I want a bf but no guy asks me out

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Catholicmatch.com or Catholicsingles.com
lily22 said:
I am 35, pretty ok looking, and play music in town and I just moved to Portland but nobody ever asks me out. I have played at church services all my life and absolutely no guy in the Catholic church asks me out., except for once and I was not performing, but it didn’t work out because he was not very conservative. I even play multiple services sometimes.

I don’t get it.

What am I doing wrong???
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Zzyzx_Road said:
You want God to put someone in your life? You got to help Him by getting out of the house otherwise He doesn’t have the opportunity to put someone in your path. Can’t afford dating sites? They’re not for everyone, true, but they’re not that expensive. You might try waiting for their introductory special prices and being ready with good photos and good copy. If it doesn’t work, at least you tried it. Main idea behind all of these get-out-of-the-house suggestions is you got to go where the single men you might be interested in are likely to be. And one more suggestion: look around at Mass. A man sitting by himself a few rows over might be worth talking to. Maybe it’s not him, but he’s got a friend, you never know about these things.
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Wow, can’t afford a dating site, yet wants to marry.

I am sure some priest or some idiot will marry this one when she does find a mate.

And then divorce.

You people are nearly as bad murderers, if not worse.
 
KonstantinS said:
Wow, can’t afford a dating site, yet wants to marry.

I am sure some priest or some idiot will marry this one when she does find a mate.

And then divorce.

You people are nearly as bad murderers, if not worse.
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Hello.

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this frustration in your life.

Please feel free to pm me.

God bless.
lily22 said:
I am 35, pretty ok looking, and play music in town and I just moved to Portland but nobody ever asks me out. I have played at church services all my life and absolutely no guy in the Catholic church asks me out., except for once and I was not performing, but it didn’t work out because he was not very conservative. I even play multiple services sometimes.

I don’t get it.

What am I doing wrong???
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I know of a lovely couple who didn’t meet until their late 30s. It took a long time, but finally, God led them to each other.

Trust God and keep praying.
 
In my opinion, joining an online dating website may help you meet the person you are searching for but if you are looking for a person who shares the same belief that you have, consider joining a catholic dating site such as faithfulmatch.net/ . I heard a lot of success stories, it’s worth a try.

AnneG
 
I would sugguest getting active in church groups and prayers to St. Raphael, patron saint of good encounters.
 
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