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I have posted in the “family life” thread about my recent heartache.
I honestly thought we would marry one day after I finished university and moved back home (long distance relationship)
I still feel like we will because I believe God has given me signs that we will get back together one day.

In the meantime please pray for this awful pain I am going through, I would never wish this on anyone and didn’t think it was possible to hurt so badly.
Please also pray for him as he is sufferring from depression and is refusing to get help, instead he is out drinking several times a week as he feels it is making him happier. I am feeling sick from the worry. He changed his mind about us (we were together nearly 3 years and totally in love) so quickly and out of the blue that it has to have been his depression and the stress of the distance which is another reason as to why I believe we can get back. I just pray he would give us another chance.

It has been nearly 7 weeks since he broke my heart and everyday the pain has just got worse.
I am trying to put my faith in God and that if we get back together this pain would be worth it as we would be closer and know 100% that we were right for each other and marriage wouldn’t be as hard.

I am praying for all of you.

Thank you, God bless
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Our Father Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy Name.
They Kingdom come; Thy Will be done;
On earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it is was in the begining, is now, and ever shall be world without end.
Amen

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Jesus please enter into this situation with comfort and healing, and may Your loving will be done in the lives of each of these persons.
 
Thank you.

It is also hard because people who are mutual friends but more my friends than his have seemed to rally around him and go out drinking with him while I am being ignored.

I feel so alone and so hurt. I just want things to go back to how they were.

I can’t help but feel jealous of so many people. People who are in happy relationships and marriages even though they have no faith in God. I know I shouldn’t be jealous and I am trying my best not to judge but it feels so unfair that I love God and I keep getting hurt while these people seem to have happier and happier lives.

I don’t know what to do anymore.
 
Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
Praying for you,hope you find peace and a resolution that is good for both you and your friend…
 
O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

For your intentions

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear our prayers for milletsmo. Heal her heart and let her realize that she loved by You and all of us. Amen
 
milletsmo said:
I have posted in the “family life” thread about my recent heartache.
I honestly thought we would marry one day after I finished university and moved back home (long distance relationship)
I still feel like we will because I believe God has given me signs that we will get back together one day.

In the meantime please pray for this awful pain I am going through, I would never wish this on anyone and didn’t think it was possible to hurt so badly.
Please also pray for him as he is sufferring from depression and is refusing to get help, instead he is out drinking several times a week as he feels it is making him happier. I am feeling sick from the worry. He changed his mind about us (we were together nearly 3 years and totally in love) so quickly and out of the blue that it has to have been his depression and the stress of the distance which is another reason as to why I believe we can get back. I just pray he would give us another chance.

It has been nearly 7 weeks since he broke my heart and everyday the pain has just got worse.
I am trying to put my faith in God and that if we get back together this pain would be worth it as we would be closer and know 100% that we were right for each other and marriage wouldn’t be as hard.

I am praying for all of you.

Thank you, God bless
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I feel for you. God knows how you feel to be apart from your loved one. God is testing you both to see how strong both are.

I had a friendship relationship for 16 years and I was burnt out for personal reason. I still loved him and cared for him. He knows that. It is good for us to be apart to find out if we still want each other or not. It is killing me but important thing is to have patience and give him space and time. I prefer friendship commitment than getting married. I have been married twice and I chose the wrong man. I have been divorced from my second marriage for 25 years and had decided I rather to have companion than getting married.
Keep your chin up and if he keeps up what he is doing, then better start think about what comes next. Good luck and I am sure God has plans for you soon. I hope you get what you want soon. My prayers is on you.
Sylvia:gopray:
 
Eternal Father,
we humbly ask that You send down Your Spirit to guide this couple through this painful time.
Grant unto them, we beseech Thee, the companionship of Your most beloved Son, Jesus Christ,
that they may not fall away from You and may soon see Your will for them more clearly.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
Amen
 
Thank you everyone, I just want him back.

Today I was on public transport and asked for strength and guidence and at the next stop I saw an advert for putting faith into God and His Son as He loves us and wants us to be happy.

I know I have God looking over me, but I feel like my ex needs extra help. He was baptized when a baby but has been brought up in an atheist household. The majoirty of his friends are agnostic at best. He knew how much of a strong Catholic I am and my family are and he is one of the few people who has never asked me why or called me silly and all those other things non-believers say. He told me he believes there is a God but I think that is the extent of his beliefs. I always (and still do) pray for him to see the light of Christ and hoped that me being with him would be his path to the Lord.

Please don’t tell me that because he isn’t a Catholic it means we’re not supposed to be together. I honestly believe we are and that he just needs some time and space to realise that and some help to see God.

Thank you for all your prayers

God bless you all
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Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth, as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
O Christ Jesus,
when all is darkness
and we feel our weakness and helplessness,
give us the sense of Your presence,
Your love, and Your strength.
Help us , especially Milletsmo to have perfect trust
in Your protecting love
and strengthening power,
so that nothing may frighten or worry us,
for, living close to You,
we shall see Your hand,
Your purpose, Your will through all things.

Amen.
 
O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

For your intentions

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear our prayers for milletsmo. Heal her heart and let her realize that she loved by You and all of us. Amen
 
I really don’t think I can cope with this pain much longer.

My friend has just told me that he was talking to him and he said he doesn’t think a meet up sober and alone would help as he doesn’t think its the alcohol which is making us upset. So basically now I can’t even be friends with him.
I know people will say this is for the best in the long run and that it will help me to move on etc etc but I don’t understand that.
Everyday he is getting further and further away from me and everyday it is hurting more and more.
It we weren’t supposed to be together then WHY does it hurt so badly!? I know God has a plan for us all but I can’t see how not being with him is a good thing.

It is my birthday in early Novemeber and I have had a lot of sad ones, last year my Nana died a few days before and her funeral was the day after. This year will be sad because it’ll be one year since she died but I will be even more sad than expected due to this heartache.

I just wish we could have one more try.
People keep telling me in some time I will get over it but honestly I won’t. I had trust issues before I met him and he broke down a lot of barriers but ended up being closer to me than ANYONE. Now I feel like if he could make me feel so bad then I won’t let anyone else in ever again as this pain hurts too much. He was the nicest person I have ever met and depression is destroying him and now also destroying me.

Please help I don’t think I can do this any more 😦
 
O Christ Jesus,
when all is darkness
and we feel our weakness and helplessness,
give us the sense of Your presence,
Your love, and Your strength.
Help us to have perfect trust
in Your protecting love
and strengthening power,
so that nothing may frighten or worry us,
for, living close to You,
we shall see Your hand,
Your purpose, Your will through all things.
 
Thank you for your prayers.

I am still hurting a lot but today it is a tiny bit more barable and I am sure it is down to people praying for me so thank you and please continue.

God bless you all
x
 
O Christ Jesus,
when all is darkness
and we feel our weakness and helplessness,
give us the sense of Your presence,
Your love, and Your strength.
Help us to have perfect trust
in Your protecting love
and strengthening power,
so that nothing may frighten or worry us,
for, living close to You,
we shall see Your hand,
Your purpose, Your will through all things.
Amen
 
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