I think gay stuff is funny

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user"michelleds":
I have been uncertain about this thread from the beginning.

if you are laughing at people out of mean-spiritedness (laughing at their sin or laughing because they are sinning), then it is wrong.

if you are laughing at a comedy, such as the gay character in Reno 911, then that’s a different discussion.

please elaborate.
Well I stated that I laughed at the sin since sins clearly lower the amount yourself or anyone takes you seriously.
 
Not all sodomites are effeminate and not all sapphites are masculine.

Will on “Will and Grace” a decade back seemed fairly normal, except that he had an attraction to men (except Jack, who is decidedly effeminate - and weird).

Effeminate behaviour is also not limited to homosexual men. And of course, vice verse.
Don’t use the term sodomite… It’s mean… Not all homosexuals are sexually active…
 
It’s not necessarily treating them with indignity, malice or unfairness. In many cases they are actively trying to make people laugh at their antics, and often being paid to do so.
I wasn’t the one who brought up paid actors who play at being gay or ramp it up. Afterall, many straight actor have played gay and vice versa. I have no concern, nor was that the purpose of posting the Papal admonishment. That was for the OP to examine.

I was addressing SPECIFICALLY the OP’s need to laugh or denigrate people generally based on a real or perceived sexual orientation. Why does he feel he needs to this and he needs to examine his conscience.
 
But is ‘sin’ ever funny? Especially one of a grave matter?
Probably on the technicality it isnt funny. BUT if we could not find sinful things funny what exactly would we laugh at? Life would be pretty depressing.
 
"Probably on the technicality it isnt funny. BUT if we could not find sinful things funny what exactly would we laugh at? Life would be pretty depressing. "

That would be my opinion too. And let me say, it causes some cognitive dissonance.
 
In the beginning of the day I think that it’s [laughing at homosexual people] wrong, but at the end of the day, I can’t help laughing at the folly of it [homosexuality] all.

Is that so wrong? It might be, though I’ve always thought that folly implies a certain contradiction and since contradictions are funny, I thought that follies were funny too. Is this wrong, to laugh at **our **or other’s faults?
You are backpeddling now. You original post said nothing about laughing at your own faults so let’s stick with what you are doing. What you are doing is wrong. I’m not talking about actors paid to play a part, I’m talking about YOU and what you are doing to denigrate or humiliate others. You need to look at your motives. If you don’t believe me, why aren’t you asking a priest instead of posting here and then attempting to quantify it? The priest is going to tell you what I told you and remind you of Christian love. Here’s your opportunity.

You might want to bring up the topic of scrupulosity too as I read an element of them in your frequent posts. Personally, I think these are fake questions and you are a troll. Indeed, now in the daytime your think it’s not okay, but by the the time nightful comes you find them funny. Are we to even believe this latest revelation?

Welcome to my block list.
 
user "leegal":
If you don’t believe me, why aren’t you asking a priest instead of posting here and then attempting to quantify it?
(1) I’m assuming that my problems have common answers such that I don’t need a priest to answer them. I think that this question is such a one.

(2) It’s not like I don’t believe you -I’m just continuing to argue to see some elaboration from other people.
 
Well I stated that I laughed at the sin since sins clearly lower the amount yourself or anyone takes you seriously.
epic FAIL

Also a FAIL, CatholicPotato’s “Probably on the technicality it isnt funny. BUT if we could not find sinful things funny what exactly would we laugh at? Life would be pretty depressing.”
 
Well I stated that I laughed at the sin since sins clearly lower the amount yourself or anyone takes you seriously.
Epic FAIL

Also FAIL, CatholicPotato’s “Probably on the technicality it isnt funny. BUT if we could not find sinful things funny what exactly would we laugh at? Life would be pretty depressing.”
 
Well I stated that I laughed at the sin since sins clearly lower the amount yourself or anyone takes you seriously.
Epic FAIL!

