I’m going to jump in here. To be honest, I myself am somewhat confused by the concept of baptism. I understand that it is a type of consecration of a person to God, and is followed up by the Sacrament of Confirmation which is when an adult makes the same commitment.
My confusion is about several things: first, why is water necessary?? A few months ago someone asked an apologist if an unborn baby could be baptised, as he/she is surrounded by amniotic fluid, which is well, at least pretty much like water. The answer given was “no.” I don’t understand this and I should have opened a thread then but didn’t. Does this mean that an unborn baby who is removed from the womb before birth, undergoes surgery, and is then placed back into the womb, can’t be baptised while outside of the womb? If this is so, why not? Doesn’t the Church believe that the unborn are human beings?? I know that we are born with Original Sin, perhaps not conceived with Original Sin and this may be the reason but I really don’t know.
Everybody knows that when an infant is baptised, he/she is not aware of the fact that this is being done. Lots of times they cry. I think I did (from what I’ve heard, although the photos show me being fairly content and sucking my thumb). Why water? What is so important about water?
Also, why is this Sacrament even performed?? Is it more for the parents and godparents than for the infant?? What about this “salt” thing, where supposedly salt is sprinkled into the infant’s mouth?? I don’t think this is done any more, but does anyone know why it was done in the first place?? And if it isn’t done any more, why not?? Is it OK for the godparents to participate in the ritual and then completely ignore their responsibilities as soon as the ritual is over (my godparents never helped me grow in my spiritual life and basically ignored me until they died)?
When I was confirmed I had no idea what was going on, which doesn’t surprise me because I had no idea what was going on when I received the Sacrament of Holy Communion for the first time. I didn’t understand Confession either, although I understood it more clearly than the other Sacraments. I’ve been told that my Confirmation is valid, but how can that be? To me it was just something my parents told me I had to do and I did it and the only things I remember are wearing some sort of gown, picking a name, and being (softly) slapped across the face by a bishop. I never agreed to become a member of the Church when I was Confirmed, I did it without full knowledge (or even sufficient knowledge) and it was done against my will (if I had not done it I my life living with my parents would have be intolerable beyond belief).
Don’t infants who are not baptised still go to heaven?? Aren’t they Holy Innocents?? They can’t sin. I realize the Church teaches that we are born with Original Sin and this has something to do with baptism, but I can’t seem to find out why. I just get dizzy and my mind shuts down. This also happened when I tried to read this thread. I have some brain damage from all the pain meds I’ve taken for 16 years and sometimes when I try to read about something a bit complicated I can’t process the information normally (I’ve been told the brain damage is reversible).
I have given myself to God and His Church but I feel like I missed out on something. I would be very happy to be re-Confirmed but I don’t believe it is possible as I already was Confirmed.
I am very confused.
I know we are commanded to baptise in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. But, WHY??
Please don’t think I am attacking anyone or anyone’s views. I submit in all things to the authority of the Church and the Magisterium. I am 100 percent Catholic and have offered my life and my soul to God. Following God’s word is the most important thing in my life and fighting for Truth is part of my commitment (which is why I have my user name).
I need some help with the concept and reality of the Sacrament of Baptism. Can anyone help me?? Please??