have always been my downfall. I have prob done things that would make Caligulia blush. SO I know how powerful and seductive those sins are and know sort of where you are at.

You know what I still fall at times. Not crazy about it but it has happened. The key is this. First trust God and turn it over to him. When you confess and make peace withGod it is forgiven. The graces you recive from that will help.

Second of all do not wallow in that self Disgust. That is really easy and will just get you back into that sin. I know been there and done that. Tommorow the Sun will arise and I suggest that you particiapte in all the Church has to offer this weekend. Not going to Sunday or Holy Sataday Mass just compounds sin on sin and that doesnt help at all.

Third- KNow you are not alone. I have a legal background. Trust me in this day and age I heard more than a priest. I had to deal with Divorce cases and Custody cases all the time. I see good Christian people of all faiths that from the outside no one would have a clue what was going on.That experience showed me one thing. That even people that have what appears to be the most initimate experiences with GOD and Indeed even those that Do have fallen and some still fall in sexual sin

Lastly do what I do when I feel sins of that type coming on. I confessed a sin not in the past I felt I had not been honest about in confession. You know I used words such as impure acts with another etc etc and quickly moved on. Well, I knew this was not right. Well recently I a confessed it and the priest gave me a great piece of advice and confesses . When I have these feeling to pray** Psalm 51**

This is the prayer that King David himself prayed after his sexual sin. I am doing that now. By the way King David is an excellent one to look at. He had sexual sins and I suspect they did not all go away just like that. HE struggled just like you and me. I guess the point is that Satan does want us to feel overpowering guilt at times because it will just keep us in our bad habits. Guilt is good thing. But too much and again being cahined to it is a bad thing.

Tommorw night I shall keep you in my prayers and I hope you are Mass too because at Mass we boith can be united in prayer together and pray for each other as we both battle these same demons.
 
You should realize that Satan always attacks us when the best things in our lives are going on. He realizes that you’ve had an amazing Lent - and he wants to undermine that. If you let him stop you from seeking out confession and going to Easter Mass whether you can confess beforehand or not - you’ve let Satan win. He hits me at highs too, and I know its really hard not to give in to him. But we’re all praying for you, fighting Satan alongside you.

God’s got His hand open to you, He’s given the weapons you need to fight back against the devil. Open your heart to Him and let Him in. He’ll take care of the rest. Praying for you!
 
May God’s peace, love, mercy be with you all!

God is more powerful than all sin, evil and hell combined. By God’s grace, we are able to overcome our sinfulness and live a new life- a life of love, a life of holiness to which all of us are called. God has given us the means to do this, we just have to take advantage of it, stay close to Him and follow His most Holy Will.

When you fall into sin, never despair or give up, because that is what the evil one wants you to do so he has hold of your soul, instead immediately ask God for forgiveness for having offended Him Whom we love, Who loves us and is all good and deserving of all our love. Ask Him to help you for by yourself you can do nothing and then immediately make a resolution to do better next time, to sin no more by the help of His grace.

Go to confession frequently (weekly or every two weeks) for not only does your soul gets a “good scrubbing” with Our Good Lord Jesus’ Most Precious Blood, He also infuses you with all the graces needed to overcome sin.

Attend holy mass and receive Holy Communion daily as much as possible for you receive Jesus- God’s very own Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity. You receive God Himself, Who is utmost Purity, the very source of Holiness.

Every time you wake up tell God that you love Him and offer, surrender everything to Him in union with His suffering on the Cross, through Our Blessed Mother, in that way everything that you do is sanctified by Him and so your daily, ordinary life becomes an unceasing act of offering, prayer, adoration to God.

Do daily spiritual reading especially before going to bed in that way your last thought will be about God and His love. Read the inspiring writings of the saints and the sacred Scripture.

Do a daily examination of conscience.

Avoid near occasions of sin such as sexually provocative/profane shows, movies, music etc. This also includes places and people that causes you to sin or are bad influence/company,

Consecrate yourself to Our Blessed Mother who is the perfect example of purity and holiness for she will never fail to protect and help you. Keeping her company daily by praying the rosary is very helpful and also very pleasing to her.

When you feel the urge to sin, give in to the temptation or to just totally give up, immediately turn to Our Good Lord Jesus and Our Blessed Mother and ask for their help. They are always there to help you. The angels, saints and poor souls in purgatory are always there to help us too.