Also a FAIL: CatholicPotato’s “Probably on the technicality it isnt funny. BUT if we could not find sinful things funny what exactly would we laugh at? Life would be pretty depressing.”
 
I find their feminine antics funny, not the immoral sex. Is that somehow disordered?
No.

Scrupulosity, however, is; and judging by the very, very large numbers of inane questions you have been asking on these forums, you seem to be suffering from it. Please consult a spiritual adviser and seek guidance.
 
No.

Scrupulosity, however, is; and judging by the very, very large numbers of inane questions you have been asking on these forums, you seem to be suffering from it. Please consult a spiritual adviser and seek guidance.
:clapping:

I’m glad someone else noticed.
 
I find their feminine antics funny, not the immoral sex. Is that somehow disordered?
Do you pick and choose often? :rolleyes:

<< 1 Corinthians 6:9-10>>
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Know you not that the unjust shall not possess the kingdom of God? Do not err: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, Nor the effeminate, nor liers with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor railers, nor extortioners, shall possess the kingdom of God.
 
So what? They train, they live in close quarters, etc., etc. If homosexuals in militaries created problems, we’d be able to see it in other militaries, even if they are actually used less than our military.

What some people are asking us to believe is that the American military is so weak and so…well…sensitive – not to mention immature – that merely knowing that some of their fellow soldiers are different in some way is going to send all of the straight soldiers into a tizzy and “ruin” an otherwise perfectly powerful fighting force.

I mean, what the heck?
This sounds like it came directly from a person who never spent a day wearing green carrying a weapon. what the heck? how about “I am a medic you are wounded but I don’t want and probably wont treat you because of my real fear of your blood carried pathogens.” And while we are talking about disease lets talk about the 200 or so % higher rate of std in homosexuals vs straight people. And seeings how while there is a sexual promiscuity problem among those straight soldiers it is really statistically significantly less than that among homosexual men. and yes there is serious health concerns when a solider with crabs must sleep within a few feet of several other soldiers. and that is the stuff I can talk about when minors might be listening. yes this change will cause large and varied problems. I use to know a few SF who would have probably literally killed a guy found to be gay in there unit not because they were mad at him but because they could no longer trust him. you won’t get that either. in fact that will not make sense to anyone who has not worn the uniform and stood to and wondered if they would be alive at dinner. just my two cents but I did my 4 and I know the problems a little better than you do. not that that makes me an expert.
 
user "michelleds":
epic FAIL

Also a FAIL, CatholicPotato’s “Probably on the technicality it isnt funny. BUT if we could not find sinful things funny what exactly would we laugh at? Life would be pretty depressing.”
why is it wrong?

And (2) if its wrong because it is sinful, then wouldn’t that invalidate satire?

After all it seems possible that any sin whatever is a type of self-parody or satire and if so, can they be laughed at?

As far as I’m concerned there hasn’t been a final answer to this discussion, but I think that an answer is within our reach, so I will not consult a priest yet.
 
user "sw85":
No.

Scrupulosity, however, is; and judging by the very, very large numbers of inane questions you have been asking on these forums, you seem to be suffering from it. Please consult a spiritual adviser and seek guidance.
(1) why is it [laughing about gays] not wrong?

(2) If you think I should talk to a priest about scrupulosity I’ll go, but it seems ironically overly scrupulous to do so since I’ve already talked to one and he claimed I wasn’t scrupulous at all.

So what’s your opinion?
 
Would you like it if people mocked you? The Bible tells us to treat others as we would wish to be treated, and to love our neighbors as ourselves. Where does making a mockery of a person fit into this?
 
why is it wrong?

And (2) if its wrong because it is sinful, then wouldn’t that invalidate satire?

After all it seems possible that any sin whatever is a type of self-parody or satire and if so, can they be laughed at?

As far as I’m concerned there hasn’t been a final answer to this discussion, but I think that an answer is within our reach, so I will not consult a priest yet.
It’s one thing to laugh at the futility of some of it as worship of Folly, but quite another to laugh at man for being somewhat feminine specially if the femininity is “academic effeminate”. If it is actually that then you may just have a concept of masculinity that is incompatible with Catholicism.
 
Forgive me for saying so, but that sounds suspiciously like the way one would begin an opinion.
Then forgive me for saying so but then you’ve missed the point or have not read what I wrote properly. I personally don’t feel that open gays in military would impact fighting ability of troops overall. However my opinion is not qualified because I am not a soldier or a military officer. It does not count.
It is meaningless. You on the other hand think you’re qualified in some sense. I won’t challenge that but I will challenge what you’ve said here because I don’t think it’s accurate.

You brought up the issue that OTHER Western militaries are gay friendly and have no issues. I then responded that I think that analogy fails because most of the other gay friendly militaries are Western and don’t do much fighting in Iraq/Afghanistan/elsewhere. The Americans fight in the worst places, vs other Western countries which mostly do policing and logistic aid / humanitarian aid in very safe locations - such as the Germans and Dutch and even the Koreans/Japanese. Note that I am not American, but you guys do the vast bulk of the REAL fighting. Most of the NATO allies do very little fighting in comparison and are present in small numbers. I say this as someone who has a cousin who is a NATO officer in Afghanistan and who is not American.
So what? They train, they live in close quarters, etc., etc. If homosexuals in militaries created problems, we’d be able to see it in other militaries, even if they are actually used less than our military.
Problems may arise where they count, not so much in barracks but under stress of fighting. I think most soldiers would have issues with morale under duress or stress then in every day, day to day, behind the lines activities. I don’t think UNICEF or RED CROSS have problems with open gays in their employ but then they don’t do what the Americans do and pretty much do what the Germans do.
What some people are asking us to believe is that the American military is so weak and so…well…sensitive – not to mention immature – that merely knowing that some of their fellow soldiers are different in some way is going to send all of the straight soldiers into a tizzy and “ruin” an otherwise perfectly powerful fighting force.
I mean, what the heck?
I can’t comment. But I would think that anything that upsets the morale of soldiers fighting together could be a risk on their lives and effectiveness. If a soldier has psychological issues or has his mind set on problems at home, that could impact his effectiveness especially when split second decisions count. I personally don’t think that gays who behave as straight troops could be problematic, but if two men are engaged in openly sexual relationship or are encouraged to seek relationship by the tacit approval of activists and the military, their bond could jeopardize other soldiers as we know they may prefer to protect each other than protect a teammate they are not involved with. I think I would do that. I would come to my girlfriend’s aid over coming to the aid of a good friend or a stranger. But again this may or may not be an issue and I don’t know. Real soldiers should comment here. If real soldiers raise these concerns, I don’t think you and I are able to refute them, unless you have some credentials I don’t know of.
Further, what about the historical example of the ancient Greek armies, which encouraged sexual relationships between male soldiers in order to strengthen their bonds on the battlefield? Homosexuality certainly didn’t “ruin” the Greek army.
I can’t comment but such an analogy fails I think. There are just too many differences between Ancient Greeks and modern Americans. The nature of fighting has also changed.
I’m reminded of that hysterical line from The Bird Cage: “Then I learned Alexander the Great was a [homosexual]…talk about gays in the military!”
But he was commander in chief. So that analogy fails too. Besides the Bird Cage was an activist film. I wouldn’t count it as anything but one sided propaganda, and we get that on both sides. You wouldn’t want me to quote what Westboro Baptist church says would you? Again FAIL.

I think it’s important to distinguish personal opinion from more qualified opinion. Pretty much of the time, things appear simple to us, but when we study them more and more in depth we realise that these simple things are immensely complex. I think it’s unfair to offer opinion on issues which I have no clue about and where my own life would not be jeopardised either way. I think lives of the people involved are more important than moans of activists who have other priorities.
 
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