And no matter what, always stay faithful to Jesus and Our Blessed Mother. Never look back but always look forward, constantly gazing at Our Good Lord Jesus on the Cross. And even if you sometimes don’t feel like doing the things that I have mentioned, that it might seem hopeless, never give up, stay faithful and do them anyway and constantly trust in God…then He will do the rest.

Let us follow what Our Good Lord Jesus has told the Apostles in the Garden of Gethsemani:
“Pray that you will not fall into temptation”

Let us continuously pray that with the Most Precious Blood of Jesus and under the mantle of Our Blessed Mother to help us reject satan, sin, vices, attachments, addictions and to protect us from all evil, seen and unseen, from their snares, lies, malice, deceits, harm, violence, temptations, their pomps and their works.

God bless! Have a joyful and grace filled Easter!

Blessed be Jesus and Mary!
 
I pray to Saint Michael almost daily. “St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle”…Satan is fighting hard for your very soul because he KNOWS you are becoming ever closer to Our Lord. In this day and age especially Satan is very much alive and well. BUT he can’t even begin to hold a candle to God’s power, and he KNOWS that as well. He also wants you to be discouraged and fall into more sin. It’s a classic case of how he works.

We comemmorated Our Lord’s death on the cross yesterday. His terrible torture and suffering for YOU and for ME as well. He IS FORGIVENESS. Keep praying even and especially when you feel beaten by the EVIL ONE. That’s how Satan wants you to feel!!

Give this problem to THE MIGHTY ONE. Say a good act of contrition and GET THEE TO MASS. Our Blessed Mother is also our stronghold for purity of the flesh. She is unbelievably powerful in this area. Try to find someone to hear your confession, and if not don’t of course go to communion, but GO TO MASS. And get to confession at your first opportune time. It will still be the Easter Season when you do.👍 Just out of curiosity, do you say the rosary? IT IS THE WEAPON. Also the 3 Hail Mary’s morning and evening to keep us from mortal sin. Can’t tell you how powerful these tools are!!!

I will definitely keep you in my prayers:)
 
You have received some very fine spiritual advice. It will be of limited value to you, however, unless you remove yourself from the occasion of sin.

You need to evaluate this relationship very seriously. Is it possible for you to stay together and remain chaste? Would your girlfriend be open to that? If not, and marriage is not an option for you, you must break up.

You must decide on your priorities - Is God first in your life or not?

Betsy
 
I have fallen into Grave Sin again after having one of my best lents in my life and avoiding the sin of fornication for the longest period of time since i was 13.

This coming on holy week . the worse possiable time.

All of this Started on Monday
I have been having sex with my girlfriend , and then had sex with my girlsfriends Sister , and best friend behind her back.

I have lost my connection to God completly…

I dont even feel like going to Church on Easter. I think why repent when you know you’ll be sinning again sooner or later.

I m a slave to my sin.
then your a slave headed for hell, its your soul, not those girls, be responsible for the e-t-e-r-n-a-l (that means forever) destination of your own soul man, you cant repent of sin and know youve sinned and keep sinning, thats the reason Jesus died, so he could pay for your sins in Gods eyes and forgive you, but not if you keep on sinning over and over and over again and call yourself a slave to sin, your just a sinner, not a slave, dont be either, peace
 
I have fallen into Grave Sin again after having one of my best lents in my life and avoiding the sin of fornication for the longest period of time since i was 13.

This coming on holy week . the worse possiable time.

All of this Started on Monday
I have been having sex with my girlfriend , and then had sex with my girlsfriends Sister , and best friend behind her back.

I have lost my connection to God completly…

I dont even feel like going to Church on Easter. I think why repent when you know you’ll be sinning again sooner or later.

I m a slave to my sin.
Remember that all sin starts in the mind - that is where the battle starts. Say short prayers to Jesus when you are tempted. And, do not let yourself near the occasions of sin.

You may need to find some new friends, and get involved with a Church youth group. It’s your choice. The Lord loves you and will not give up on you!

Peace,

Dorothy
 
ive read every single post. Very encouraging and uplifting with good advice.
thank you to all of you for your insightful comments and concern, Im also thankful most of all for your prayers said for me. I would be grateful if you’d remember me tommorow or tonight at the Easter mass, and that you would say alittle prayer for me Michael of San Diego for healing and Power to overcome my Sin.

I will be going to the Easter Mass either Tonight or Tommorow sometime.

Thank you very much
 
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